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Izanne Leonard-Haak
March 28, 2005
I am the daughter of Col. Jack Leonard, Retired USMC, deceased, a long time friend of Col. Carpenter. Our whole family used to look forward to seeing Col. Carpentar once a year when he came East to attend the annual Military Order of the Caribou. Not only was he a lot of fun to be with, but he was the most handsome man I ever saw in a tuxedo (which he wore every year to the Caribou). A gentleman to the core. His devotion to his wife, the Sierra Club and his turtle will remain vivid memories for me for a lifetime. God speed, Colonel.
John Baptista Jr.
March 21, 2005
It has been 33 years since I graduated from Pt. Loma High School, class of 1972. It was there that Colonel James Carpenter came into my life. Since that time we have kept in touch and will especially remember the mission Christmas Cards.
I have often said he made me what I am today; yet he often told me he just took what my parents had made and polished it up.
I will always be grateful to all he did for me. He was the one who after my heart surgery in high school, and elimination from the Naval Academy, still believed in me and got me my full Naval schorship to USC.
Mrs. Carpenter and Mary, Col. C was some man! One who I will never forget.
May god bless all of you.
John Baptista Jr.
Class of 1972
Loveland, COlorado
Mark Van Etten
March 18, 2005
My cousin Bob (Jim's Son-in-Law) gave a wonderful eulogy at the church service. I also had the privelage to express my thoughts at the service. The essence of what I said follows:
A Tribute to Uncle Jim
March 10, 2005
My name is Mark. I am Jim Carpenter’s nephew. I like to think of myself as Jim Carpenter’s favorite nephew; although, I should tell you that I was his only one. Even if Uncle Jim had two-dozen nephews, I am certain that he would have had enough love for them all and would make them each feel as special as he made me feel. Uncle Jim was like a father to me. While I am deeply saddened by this great loss, I am grateful for the opportunity to share some of my thoughts and memories with you.
When I was a little boy, my Uncle Jim was a hero to me, someone who was larger than life. Often as we grow older, for various reasons, these feelings diminish. However, as I grew older, I gained a deeper understanding as to why I felt this way about him. As I matured, my understanding of this man continued to deepen with each passing year. Today my Uncle Jim is more a hero to me than he ever was. I would like to tell you why.
Throughout the course of your lives, you have undoubtedly met people that have made significant impressions upon you. We meet people that impress us because of their kindness, strength of character, wisdom, leadership, intelligence, athleticism or sense of humor. We respect them for their devotion to their family, religion and church, service to the country or being a mentor who helps guide us through challenging times in our lives. When we meet people that are exceptional in any of these areas they leave an indelible mark upon us. My Uncle Jim left a mark on me because he was singularly exceptional in all these areas.
Throughout my life I have been blessed to encounter truly exceptional and special. I say without doubt and from my heart that my Uncle Jim was the finest man I have ever known.
When the Lord decides that is my time to embark upon the journey from this life, there is one thing that I am sure of – should I not encounter my Uncle Jim during the journey, I will know that I am not in Heaven…
I love you Uncle Jim.
Rolf Zaeschmar
March 18, 2005
As an NJROTC cadet at Point Loma HS back in 1974, I remember Col. Carpenter as an outstanding leader, at a time when the military had some tough PR problems. But he never wavered in the amount of respect he demanded--and got--from us youths. When the Colonel arranged for us to take a trip to Hawaii over Easter vacation, we were bused to March AFB. Unfortunately there was a crisis in the far east, and there was one less spot on the plane. I got bumped, but Colonel Carpenter bought me a private plane ticket--out of his own pocket, so I rejoined the platoon in Honolulu a day later. He is the one who inspired me to join the Corps later(3rd Battalion, 4th Marines, 3rdMarDiv, '81-'84) Thanks for the memories, Colonel.
Semper Fi,
Rolf Zaeschmar(PLHS, Class of '76)
Robert Read
March 17, 2005
My deepest sympathy for your loss! From your description, your father certainly left his mark on this earth and did a lot of good for all of us.
Take care,
Bob Read
Mary Ellsworth
March 16, 2005
Thank you all so much for the kind words and memories of my father. For those of you who weren't able to attend the service, it was a really memorable one. His life touched so many people. We will miss him forever while on this earth. He has gone to heaven and is probably fishing with our son, Bobby....or playing tennis.
Mary Carpenter Ellsworth
Robert Graham
March 15, 2005
Mrs Carpenter I'm sorry to hear of Col. Carpenter death. He was my Naval Science instructor (NJROTC)in 1973-74 at Point Loma High School. Please accept my condolances.
Barbara Kramer
March 15, 2005
Dear Mary and Mrs. Carpenter,
I was so sorry to hear about Mr. Carpenter. I can just see him driving that cute green MG or taking Mary and I someplace before we got our licenses. He was such a kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you and your family.
Sincerely,
Barbara Kramer
In case you don't remember me, Mary we knew each other in junior high and high school. My Dad was also a Marine
James M. Caraher
March 10, 2005
Dear Betsy, We know you and Jim through Serra. Jim's enthusiasm for Serra was an inspiration. You are in our prayers.
Jim and Annelis Caraher
Phoebe Burr Markley
March 9, 2005
My condolances to my good friend Mary and to her beloved mother Betsy.
Am honored to have known your father, how ever brief.
Aloha!
Jay and Lisa King
March 9, 2005
We were saddened to hear of the passing of "Uncle Jim." We know that Mark was very fond of his Uncle, and had tremendous respect and love for him. We will inlcude Uncle Jim in our prayers.
Jack Boyce
March 9, 2005
Condolances andlove to Betsey . Jack andMig Boyce
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