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Betty Minor Obituary

MINOR, BETTY Betty Minor passed away early on the morning of April 22, 2009, after losing her battle with melanoma. Her family and her many friends are saddened by the loss of Betty and husband Ray, who predeceased her in December, 2008. Betty was born in 1925, and raised in El Cajon, graduating from Grossmont High School in 1942. After high school, she worked as a secretary for Western Electric in San Diego and even spent some time working in New York City. In January of 1946, she met her one true love, Ray Minor. She often told us that the moment she met him, she knew that he was the one. The marriage that took place six months later lasted more than sixty years and is regarded by everyone to be an example of what true love should be. Betty had three children, Linda, Janice "Buzzie" (Jim Langford) and Jim (Robin) who shared in the happiness and love that Mom provided. Mom's talents were many. She was an expert in all household business, and there was nothing that she could not mend, cook or find a home remedy for. Mom was the queen of "homemade" and her creations filled our stomachs, our closets and our hearts. She also had a talent for the arts and sang in a choir and had an impressive portfolio of sketches. When Mom and Dad retired in 1976, they began spending their summers on the Swan River in Montana. Building and maintaining their retirement home, Minorvana, kept them young and provided the perfect setting for Betty to entertain her many visitors. She loved to float the river on her inner tube and did so into her eighties. A trip to Montana was never complete until Mom guided you through the rapids and pointed out the Osprey nest. In addition to her children, Mom is survived by her three grandchildren, Wes, Kellen and Carly Minor. We miss you Mom, but will hold you in our hearts forever. A celebration of Mom's life will be held at the home of Jim and Robin Minor, 8260 Golden Ave. in Lemon Grove, on Friday, May 1st, from 4 to 7 p.m.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Apr. 28, 2009.

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Deanna (Brady) Sampson

May 4, 2009

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing then reading where you lost your dad, as well, in December. I have many fond memories of your wonderful parents. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

May 2, 2009

Dear Buzzie,Jimmy and Lyndie,
Rick and I were deeply saddened as we read about your mom's passing. Your mom was a true example of what a mom should be. So warm, loving and always had a smile and kind word to share. I do believe she and your Dad are together once again. May God Bless you all as you pull together during this time.
-Patty & Rick Hill

Coralynn & Andy Anderson

April 28, 2009

We will head back up to Big Fork and the Swan River in the next few weeks, but it just won't be the same. Once we found Ray and Betty and their beloved 'Minorvana', our lives changed for the better. We're saddened by Betty's passing but gladdened by the fact that she will once again be with Ray. Our love and deepest sympathy to all family members.

Wendy Maruyama

April 28, 2009

Dear Janice and extended family: Please accept my condolences on the loss of your mom. I know she was such a special person. And you were a wonderful daughter, Janice.

Kate Palese

April 28, 2009

I am so sad that your mom has passed. She was the quintessential "Mom". My thoughts are with you.

Tacey Begor

April 28, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

JOHN & CRAIG

April 28, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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