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Hillary Milani
June 5, 2025
I was a 17 year old first- time junior college student, who left high school a year early, when I had my first class with Dr. Jeffcoat. I was wholly unprepared for college- emotionally and academically. I had little to no family support. Not only did Dr. Jeffcoat inspire my mind- she inspired my soul and my sense of self. She showed me learning was fun, taught me about self-care and self-reflection. I cannot possibly speak to her influence in my life-simply by learning from her in a few junior-college classes.
I went from the youngest child of six, in a poverty-ridden family of the uneducated, to become a veteran teacher of 23 years, who coached math to teachers across the county, finished a Master´s from Saint Mary´s College, and an Administrative credential. She influenced my academic, personal, and internal life immensely and I am forever grateful to have shared time with her- thank you for allowing me to know the gift that was Kendra Jeffcoat. With gratitude, Hillary Milani (she knew me as Hillary Hall).
Anne Cassady (husband, Jon Swift)
July 20, 2023
Dearest Jay,
After how many many long years, I will be traveling to visit friends again in your area in September (2023) and was hoping while there to renew my long ago friendship with Kendy and with you. So, to learn only now of Kendy's untimely death six years ago brings a terrible shock and a sadness no words can describe.
This is the only way I know how to reach you at this time.
Please know my heart is with you, Jay.
With genuine affection and great sorrow for your incredible loss,
Anne C
Durham, CT
Theara Poeu
August 18, 2022
My deepest condolences. Sorry I have not reached out until now, but Dr. Jeff coat was one of my favorite professors. She was beautiful and intelligent. It was an honor to be in her presence. May she RIP.
Marnie Barnhorst
March 9, 2022
Hi Jay,
I hope you doing well. I know it has been five years since Kendra passed. It has been eight years since Barney passed. Life does go on, but the void remains. We were both blessed to have had them as long as we did.
Stay well.
Marnie
January 8, 2020
RIP Dr. Jeffcoat
November 29, 2019
Kendra,
What can I say. An Angel among us....
MIchael Grubbs
Val Jamora
December 8, 2018
I was a student of Dr. Jeffcoat at Imperial Valley College back in the 80s . I was also a performer (saxophonist) with IVC's jazz and Band ensembles under Jack Fuesler who was also my private teacher for many years- I think we shared a stage with Kasey once or twice. Dr. Jeffcoat was so inspirational to me that I went on to declare a psychology major at Cal State. I will never forget my first class with her - on the first day she sat in a desk among the students and pretended to be one of us. She proceeded to start spreading rumors about how mean the instructor was'.... only to reveal herself after a few minutes. One of my favorite moments from IVC! I am sorry to hears bout her passing, and I wish the family well.
Leopoldo Garcia
February 27, 2018
Jay,Ryan,& Kasey I never met Kendra but reading some of the obituaries about her she was loved by many people I just want to share my deepest sympathy and let you know that I knew your grandfather Bill would love to share stories about him.
rosemarie robinson
November 9, 2017
Dr. Jeffcoat was a WONDERFUL WOMAN and she assisted so many people and students. I will remember her. Rosemarie
Jackie Hopelian
May 25, 2017
I was so sad and shocked to learn today of Kendra's passing. It was so good to see you all a few months ago. I often think of our years in El Centro. My prayers go out to all of you.
Daniela Sow
May 12, 2017
Missing you, Kendra. You were a dear mentor and role model to me when I was in the SDICCCA program, and you coached me when I was applying for full-time jobs. Thank you for bringing so much light and goodness in the world. <3
April 29, 2017
So sorry for your loss. When someone you love becomes a memory the memory become a treasure so treasure the memory
Matt 5:4,5
California~
March 31, 2017
Dearest Jeff, much love and prayers to you and your family. We are so, so sorry. Karolyn Dorsee and family
Toni Yturralde
March 29, 2017
Dear Jeffcoat family, May your happy memories comfort you. Kendra was a caring person, and an inspiration to others. My Lara completed a psychology degree and a master in Education, emphasis counseling, inspired by her teaching and compassion.
We both had fondness for our Rainbow Girl days, and families who loved baseball. Rest in peace, lovely Kendra.
Jacquelene Johnston
March 28, 2017
Dear Jay, Ryan, Kasey, & Family,
We were so saddened to hear of your Kendra's passing.
We are Remembering her Beautiful, warm, loving, giving spirit, & sense of humor.
May Kendra be honored by all she loved.
May her memory be cherished by all she gave.
May your hearts be comforted by all you shared.
Kendra's love made life immeasurably better
and our world infinitely more beautiful.
You honor Her everyday in how you live and who you are.
There will be tears..
because you laughed, there will be memories...
because she lived, there will still be joy.
Let your heart full of memories that you shared carry you day by day & build a bridge of love that will reach far beyond time into Forever...
May God who called her home, be close to you, May He embrace you with His love and give you comfort, peace, & strength in your grief & pain in your loss.
Praying you'll find hope in His promises... and comfort in knowing that many caring hearts are holding you close and Lifting you up in prayer.
Jerry & Jacquie j Johnston
Karen & Jim Sommer
March 28, 2017
Kendra was a beautiful person and we are grateful we had the pleasure of knowing her. She will be missed.
March 22, 2017
Dear Jeff and Family,
Kendra was truly a "force of nature" which we recognized the first time we met at UCSB many years ago. May your hearts find peace in knowing you shared your lives with an outstanding lady. With our deepest sympathy..
Steve and Sandy Wittman
March 22, 2017
With deepest sympathy, may the power of prayer ease your sorrow, give you peace and provide much comfort for you during this difficult time. Matthew 21:22
March 20, 2017
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Sincerely, Bill Waite
Carla Sweet
March 18, 2017
Kendra lived a life of meaning. Anyone that had the pleasure of knowing her knew how special she was. I was lucky to have Dr. Jeffcoat as a teacher and a mentor. She inspired me and I now teach at San Diego City Community College. Her lessons and words are always with me and my students. I can never say thank you enough for all that she has done for me . Kendra's family.... keep the light that Kendra had in your own lives. She will be missed.
Richard & Linda Sanchez
March 17, 2017
The Sanchez family want to expressed our sincerest sympathy for your loss. The Jeffcoats will always be considered family. We'll miss your Doctor very much. God Bless. Richard, Linda, Lori, and Tina.
Tony and Nancy Heinrichs
March 17, 2017
Jay,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Arelene/Thad Wolinski
March 16, 2017
We were very sadden by Kendra's passing.
Arelene & Thad Wolinski
Rudie Fritz
March 15, 2017
May she Rest in Peace,she was a gracious and courageous lady!
March 15, 2017
Jay,
Please accept my condolences upon the passing of your wife, Kendra. She was a lovely person and her list of accomplishments speak for themselves.
Your Friend,
Chas Dessert
Lisa Campbell (Fritz
March 15, 2017
Jessica and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss! My deepest condolences to you all.
Lisa Campbell (Fritz)
Jeanie Starkie
March 15, 2017
At peace, in God's keeping and loving arms.
March 15, 2017
Jay,
I am so sorry to learn of Kendra's death. Barney and I so enjoyed getting to know her at Padre games. It was clear from the beginning that she was a very special person. I wish we had had more time with you two.
Please revel in your good memories.
,
Marnie
Gabriela
March 15, 2017
Best teacher I ever had at IVC. She was smart, beautiful and full of life. She motivated me to move forward with my education. I will never forget her smile while sipping on some TAB. Thank you Dr. Jeffcoat for inspiring me. May you rest in peace.
LINDA SNIDER
March 15, 2017
Much sympathy to the Jeffcoat family on the passing of Kendra.
I have fond memories working with her @ Grossmont College and more recently serving as the SDICCCA Regional Internship Coordinator. She was sincere and most personable working with faculty and interns. Her picture is still showing on the SDSU Interwork website with a group of faculty interns.
May special memories and stories you think of bring your strength and laughter in the difficult days ahead.
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