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JOSEPH ALESI Obituary

ALESI, JOSEPH J. Joseph J. Alesi, 84, passed away on Sunday, May 23, 2010, surrounded by his loving family, after a valiant battle with cancer. Joe's passions were many: foremost, his love of his wife and their beautiful marriage of nearly 60 years. He created immeasurable happy memories for his treasured children and their extended families. He was a master orchid enthusiast, a highly-respected member of the San Diego Orchid Society. He was skilled at metal-detection in the Coinshooters of San Diego, discovering many gold and silver finds. Joe was born in Detroit, MI, and moved to San Diego in 1944 to serve in the U.S. Marine Corps. He met Rose at a wedding, and knew at that moment that she would be his bride. He was a successful co-owner of Alesi Plumbing Company, and retired at the young age of 52. He built his wife their dream home, and together they shared the best travel adventures. Joe was a man of great strength and courage. He was compassionate, sensitive and sentimental, and will be remembered as a good, kind, loving man. His spirit and humor will live on in the hearts of all who know him. Dad will be missed beyond imagination. Services will be held Thursday, May 27, 2010, 1:00 p.m. at St. Martin of Tours, La Mesa, followed by a celebration of life at the church hall. It is Joe's request that no black attire be worn. Joseph is survived by his wife Rose, his siblings Mike (Pauline), Peter (Rita), Jim (Mary), Jerome (Rosetta) Alesi, and Virginia (Nick) Nichols; children Paul (Marsha) Alesi, Diana Alesi, Theresa (Dan) Schilter; five grand-children: Erik (Amy), Alicia (Jason), Michael, Jessica and Rebecca; two great-grand-children: Lauren and Spencer, and his "babies" Chica, Mia and Gina. We are grateful to the Sharp Hospice staff for their care and concern. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in his name to Sharp Hospice.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 26, 2010.

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Gasper & Darlene Piazza

June 5, 2010

Rose, we will miss that wonderful husband of yours and his sense of humor. We enjoyed being with you and the family when we visited California. We'll never forget those delicious ribs you treated us to and then the great desserts both you and Joe made. You are in our thoughts and know your family will be a great support to help you through this. Love and Kisses, Gasper and Darlene

Phyllis and Ron Prestia

May 30, 2010

Dear Rose,
Ron and I send our sincere wishes to celebrate the wonderful life you and Joe shared. We know you will treasure those memories.

Veronica Dominguez

May 28, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Lynn Schneidenbach

May 27, 2010

Dear Rose and family,

Joe was always the consummate gentleman at the SDCOS. I always enjoyed talking to the both of you at the many events for us crazy orchid people!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely, Lynn Schneidenbach (AKA Dornfeld)

Debby Tapper

May 27, 2010

May the memories (and no doubt laughter will be a large part of them) give you all comfort at this sad time.

All my loving thoughts–
Debby

Velma Smith

May 26, 2010

My heart goes out to entire Alesi Family along with Prayers that each of them be comforted knowing the Love that shines out from them will be amplified by the reflection of love they received from Joe Alesi (as evidenced in my loving friend, Diana). I am so honored to have met Mr. Alesi. In the short time I knew him - I witnessed a man with great Pride and Love for his entire family, and a receptive and welcoming heart to others. May you have Eternal Peace, Mr. Alesi.

May 26, 2010

Joe, I'll always remember you as my Second Dad. I always felt welcome in your home. What a great family Legacy you and the love of your life have given the world. We'll all miss you!
Paul

Nita Torres

May 26, 2010

My heart is aching for the Alesi family and the loss of their beloved patriarch, Joe Alesi. I had the priviledge to get to know Joe and Rose, through their son Paul, and what a delight they were as a couple, and as individuals. Joe's sense of humor, and sharp mind, always brightened my day, when he would come to visit Paul at work. The love and pride that he had for his family was ever present, in everything he said or did and he was always a gentleman. I pray for Rose and the entire family, that God will comfort all of you with the wonderful memories Joe has left you, until you can be together again with him someday in heaven.

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