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Erin Steiner Obituary


Erin McKenzie Steiner (nee Holman) passed away peacefully at home on April 25 following a five year journey battling breast cancer that had metastasized to her brain.
Erin was born in San Antonio, Texas, and lived in Spain for four years with her family before moving to Solana Beach at the age of nine, where she grew up and graduated from Torrey Pines High School in 1986.
An accounting major graduate at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, she met and married her husband, Derek Steiner, and obtained her CPA license. She was associated with several public, private accounting and private business firms; most recently Pacific Science and Engineering, and made lasting friendships at each location.
Always an athlete, Erin played championship soccer at Torrey Pines and represented Cal Poly in both soccer and competitive cycling where she met her husband Derek, and she continued to stay active in both sports for many years.
She is survived by her husband Derek, daughter McKenzie, son Thomas, her parents Colin and Victoria Holman, her brother Derek (Christina) and niece and nephews Ava, Breccan and Davis.
In each of her many roles as wife, mother, daughter, sister, granddaughter, aunt, niece, sorority sister, sister-in-law, athletic teammate, co-worker and neighbor, she brought to each relationship a beautiful smile, empathetic understanding and connection that formed lasting bonds.
Unfailingly conscious of all the love and encouragement she received over the past years, her final words were "Thank you."
A celebration of life, casual dress reception will be held on Saturday, July 29, at Solana Beach Presbyterian Church, Debin Hall, at 11:00AM.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Jul. 9 to Jul. 20, 2023.

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JP

March 28, 2025

May God give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. Sending condolences to her family and friends. She will be greatly missed and forever remembered. I am so saddened to hear of her passing.

Rashida

September 20, 2023

I just found out Erin passed. I am so sorry. She was one of my favorite patients. Her smile, hope, and bravery was just so inspiring. I always loved to care for her. May she rest in peace. I will always remember her with love. My condolences to you all.

Eddie Salgado

July 14, 2023

Always good fun and good times with you Erin. Rides, hikes, camping, working on your house, New Years and visits. Big smiles and always laughter.

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Deanna Ratnikova

July 10, 2023

Sending love and prayers for your family.

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