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Anthony Roe

1930 - 2016

Anthony Roe obituary, 1930-2016, San Diego, CA

BORN

1930

DIED

2016

Anthony Roe Obituary

Anthony Tony' Roe March 11, 1930 - October 1, 2016 San Diego On Oct. 1st, 2016 our father Anthony "Tony" Roe, peacefully passed at the age of 86 years, surrounded by his loving family. Tony was born March 11, 1930 in San Pedro, Ca. He was a natural athlete excelling in all sports. He had the chance to play baseball for Notre Dame, but was given a baseball scholarship from the San Diego Padre's President Bill Starr to attend SDSU.Tony served in the Air Force from 1950 to 1954 as a mechanic on B-52's in the Korean war. While on leave in Boston he met his true love Martha, who he was married to for 56 years till her passing.Tony worked two jobs while earning his masters in Industrial Arts.Tony coached baseball from the time his only son Jim could swing a bat, but was proud to brag he had six daughters. It was how our family spent our weekends and made us into sports fanatics.Tony's career started as a work shop teacher at O'Farrell High School where he loved to instruct students how to build using wood. His devotion and dedication to his work was parallel to his commitment and love he had for Martha and his seven children.He then transitioned to a career counselor where he helped high school students with counseling for on the job training and college choices. He was instrumental in creating a hands on program for students interested in teaching as a career. He retired in 1990 as the Director of Career Development to spend more quality time with his wife and growing family.Our favorite memories growing up is going fishing at the OB pier, driving across country to Boston, great BBQ's and holiday celebrations.Our father was very proud of the home he built and his only wish was to remain in his home till his passing. "We kept your promise Dad!"Tony is survived by his seven children, Jim, Paula, Marybeth (Tom Engle), Marcella, Pammy, Daneen (Kyle Kodra) and Michelle, along with 20 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren, his brother Tom Perkins and sister Rosemary Monroy.He was preceded in death by his loving wife Martha, father Phillipi Torres and mother Rosalina Hurtado.He would always say, "You're the captain of your own ship". Dad, your ship has sailed away into eternal peace. 1-4-3 Your seven children.A memorial mass will be held Wednesday, October 5th, at San Diego Mission de Alcala at 11;30 and a burial at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery, location CBI, row 1 unit 6, Friday October 7th, at 2:00PM, both of which are open to the public with receptions to follow.In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Garden of Innocence.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 4, 2016.

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Pam OGorman

October 1, 2024

Miss you dad!!! OMG peter is you!!! He is an incredible ball player... Football player... Basketball player and soccer player!!! He has your body and your strive for perfection. They both are athletes... We send you birthday balloons and they say... We miss you Papa!!!! As much as I miss you I feel you with me everyday... You gave me the greatest gift of all.... My grandsons that I have the honor of being with then everyday. They are so funny and life is so perfect.... They know every player on every sports team and are so smart. They both lost their bottom teeth this week and we're so excited... We love and miss you!!!

Pammy

October 2, 2022

Papa... You would go crazy seeing Peter and Preston... They are 100 percent YOU!!!! I know you sent them to us. Peter even hangs his tongue out when he's hits the baseball. Can't believe it's been 6 years!!! Love you dad and thank you for being my guardian angel.... I'm so blessed

Pamela A O'Gorman

October 1, 2022

Mis you papa....

Larry Steinbrecher

March 3, 2020

Family and friends of Sir Tony:
Sorry this is so late in arriving;
just learned of his passing from
Vickie Ward. I taught math and science
at O'Farrell in the 60's. Tony was always quick with shop help I needed in my
science classes. He was beloved and
respected by all!
That photo of him in his jersey was
exactly as I remember him. What a
handsome dude.
Best to all. RIP Sir Tony!

Rick Bitzer

July 1, 2018

Mr. Roe was a second father, neighbor, counselor and friend. I remember him from Little League, as a teacher and as a father to a great family. The world lost a good man when he left however I am sure Martha is happy to have him back

Marybeth Engle

October 14, 2016

Just hitting me that you are really gone.... Miss you dad. Love Mb

Marybeth Engle

October 9, 2016

Marybeth Engle

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Marybeth Engle

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Marybeth Engle

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Marybeth Engle

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Connie Brown

October 9, 2016

I worked with Tony at SD Unified "Career Development" on 12th Ave between E and F St beginning in 1967. An amazing role model, shared absolute love of family and friends - was there anyone that was not an instant friend of Tony's?. The family is in my prayers and know that wonderful memories will bring a smile when tears appear.

John Carter

October 8, 2016

Please accept my condolences to all of the Roe family. Mr. Roe was my baseball coach when I was a kid, and I was good friends with Jim growing up. I remember Mr. Roe as having some good and positive influence on my life when I was young, and for that I am grateful he was put in my life at that time.

Bill Goodale

October 6, 2016

Jim, Paula and family,
I read about your fathers passing, please accept Sandy's and my condolences. We always enjoyed our time around him and of course talking about baseball and all other sports. Lots of good times! Ours thoughts and prayers are with you!
Stork and Sandy Goodale

Gary Bihler

October 5, 2016

Mr. Roe was my woodshop teacher at O'Farrell Junior High when I was a 7th grader back in 1959. It was a wonderful experience being his student. He helped us all in the making of a sail boat to race in the regatta. I shed a few tears after reading about this great person who meant so much to me as my workshop teacher. I was so proud of what I had accomplished in his class.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. You all
should be so proud.

Peg London

October 5, 2016

My heart is with you, Pammy. I'm so glad you had such special time with your dad recently. I hope it gives you peace and wonderful memories.

Before surgery 2015

Pammy Roe

October 5, 2016

SOMETHING OF YOU
I am going to ask something of you
That I never thought I would
Believe me if I had the choice
I'd choose to die if I could
But the choice is not mine
There's not much I can do
That's why I have to ask
This something of you

Please can you stay and hold my hand
When I am all alone
The touch of my child's hand
Is much different then the phone
Please can you help me stand up and walk
For my legs are getting weak
This isn't what I ever dreamt
My child's help to seek
Please can you gently wash my back
And maybe brush my hair
I know you have a life
I know this isn't fair
Please understand if I frustrate you
I am only here for a little bit more
And I pray that you're beside me
As I enter Heaven's door

For it is there I will no longer need you
And that's when I will do
EVERYTHING imaginable
To watch over you

Thank you my child
For doing all you could
When I had to ask something of you
That I never thought I would!

By Pammy RED Roe
In memory of Papa

October 4, 2016

Tony and Martha were such awesome human beings....never judged and always offering positive encouragement to my sisters and I......they both were the kindness souls heaven could put in our path....we remember them both with love and will try to live up to their kind spirit.....Yvonne, Yvette, Barbara, Sr. Linette, and Darlene

Jeff Walls

October 4, 2016

O'Farrell Jr. High, circa 1959-1960
How fortunate I was to receive a wood shop class taught by Mr. Anthony Roe. Mr Roe was like having your favorite uncle as your mentor. Shop class was scheduled for 55 minutes, but seemed like 6 because it was so enjoyable. Mr. Roe instilled safety, tool use, material specs and hands on project builds.
Equally for me, Mr. Roe was a great influence towards work ethics and setting your sights higher in preparation for life,
I never forgot Mr. Roe and never will because he was the gold medal champion of industrial arts.

October 4, 2016

Martha & Tony has been such wonderful friend and neighbor.
We are very fortunate to have lived near such wonder people.
God Bless and love you both,
David & Maryjo

October 4, 2016

To Roe family

I'm very sad by this news and surprised how much it hit me today. Even though its been years and more like decades, I remember being coached by Tony Roe in little league and Pony league.

He always believed in me and as a baseball player. I always remember that as an umpire, you didn't want to make a the wrong call against Coach Tony because the umpire was going to receive a few minutes of high octane feedback..I use to like it when it happened.

I remember Jimmy, Paula and MaryBeth like it was yesterday and you should be proud of him as a Dad.

Jimmy Westrom

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5

Memorial service

11:30 a.m.

San Diego Mission de Alcala

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Oct

7

Burial

2:00 p.m.

Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery

location CBI, row 1, unit 6, CA

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