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Patrick McIntyre Obituary

Pat McIntyre passed away suddenly on October 23, 2023. He was born in Cashel, Ireland to Majella and Sean McIntyre and immigrated to the U.S. at three. In 1985, he met Belfast native Melanie, and they married the same year. He is survived by his wife; his children Aisling, Sean, and Caoimhe; and his granddaughter. Pat was a kind and loyal family man who loved his Irish heritage and community. A funeral mass will be held at St. Didacus Catholic Church on December 13th, 2023 at 11am, reception to follow.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 29, 2023.

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Jim LC Dierker

December 16, 2023

So sad to hear big Pat passed on. I was fortunate to play rugby with Pat in the glory days of the early-mid 80s. He and I were the starting 2nd row for OMBAC that won the 1984 OMBAC tournament. He was a hard man indeed and great teammate. God bless and hold him. See ya on Heaven“s pitch!

Michael Waterman

November 4, 2023

Melanie - Very saddened to learn of Pat's sudden passing. So soon after the untimely and heart-aching loss of Ned...It's not fair. I remember a special evening with you and Pat and "the Dubliners" hosted by Doc & Annie. Good craic, as always, (and a lot of talk about rugby). My deepest condolences to you and family - Mick

Michelle Ely

October 31, 2023

Pat was an amazing Building Inspector who is sorely missed here at the City. He was always willing to help and he had a kind and gentle spirit that put everyone at ease.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together.
God Bless,

Michelle Ely

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