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CASSANDRA LOPEZ Obituary

LOPEZ, CASSANDRA Cassandra Lopez, EA, was born on September 27, 1952, in Houston, Texas. Cassandra passed away on December 30, 2009, after a sudden illness. Cassandra lived in and around San Diego since 1976. Cassandra was a very special person who could charm the birds out of the trees with her smile and the twinkle in her blue eyes. Cassandra became a member of the Inland Society of Tax Consultants Inc. in 1991. Cassandra was President of the San Diego Chapter of Enrolled Agents from 1997-1998. Cassandra graduated as a Fellow from the National Tax Practice Institute in 1999. Surviving Cassandra are husband Ben Lopez, her son Benjamin Lopez, her father Bob Pettit, five brothers and two sisters: Mike Pettit, Phil Pettit, Thom Pettit, Tim Pettit, Josh Pettit, Katrina Fritz and Jennifer Allred.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jan. 19, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for CASSANDRA LOPEZ

Sponsored by Michael A. Pettit.

19 Entries

Josh Pettit

May 19, 2010

I truly loved Sandi. She was the happiest person I know - always happy.
I wish I could have spent more time with her. I will miss her.

Katrina Pettit Fritz

May 1, 2010

I was only 5 when Sandi got married and I remember with great fondness the many times I used to spend the night with her and Ben.
She was always so wonderful to me. She was my hero. As I got older, I realized how close we were in so many ways which made us close in spirit. Even though we lived thousands of miles away, it was like we were never apart when we did get to visit.
She gave love, understanding, kindness, and generosity deeper meaning for so many. Her wit and humor made you feel at ease in any situation.

I continue to admire the pure strength of character she displayed with such dignity and grace. I will forever have a piece of me missing but I am so thankful for such wonderful memories of a beautiful sister.

Phil Pettit

April 30, 2010

I am fortunate to have had a big sister like Sandi, I can't express in words, I never could, but she always understood without words. Thank you Sandi, I love you.
Phillip.

Tim Pettit

March 16, 2010

Sandi! wow what a "Special" Sister! even her laugh was different! She could laugh about nothing, and yet you knew it was, hilarious when you heard about it. Sandi! we will miss your laugh, and your since of humor, along with "All" the other good you brought into our lives. You are a "Dear" "One"! and an "Angel" you were!!I will miss you very much.
Your Brother, Tim

Tim Pettit

March 12, 2010

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Gus Vigil

March 6, 2010

Cassandra I think you were a great, great person. You were always kind and very generous and also very industrious. The time that you helped Delia with the "mexican schmorgous borg", you never complained or griped about the work or what you were doing. I admired your enthusiasm. Also, you were so good to your sister Rebecca. You were like a mother to my girls, that was commemorable. I am so happy to have had the privilege of knowing you. I will always remember you as that very fine person you were. With love, Gustavo.

michael pettit

March 2, 2010

Sandi was the "perfect" sister. We were close growing up as kids, close as we both became adults...although she was younger than me,i must admit, she did mature as an adult before i did. You were loved, you will be missed. I love you Sandi

Your loving brother for ever

Sandi was my best friend growing up, stayed my best friend thru life. I love you & will miss you for ever. Your brother, Mike

March 2, 2010

Emilia Larson

February 11, 2010

If You Come Across An Angel
by
Emilia Larson

Every day in the world around us real-life angels are doing the things they do and bringing more smiles to the world around them....

Real-life angels build bridges instead of walls. They don't play hide-and-seek with the truth, and they don't have hidden agendas. They tend to be the only ones who understand what you're going through. If they sense that you're hurting, they do whatever they can to help you. Real-life angels understand difficulties and always give you the benefit of the doubt. They don't hold others up to standards they can't live themselves. Real-life angels are what "inner beauty" is all about.

Real-life angels don't hold things against you; the only thing they hold is your hand in theirs when you could use a little reassurance. They walk beside you when you could use a little guidance and direction in your life. And they support you in your attempt to do what is right.

Real-life angels multiply your smiles and add to your integrity. They make you feel like, "Hey, I really am somebody who matters". They quietly prove to you how beautiful and true that feeling really is.

If you come across an angel like this, you are one of the luckiest people of all.

If someone in your life is wonderfully like an angel to you, it's important to let them know. It's the nicest compliment you could ever give....in all the days of your life and in all the years that you live.

Thank you Cassandra for being my real-life angel.

Joan Pettit

January 31, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Thom Pettit

January 27, 2010

We will miss our sister. She was smart and funny. She was always willing to lend advice or help. May Jehovah remember her as 'the work of His hands' and bring her back to life when He restores paradise to mankind.

January 25, 2010

I miss my best friend and the mother of our beautiful son. Cassandra had class, charm, and a great sense of humor. Cassandra was very smart and could communicate her intelligence with humility and grace. When least expected and clear out of the blue Cassandra would tell me "I love you". I love you too Sandi.

Ben Lopez

January 25, 2010

I miss my best friend and mother of our beautiful son. Cassandra was always supportive and loving. Cassandra was kind and generous. Cassandra was thoughtful and had a great sense of humor. When I would least expect it and clear out of the blue Cassandra would tell me "I love you". I love you too Sandi.

Sandi with Mom, Jenny, and Becky holding baby Benjamin

Jenny Allred

January 25, 2010

Sandi really was a special person and a wonderful, loving, kind and generous sister. I'm just sorry that I didn't get to spend more time with her in the past few years. I'll see her "on the other side" where we will have forever to visit.(John 5:28) Rest in God's memory.

Judi S

January 21, 2010

It was a privilege and pleasure to know Cassandra. She was a very special person in so many ways. Ben and Benjamin, I am so very sorry for your loss.

January 19, 2010

I have a feeling you and Becky are up there looking over your family and smiling, I always will remember your gentle nature and sense of humor. You were a good person and we will miss you very much. Benjamin, I know your mom loved you very much.As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Love Annie Pettit

January 19, 2010

The San Diego EAs have missed her, her knowledge, and her input and often mentioned and thought about her. Our condolences to all her family and close friends.
Elaine Smith, EA

SANDY Z

January 19, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

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