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DEASON, JAMES VICTOR October 13, 1954 to February 26, 2012 James Deason Born October 13, 1954 in San Antonio, Texas, passed away February 26, 2012 in Lakeside, California surrounded by his loving family. Jim fought a hard and courageous battle against Mesothelioma cancer, and is now in God's care. His faith in God and power of prayer got him through his difficult times. Jim was always there with endless energy, a smile on his face, and a helping hand to his family and friends. He loved his San Diego Chargers, golfing, snow-boarding, surfing, wake boarding, being on his boat, coaching his children in baseball, softball, and soccer, traveling and taking on life's adventures with his wife, and spending time with his family, especially his grandsons Dane, and Maddix. He graduated with a Bachelors of Arts in English, and successfully owned an Audio/Visual business which brought him great pride, and joy. He is survived by his wife, and best friend Mary Deason of 28 years, his son Dustin, daughters Janelle, and Corilynn, grandsons Dane, and Maddix, mother Jeanette Howard, sisters Lori, and Glenda, numerous nieces and nephews, cousins, brother and sister in laws. He is now in the loving arms of his father Hershel Neal, his big brother Butch, sister Donna, grandparents Helen and Victor Mernard, and Audrey and Jerold Deason. He will be deeply missed by many because of all the lives he touched. To celebrate his life, a memorial service will be held on Friday, March 2nd, at 1:00 p.m. in Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, located at 13208 Lakeshore Drive, in Lakeside, CA 92040.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Feb. 29, 2012.

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Cathy Galvin

February 24, 2024

We miss you Jim! Your memory continues to bless us.
Cathy

Cindy Cox

February 23, 2024

I remember Jim as always being happy in good spirits and such a nice person.

Kimba Miller

March 5, 2012

Mary ,Jannelle, Cory, Dustin, My heart cries for you with the deepest of sympathy possible. All of us who were Jim's friends and brothers feel a deep loss and always will until we meet again. To me Jim is my older brother and friend, and always will be. from the early days of long hair, VW's and playing chess while sipping red zinger tea (listening to ELO's El Dorado album) to the present, I have never met anyone like Jim. And THAT made me feel very special in this world. Jim always went for the positive. whether it be people, thoughts, expressions or problems to be worked out, Jim was very positive. Jim's smile, very contageous. His bright eyes and his sense of humor could win over the world and did.. My heart is a brighter entity in this world because of Jim. He REALLY touched my heart in knowing Jim, and living with Jim and loving Jim. I think about him all the time. And I always have and I always will. I love you like family and I always will. please call on me if you need anything please. Kimba

March 5, 2012

Mary, Janelle & Corilynn, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers. Jim had such a great spirit and smile, he was such a wonderful neighbor and friend, alway lending a helping hand. May God continue to keep you in the palm of his hands. God Bless Robert & Michelle Fendenheim Lakeside Ca

Tamara Tallerday

March 5, 2012

The time I spent working with Jim was short but very memorable. He added that certain zing to life with a quick wit and smile.
That will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

March 4, 2012

DEAR MARY - ALTHOUGH I DID NOT KNOW YOUR HUSBAND I CAN TELL FROM THESE ENTRIES HE WAS A GREAT & WONDERFUL MAN. PLEASE KNOW YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS. ROXANNA CHRESTMAN (FROM THE POOL)

Alison Sargent

March 2, 2012

Mary, Cory and Deason Family, Our deepest sympathy and our hearts go out to your family. Our memories that we have of Jim through surf soccer will forever be in our hearts. Jim was such a big part of all the fun times we had. Our prayers are with you all. Love, Scott, Alison and M&M(Megan)

Cindy Cox

March 2, 2012

Mary, Corilynn and Janelle,

My heart is so heavy for your loss. Seeing the picture of the two of you breaks my heart. I feel blessed for having Jim touch my life. Jims smile could brighten a room. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Love you
Cindy

Kathy Nielsen

March 2, 2012

Mary, my sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Loretta Wallace

March 2, 2012

Mary, my deepest, deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I know Jackie has a Big Hole in his heart and we will both miss Jim very much. He was such a great guy and a good friend to my husband. When he'd come to visit us in TX, he'd talk so much of you and the kids--and especially the grandkids. He was a special person that is for sure. We love ya'll and will keep you and your family in our prayers and thoughts.

Loretta and Jackie Wallace

Beverly Sheppard

March 2, 2012

Deason Family,

Even though Cody was only at OLPH for a couple of years, we remember Jim as such a great man and father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Sheppard Family

sandy guy willoughby

March 1, 2012

We are devistated for your loss Mary ,,girls& family.Jim was one of a kind in everyway , we were so glad he was in our lives and could call him our friend.Forever in our hearts.
Love Randy, Sandy, Sophie,Ryan, Mick & Pam, "The Guy-Willoughbys"

March 1, 2012

We were so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. We appreciate everything he did for our kids and will always be our favorite carne asada chef at the bazaar. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. God bless.
The Agunat Family

Le Ann Trees

March 1, 2012

Dear Mary, Cori, and family,

It was always a joy to have Jim at the soccer games cheering for the girls. We loved his company and enthusiasm and will miss him dearly. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
The Trees family

Cathy & Jamie Schnieders

March 1, 2012

Mary and entire Deason family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim Thank you for always making us laugh.
We will miss you Jim.
The Schnieders

Sherri Hurst

March 1, 2012

Deason Family, So sorry to hear about your loss of such a great husband and father! I remember Jim having so much energy and always being positive! I remember when you all won that new car, seems like yesterday. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Take care. The Hurst Family

Laura Baty

March 1, 2012

Dear Mary, Janelle, Cori & family,
Jim was a great man and coach to so many. He will be sadly missed and his memories will be cherished. You are all in my thoughts and prayers

Andrea Longfellow

March 1, 2012

He will be missed by so many of us in the health and fitness industry, where he made such a significant impact in many, many ways. Everyone he touched, instantly loved him. He was a class act all the way around and his enthusiasm and passion for his craft, business and life was infectious. I didn't get to see him that often after I left Precor, except at a handful of trade events, and he always greeted me with a huge smile and hug and we'd pick up like we had just talked the day before. I will miss him immensely and toast him at IHRSA, along with countless others. God Bless.
In Gratitude,
Andrea Longfellow

March 1, 2012

So sorry for your loss.....jimmy will be forever in our hearts.. The Dexter Family, Glendora, Ca

Larry Domingo

March 1, 2012

I am deeply saddened by Jim's passing but want you to know that I am honored to have known him. In all my dealings with him he was a first class person-very positive and always striving to do the best and be the best. I will toast him at IHRSA and celebrate the great legacy he left behind with so many friends. All the best always-Larry Domingo

March 1, 2012

Dear Mary and Family,

I was sadden to read about your husband and dad's passing. there is nothing anyone can say to cure the pain your are dealing with. However, I think the beautiful message Janelle left for her dad pretty much says it all.
Blessings to you Mary and your family. Please know I am very close if you need anything.

Blessings to all,

Steve Perdue

March 1, 2012

I knew Jimmy as a young boy in California. My prayers and thoughts are with his entire family. God bless him. Barbara Hubbard Harmor (Washington)

lori deason

March 1, 2012

to one of the best brother's a sister could have. you have alwasy taught me the right thing to do and have been there for me through all. hit a hole in one brother, i love you, your sister lori

Ava Scherneck

March 1, 2012

Soar with the angels, my old friend. You were always so nice to me when we were growing up and I will never forget your kindness. To the Deason Family...my deepest condolences. You are all in my prayers...

Marlys Van Dyke

February 29, 2012

I was so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. He was one of the nicest people. My son Jess thought the world of him. My prayers are with all of you.

Tom Moore

February 29, 2012

It has been a pleasure to know and work with Jim over the past few years. He has been an inspiration with his tireless energy and a helping hand. He will be missed by many.

Victoria Muffler

February 29, 2012

Dear Cori, Mary, and Janelle,
I want you all to know you guys have been and will continue to be in my prayers. This is a very sad loss and we all know that Jim would want you guys to keep your head up. His great ball of energy that always follwed him will never be forgotten.He was that caring guy who always gave support and pushed you to keep going. Jim will be missed dearly. He was truely a great man. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you guys and the boys too.Please remember, I love you all very much! I will see you guys on Friday coming up. God Bless you guys and your family. (p.s. if you guys didn't already know, i still consider you guys family Love always!

February 29, 2012

Dear Mary, Janelle and Corilynn, I am thinking and praying for you. My heart hurts for our loss of Jim. He was the big brother of our "group" back in the day to me, always giving good advice and keeping us all laughing. I will always credit Jim for my one and only trip to Hollywood and Beverly Hills...! Loved that Sunset Grill!! I love you and hope to see you when I am in SD next month. God Bless you and your family. Love, Stacey King

Mike Baty

February 29, 2012

Jim was a great friend and a mentor to me. I will miss him deeply.

Andrew Paffendorf

February 29, 2012

I was fortunate enough to work with Jimmy (JD) for the past 7 years. The laughs he always provided and his endless energy will never be forgotten. ( I still chuckle every time I see Pauly Shore!) Jimmy's friendship will be sorely missed, he was truly a gentleman. To his family, please accept my deepest sympathy.

February 29, 2012

TO THE DEASON FAMILY, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS.
THE BARBER'S (JOE, TERESA & SHELBY)

February 29, 2012

Sincerely Kitty Smiley

Renee Picard

February 29, 2012

I love you Uncle Jimmy! Words can not describe how much you will be missed by all of us. I am so happy I was able to see you and your family before you left. May God bring you and your family peace during this difficult time!

John Torres

February 29, 2012

Dear Deason Family,
From an old friend at OLPH. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
John A. Torres
(Anthony & Lauren's Dad)

Laurie Torres

February 29, 2012

Mary, Janelle, Cori and family,
We are absolutely heartbroken to hear the news about Jim. Our kids, Anthony and Lauren adored him - he was so energetic and a great coach and role model for all the kids. He will be missed deeply by those of us lucky enough to know him. Love to you all, Laurie Torres and Family

Jessica Brady

February 29, 2012

I love you Uncle Jimmy even though you threw my blanket out the window in New Mexico. :)

Janelle Deason

February 29, 2012

Daddy,
I'm still in shock that this has happened. I wasn't ready to have you taken from me. You were the rock in me and my boys lives. You were everything to me. Since I was old enough to realize what a hero is, you have always been mine. You have ALWAYS saved me, and helped me through my difficult times without hesitation. We have so many amazing memories together that I cannot ever forget. I am so blessed to have had you as my father. You taught me the most valuable lessons in life, and most importantly showed me what unconditional love is. Your boys, Dane and Maddix, loved you more then you can imagine. You were the best Grandfather they could possibly have. Even though your not physically here with us, they will know who you are and the endless love you had for them. You will be with us each and everyday in our hearts. I hope you know how much we all love you. You will never be forgotten. I love you Dad.

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