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Todd Spann Obituary
Todd Spann, age 46, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, December 25, 2010 in San Antonio. He was born on November 11, 1964 in Denton, Texas. A lifelong San Antonio resident, he graduated James Madison High School and earned a bachelors degree in Psychology from Howard Payne University. Todd joined the Air Force reserves and was called to serve his country during Desert Storm. Todd lived a deeply spiritual life. He had a deep reverence and concern for those less fortunate than he. This led to a great empathy, love and affection for the elderly and the sick. He demonstrated this in a choice of careers that allowed him to focus on the needs of those he felt called upon to help. He felt it a privilege to be able to dedicate his life to acting upon his convictions. Todd was widely regarded as a born leader. He demonstrated this leadership as Vice President of Marketing at Air Force Village. He also provided instrumental leadership at The Village at Incarnate Word, and was selected to manage business outreach and development initiatives at Incarnate Word. Todd was blessed with a beautiful lyric tenor voice. His musical diversity enabled performances in roles spanning local musical theatre to a choral performance at Carnegie Hall. He was an avid fan of the Churchill High School Drum Line, and was a volunteer with numerous charitable organizations, including Habitat for Humanity. He was very active in Democratic Party politics culminating in an invitation to the Inauguration of President Barack Obama. Todd was preceded in death by his mother, Delores Ann Spann. Todd is survived by his partner of thirty-one years, Tommy Preston, Jr.; sisters; Renee Spann Parker and husband Jack Parker, Angelia Colwell Berkowitz and husband Carl M. Berkowitz, M.D.; sisters-in-law; Chrissie Preston Kolb and husband Howard Kolb, Ashley Preston Sipes and husband Shawn, and Brooke Preston; nephews; Brad Parker, Douglas Todd Parker, Nathan Berkowitz and Peyton Kolb; Nieces; Jordan Kolb, Emily Kolb and Chelsea Berkowitz; father-in-law; Tom Preston, Sr. and wife Mary Preston, mother-in-law; Anita Preston Harrison; aunt; Shirley Jones and husband Freddie Jones; his best friend of 22 years Wynette Hadnott Keller, as well as other friends and family too numerous to mention.
MEMORIAL MASS WITH MILITARY HONORS
TUESDAY
JANUARY 4, 2011
6:00 P.M.
THE CHAPEL OF THE INCARNATE WORD
THE UNIVERSITY OF THE INCARNATE WORD
4503 BROADWAY
SAN ANTONIO, TX 78209
Fr. Ramon J. Gonzalez will officiate. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Sisters Care, at the Village at Incarnate Word, 4707 Broadway, San Antonio, Texas 78209 or to The Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word, 4503 Broadway, San Antonio, Texas 78209.
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Lester Gibbs, SGM, US Army, Retired
December 27, 2023
I've known Todd and his partner Tommy since they were students at Madison High School and friends with my sons. He had a kind and generous spirit and would often visit us. His death was tragic news, but his life was filled with great moments and those who knew him will always have good memories.
Carol Coleman and Ysidro Bustamante
January 11, 2011
Todd and Tom were some of the first folks to welcome us to our new neighborhood. We were delighted when they joined us in Nov. for an Open House and looked forward to future visits. We deeply regret Todd's passing before we had the chance to know him better and offer our deepest sympathy to Tom and their families. You are all in our prayers.
Sylvia & Joe Rodriguez
January 9, 2011
To Tom and Todd, I can't imagine one without the other, you were always happy and fun loving, seeing you talking sometimes for hours, almost everyday made me happy, knowing we were doing something right. Yes serving those mexican plates. Todd you will be greatly missed. You have our deepest sympathy, and you will always be in our prayers. From our family Taco Riendo Mex. Rest. to yours, we will miss you. God Bless you Todd.
Virginia Yapp
January 4, 2011
Dear Tommy and Angelia and Renee,
I wanted to be there with you so badly but I couldn't get a flight out on such short notice. You are in my thoughts every day and I love and miss you all. It has been a long time since I stayed with you and Todd but you have been very good to me and I am grateful for that time. I will miss Todd forever and will hold his memory dear in my heart. I will pray for you every day that God will ease your pain.
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Vivian Edwards
January 3, 2011
Todd, Where do I begin.. What an Honor to have called you my Boss, my Mentor but Mostly my Friend. We started out at P&M and continued when you joined Air Force Village, I have so many Fond Memories, we shared alot of Laughter. You will Forever have a place in my Heart. To Tommie and your Family you have my Deepest Sympathy, He so Love you ALL...God Bless each of you. We have an Angel in Heaven watching over us All now. I Thank You for Being My Friend, Till We Meet Again My Friend Shine on....Love You..
Belinda Torres Hernandez
January 3, 2011
To Tommy & Todd's family, you have my deepest sympathy and my prayers of God's comfort and understanding be with each of you. God brings gifts to our lives and Todd was one indeed! Todd was a super sweet friend, co-worker and respected as a fine professional. He treated you like you were part of his family! Always nice, always driven by his caring heart and had a warm loving smile. I had the pleasure to work with him at The Village at Incarnate Word. Todd you will be missed tremendously -- thank you for "always" being nice to me and everyone around you. It was my pleasure and a blessing to have known you - we will meet again in paradise. Belinda Torres Hernandez
ron morris
January 3, 2011
Todd, it was a pleasure to work with you at P & M. Loved your personality. God bless you and your family.
Lester Gibbs
January 3, 2011
Todd, You brought life and light to so many lives and good memories will always be with us. To Tommy, Renee and all of the family members, we extend our heartfelt sympathy, knowing that we will again meet in the Life that is Eternal with Christ as our Lord and Savior and all share in the Banquet Feast of the Lamb. SGM Lester Gibbs, USA, Retired
Monica Ayala
January 3, 2011
Todd, I know you will be greatly missed by such a loving family. To Tommy and the family, my deepest condolescence and sympathy to you all. You will remain on my prayer list for healing from such a great loss. I love you all. Love, Monica Ayala
January 3, 2011
RIP Todd, your Smile will be Greatly Missed. Doris Singleton !!
Ron Jennette
January 3, 2011
My deepest sympathy to family and friends, including both former & most recent co-workers of Todd. What a blessing he has been to each of us who had the good fortune to know and/or work with him. His passion, commitment and concern for others was always evident and inspiring. He truly made a positive difference in our lives and the lives of others as he led by example in giving his best while helping & encouraging those around him to do their best. May God's peace be with all who are struggling to deal with this tragic loss.
Chrissie Kolb
January 3, 2011
Todd, I can not express in words the feeling of grief that I am feeling right now. I want to thank you for taking such great care of my brother. He loves you deeply and so do I. You have been in our lives for over 30 years and I don't know how we are supposed to get along without you. I will miss the wonderful times we had together, your love and kindness was felt by all that knew you. You cared so much for your family and friends and we are all better for knowing you. I love you and will sincerely miss you. Tommy, know that Todd will ALWAYS be with you, he will help you get up, do great things with your life, he will take each step with you, and never leave your side. We were blessed to have him in our family. God bless you my brother. I LOVE YOU! Love, your Sister
Tommy Preston
January 2, 2011
My love. It was the greatest joy in my life to have you for 31 years. When you look at me, I'm everything and more I'd ever dreamed I'd be. I told your father that he gave you life and it was my job to give you a blessed life. I don't know how I will be able to go on. My endless love.
1982 yearbook photo
Todd Spann
January 2, 2011
January 2, 2011
Todd,we are so sad and lost with out you, everyone at work is heart broken to loss a great boss and friend.. you are and will always be missed, our deepest sympathy to all your family and friends... SISER CARE EMPLOYEES
January 2, 2011
TODD, WE MISS YOU SO MUCH AND JUST THE THOUGHT THAT YOU ARE NOT WITH US LEAVES AN EMTYNESS IN OUR HEARTS. HAVING TO HEAR THE LOSS OF A GREAT BOSS AND FRIEND, OR JUST KNOWING THAT A LIFE HAS BEEN TAKEN IS VERY SAD TO ANYONE... EVERYDAY I SIT AND WAIT FOR YOU TO WALK THRU AND SAY "GOOD MORNING TO ALL OF US JUST LIKE YOU ALWAYS DID.. " WE WOULD GIVE ANYTHING JUST TO SEE YOU SMILE AND YOUR JOYFULNESS ONCE AGAIN, THAT WOULD MAKE EVERYTHING JUST HOW IT WAS", TODD, THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR EVERYONE, AND FOR JUST BEING YOU... I WILL CARRY YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND MEMORIES ALWAYS, MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND GUIDE US FROM UP ABOVE.. WHEN WE ARE DOWN HELP LIFT US UP.. PROTECT US AND BE OUR GUARDIAN ANGEL AT ALL TIMES.. HELP REMIND US AND GUIDE US IN EVERYTHING YOU SHOWED US TO DO, IN SPIRIT.. MAY OUR GOOD LORD PROTECT AND KEEP YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAFE..
YOURS TRULY,
CO-WORKER & FRIEND
JOANN HERNANDEZ LOPEZ
January 2, 2011
Todd you will truly be missed as a friend and neighbor. Susan and I send our deepest sympathy to Tommy and your family. Love, Norma and Susan
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