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Rita Watson Obituary
With great sadness in my heart I must tell you Rita was fatally injured in an Auto accident on Valentine's Day, in East County. It was truly a tragedy. Her energy and laughter will be missed by all. Rita was born with a burning desire to help others. She gave everyone a feeling that all was good in the world. When you were in Rita's sphere of influence, she made sure there were no dull moments. Rita retired from the County Registrar of Voters in San Diego after 25 years service. She took great pride in her work, always with a smile and a desire to help. She would help you if she could, but if not, always left you well entertained and a smile in your heart. Though Rita lost her daughter, Sara, to melanoma in 1991, she refused to give up her quest to help people get the most out of life. She volunteered with AARP as a Tax-Aide for five years, doing tax returns for senior citizens and low income families. She made sure people got the money owed to them by the IRS, even if it required hours of research. Rita called all of her clients "Her Babies," and liked to say, "Now all my babies are much older than me, but they need my help and I love them all so much." Rita's energy and lust for life were her gifts to those around her. Rita will be truly missed by her mother, Lucy Snodgrass, of San Diego; loving husband, Gary, of Spring Valley; brother, Edward Butler, of Winslow, Arkansas; and sister JoAnn SkyWatcher, of Ukiah, CA. There will be an Open Viewing February 21st, 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. in the mortuary of Greenwood Memorial Park, 4300 Imperial Ave., San Diego, and Memorial Services February 22nd, at noon in Greenwood's Garden Chapel. In lieu of flowers please donate to your local senior center or charity. Rita, love of my life, rest in peace. Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Rita Watson
joel cooper
February 13, 2025
STILL, missing you,Reet!
joel cooper
February 13, 2024
Surely miss you,My dear friend!
joel cooper
February 13, 2023
Miss you daily,Sweet Lady!
Joel Cooper
February 13, 2021
SURELY DO MISS YOU,OL' FRIEND! THINK OF YOU OFTEN AND ALL THE WONDERFUL TIMES WE SHARED!! LOVE YOU AND PLEASE REST IN PEACE.
Billy Caldwell
March 20, 2008
Hi Rita, Hope you are with Sara now. We miss you a lot. I hope you enjoyed the birthday party we had for you :). Love, Billy
Happy Times, Sister JoAnn, Nephew Calvin, Niece Christina
March 3, 2008
With Momma & Brother Eddie
March 3, 2008
The Greatest Moments In My Life
March 3, 2008
Rita, My Love, My Life
March 3, 2008
1970s
March 3, 2008
That's Rita!!
March 3, 2008
Winning a bet for a foreign friend
March 3, 2008
The wild days
March 3, 2008
Diane & Tom Piercy
March 2, 2008
Dear Rita, You will be greatly missed as loving Wife to Gary, Daughter ,Sister and Friend to so many. I want to say a special thank-you again for encouraging Gary to reach out and find us ; His family.My prayer is that you are with your Sweet Sara. Dear Gary, Our hearts were broken when we recieved this tragic news.We can only hope that our being with you helped in some small way. Rita's vibrant smile is forever etched in our minds and we shall never forget her.We pray that God will see you through this difficult time. Love , Your Family; Diane & Tom ,Children& Grandchildren
Alfred & Shirley Holler
February 29, 2008
Gary.... At this time of loss; you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love from, Dad and Mom Holler
Christina Turnwall
February 28, 2008
Dear Rita,
I have always loved your endless energy, your wild sense of humor and how you like to push things to the edge of peoples' comfort zones. That edge in some people can be overwhelming, but I always found it delightful in you because you had such a big heart behind it.
(I still shocks me when I refer to you in the past tense. I hate it!)
Thank you for all of your love and generosity over the years. I will miss the stories you told that would keep our dead family members alive in my imagination.
I love you, Rita. I miss you.
Your loving niece,
Christina
Calvin Turnwall
February 26, 2008
I don't know what to say except I and the world will miss your spark. I love you Rita.
Steve Ryals
February 26, 2008
In my book, Drunk with Wonder, I talk about the idea that there are gifts in every life experience. And I do mean every life experience. This month I'm dedicating my newsletter to Rita Watson, my sister-in-law, who passed away on Valentine's Day in a car accident. Rita was JoAnn's (my wife) sister, and I'd known her for 12 years. Always the life of the party, Rita spent much of her life helping those less fortunate than herself. A loving sister, daughter and wife, Rita loved practical jokes and staying busy with many projects. Scores of people came to the service, and many told stories of her generosity and humor. Rita will be missed by all those who loved her wild, exuberant nature.
Rita's sudden passing broke my heart, just as it broke the heart of everyone who loved her. What is the gift in that, you may well ask. She died so tragically, we feel great sadness and grief, how could that be a gift? Well, one gift of a broken open heart is that our customary habits and defenses are, at least for a short while, melted away in the white heat of our grief. If we're willing to breathe through this tsunami of our emotions and pay close attention to the present moment, we can find precious opportunities to give in share love every where we turn. The sudden death of a loved one often brings people together who have not seen each other in years perhaps decades, and Rita's death was no exception. There is such tenderness and vulnerability available when our hearts are broken open. Old grudges imagined insults and unfortunate misunderstandings can all be easily forgiven in the piercing light of someone's passing.
It's so easy to fall into our habitual patterns. I'll call my friend next week; I know my sister's busy so I'll schedule a visit in a few months; I'll give my mom a call as soon as I finish this project; I'm never sure when my friend is home so I'll just wait until next week; we all have reasons why we don't reach out to those we love and tell them just how much they mean to us. For me, one of the gifts I can take from read his untimely passing is to make sure that I don't wait to tell the people who mean the most to me how much I love them. Instead of calling my mom once a week, I want call her twice a week, perhaps more. Instead of telling my wife that I love her every day, my intention is to take her in my arms and look deeply into her eyes as I tell her how much I adore her. If my time to leave this world should come suddenly, I do not want any of my love to be left unspoken or unfelt.
As I'm writing this, it's been almost two weeks since Rita passed. It seems like a lifetime. When someone close to us dies suddenly, our lives are never quite the same. It's all too easy to go into denial about how much our hearts hurt, how broken they feel. Let us grieve together, but let us also celebrate life and use the opportunity, or gift, if you will, to reach out to those we love with extra hugs and a renewed commitment to live each day as though it was our last. Let us wring out every drop of life from every moment of every day, so that when it is our time to go, we can say that we lived full out and not regret a single moment. My love and blessings to each and everyone of you who knew and loved Rita..
Rita & Lucy Thanksgiving 2006
February 26, 2008
JoAnn SkyWatcher
February 24, 2008
Dear Rita,
I am so sorry that you left the planet in such a hurry. I was coming down to see you and Mama the week following your quick departure.
I certainly will miss your huge laugh, and all of your stories. I’ll miss your jokes. I’ll miss your big heart. I’ll miss your big energy. I’ll miss hearing how you are helping the senior citizens by doing their taxes and going that extra mile for them. I’ll miss your competency. I’ll most of all, I’ll miss seeing you when I come to visit Mama.
You touched so many people’s lives. It’s quite evident at your memorial how you valued friends by the people that were there (and the ones that called that couldn’t be there)--there were people that played with you at elementary school; people that hung out with you at Montgomery Junior High School; people that were your friends at Kearny High School; neighbors; family members; people from our old neighborhood on Ben Street in Kearny Mesa from almost 50 years ago; people that worked with you at the Registrar of Voters; and of course some of “your babies” (senior citizens) that you helped do their taxes through AARP during the last 5 years. You will be missed by so many…
Yesterday and the day before, Christina and Steve counted 12 times that I called Christina (my daughter), “Rita”. You are so in my heart, Rita. My heart is broken open.
I believe that it was only your body that died. I tried not to look in the casket. I knew that the shell that was there, was not really you. I know that your spirit lives on. I find solace in knowing that you are with Sara, Daddy, and Grandma, and that you are at peace.
Your loving sister,
JoAnn
Merry Roman-Cohen
February 24, 2008
Rita was....well, Rita. She never waivered on her convictions, her inner beauty was always evident! Most of us that were part of the "old gang" in JH and HS went thru the sorrow of losing a dear friend (Liz Sandoval) at such an impressionable time in our lives. Rita was always there to listen, and then to make you laugh. How she survived losing Sara - well, that too was Rita. My love and prayers to you Gary and to Rita's family and her closest friends. Losing a loved one is so raw, but it is not permanent. All these beautiful souls will be together again and all pain forgotten. You are all in my prayers.
Believe!
Merry (Roman) Cohen
Judy Krefting
February 23, 2008
Rita was so bubbly and full of energy! I was one of her "babies". I met her at tax time in 2006. She was so helpful in doing my taxes for me since I moved to California two years ago from Ohio. She did make me feel good and I always got to give her a great big hug. I'm so sad that she is gone. My condolences to her husband. My prayers are with you.
KATHY OLIPHANT
February 22, 2008
I too will MISS you Rita,even though I haven't seen you in many years I will always remember grade School slumber parties and junior high get togethers.May you rest in peace. My prayers are with your family.
Lucy Snodgrass
February 22, 2008
My Dear Rita,
I loved you so much. I'll miss having you come see me and to play scrabble. I'll miss all those good pies you baked for me. You always said you loved me and kissed me goodbye. I'll miss you.
Love,
Mama
Sirenia and Dagoberto Jimenez
February 22, 2008
I worked with Rita at the Registrar of Voters (ROV) from 1986 until she retired in 2002. She took great pride in her work and was one of the hardest workers I have known. There are many people who knew her and could tell stories and share qualities about Rita that will go on in our memory. Some funny ones...If you knew Rita, it was almost expected that she would say or do something that would shock you or make you laugh. Some sad ones...If you knew Rita, you learned that she endured the hard reality of losing her beloved daughter Sara and the loss of her beloved father. Although Rita's body has ceased to live, her memory, the way she approached life, and her character still lives on. The life she lived while here on earth continues to have an impact and will continue on having an influence on many who knew her.
Gary, Lucy, Family and Friends--As you grieve and mourn in your hearts over this loss of a Loving wife, daughter, sister, family member, and dear friend-- may you find comfort in God's love. HE will bring healing and answers as to WHY in his own time.
God Bless,
EddieandMike Winswood Ranch
February 22, 2008
Our hearts remain deeply saddened and our lives changed forever by the tragic loss of our beloved sister, Rita. Her unique celebration of life will always remain in our thoughts and memories.
Mike Rose
February 21, 2008
Rita:Kind.Compassionate.Courageous.Trustworthy.
Frances Graff-Welch
February 21, 2008
Gary,
Rita was like a Rose, the smile of God, and she is ever with him as we all are. She will be missed by all of us. In Gods Love, Frances
Bobby&Anne Chavez
February 21, 2008
Wow last time I saw you was 7 years ago. I have many memories with you Becky, and Chris. You will always be in our prayers love Bobby&Anne Chavez
Kristi Mahlum - Sparks
February 21, 2008
Gary, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did'nt know you well, I did know and love Rita. We met in elementary school and continued our friendship through High School and then on. I have so many wonderful and crazy memories of our younger days. Rita's home seemed like my 2nd home. Her parents Calvin & Lucy, sister Joanne, and brother Eddie were wonderful. Rita's passion for life was like no other. I believe that Rita is once again with her precious daughter Sara and her father. Heaven has a special Angel.
Francie Mortenson (Bryson)
February 20, 2008
What sad news to hear of Rita's tragic passing. The loss of a spouse is so full of sorrow and pain. It's been 13 years since I lost my husband after a long, chronic illness. He was a guy with a pistol personality. Much like our Rita...it's been many,many years since I have seen her but the testimonials that I read tonight attest to the fact that she never lost her verve or lust for life. My sincere sympathy to you, Gary, and your family.
Kimberly & Vernon Brooke-Hellbusch
February 20, 2008
Gary, we feel so much for your loss and beyond that we feel for you. We keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Love the two of you showed us will never be forgotten, our hearts go out to you and Gary.
Gary Ellis
February 20, 2008
I was a dear friend of Reets in the 70s. I lost touch after her divorce from Johnny. She was always in my thoughts. A truly beautiful and gifted lady has been lost by all. Johnny and I both want to express are deepest heart felt sympathy for her family and Gary, Joe Cooper, PJ and all who knew and loved her. This one hurts.
Cindy Martin
February 20, 2008
Dear Gary,
What a great lady Rita was! She had more energy ,gumption and determination than anyone I've ever met. She always got the job done no matter what.
I will remember her laughter, smile and great sense of humor.
Thinking of you and Rita, God Bless.
John Smida
February 20, 2008
It is a tradition of mine to name my dog after someone very dear to my heart.
Years ago after moving away from San Diego I named my dog Rita.
Sporty John
Bruce & Debra Ward
February 20, 2008
May God hold you and walk with you and your family during this time. Rita we will see you again !
Mary Michael
February 20, 2008
No words can express how much I will miss you. My wonderful friend. We had some good times at the Registrar of Voters. I will always remenber the things you have done for me. Bless you Gary. You and Rita had a very special kind of love for each other.
Jerry Pondelicek
February 20, 2008
Rita,
I didn't know you as well as others but what I did know is that you are a very special lady, loved by many. Thank you for coming into my life, briefly meeting you many years ago and off and on through the years. Save a place for us all..Jerry M. Pondelicek
Chris (Bourne) Waters
February 20, 2008
Unfortunately years have passed and contact lost, however the memories of Rita remain. How can I every forget Rita's laugh? It said EVERYTHING about her! I heard this laughter in the halls of Montgomery Jr. High, Kearny High and all around San Diego. Rita's laugh was contagious, it was robust, it was soooo Rita, FULL of life. Even her personal sorrows didn't deminish her laugh! I can, always have and always will hear that laugh and think of Reet! Just stop and listen sometime and I'm sure that you will hear it too! Gary, Mrs. Snodgrass, Joanne and Eddie: You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and Love to you always, REETAH!!
Jamie Price
February 20, 2008
It seems so unfair but here it is you have been my mother all these years. Everything you taught me to be strong and brave always moving forward. I keep you in my memory in my heart forever. Rest in peace your with Sara bear now. Your energy for life and how you made us all laugh so hard we cried will be misses dearly, I love you!
Jim McDade
February 20, 2008
Gary,
I learned of your wife's passing in an email from Steve Eliot. I never met Rita, but I remember what a good guy you were to work with and I feel very sorry for your loss. God Bless You.
Butch Bradsher
February 20, 2008
The loss of Rita has effected so many and most of all you, my friend, Gary. I am so remorseful for the tragedy of the sudden death of such a loving person as Rita. The kindness, and love the two of you showed me will never be forgotten, and my heart goes out to you, Gary, and to her family. May Creator bless you and hold you in his kind and unconditional Love.
Gary Watson
February 20, 2008
Rita,
My love and my life, hopefully you are with Sara. I miss you so much. Hope to join you soon.
Your loving husband
Sandy Herndon
February 19, 2008
I feel so sad to hear of Rita's recent and sudden passing. Her bright light shone on so many of us fotunate enough to know her, leaving a beautiful legacy of smiles and laughter. She lived passionately and touched many hearts. Aloha, Rita!
Marsha Purser
February 19, 2008
Rita was a very special lady and one of my very best friends. She was there for me at any given moment, rain or shine. I am going to miss her more than words can say.
My heart and my love goes out to her sweet Mama, Gary, Eddy, Joanne, and family. God Bless you all.
Rick Milyard
February 19, 2008
More energy and love than I have ever known. You are loved Rita. I'll see you down the road.
Pam Stevens
February 19, 2008
Gary,
I am so sorry to hear about Rita. I remember how proud you were of her, and I enjoyed talking to her.
Eileen Lee
February 19, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Joel Cooper
February 19, 2008
We're devastated! Next to my wife of 40 years, Suzette, I was closer to Reet more than any other woman in my life.From High School to R&R in Hawaii with Sara who was only 2 weeks old at the time; through all the card games and good times and your visits with us,We shall miss you always, Honey!You were truly my best friend!! God Bless you, Gary...Rita loved you so very much...We'll never forget you and your Loving ways!! Love, Joe & Suzette
Beth Klein
February 19, 2008
Gary, I am so sorry to hear. I know how much you loved Rita. You will be in my thoughts.
Bobbi Pointer
February 19, 2008
I will always remember Rita as a vividly passionate person whose enthusiasm inspired those around her. Another lovely, bright light has been extinguished. Rita will forever be remembered with love by those who knew her best. May the memories of happy times with Rita bring comfort to your heart. With great respect.
Marci White
February 19, 2008
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss of Rita.
I worked with her at the ROV for almost 10 years, and I loved Rita with all my heart. Her bright and steadfast smile and effervescent personality were always a joy to behold. I got to see, first hand, how she would take such care in helping others who were in need.
I know the Lord has a special place in the heavenlies for Rita, and I thank the Lord for allowing me to spend just a brief moment with such a wonderful woman. May you be truly blessed, and may your sorrow be brief.
PJ Ladley
February 19, 2008
Oh Rita, it still hasn't hit me yet that you're gone. You have always been a good friend and I will miss you terribly. My only solace is that you are with Sara and Calvin. Give them hugs for me. Love you always.
David & Lisa Lonsdale
February 19, 2008
I will always remember the many years Rita worked for me at the ROV. Never a dull moment. We are very sorry for your loss. We will be out of the country on the date of the service and are sorry we will not be able to attend. Peace be with you.
Dave & Lisa Lonsdale
Anneda & Doug Schultz
February 19, 2008
At the rising of the sun and
at its going down,
We'll remember Rita.
At the beginning of the year
and when it ends,
We'll remember Rita.
As long as we live, she too will
live; for she is now a part of us,
as we remember Rita.
When we are weary and in need
of strength,
We'll remember Rita.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We'll remember Rita.
When we have joys we yearn
to share,
We'll remember Rita.
When we have decisions that
are difficult to make,
We'll remember Rita.
When we have achievements that
are based on hers,
We'll remember Rita.
As long as we live, she too shall
live, for she is a part of us,
as we remember Rita.
Lee R. Noorda
February 19, 2008
I guess I was one of Rita's old "babies" at Lynnwood Mobile Home Park. She did our taxes every year with so much enthusiasm.
She was so full of energy and always had a smile. My condolences to her family. As Red Skelton always said "GOD BLESS".
Lynda & Larry Wiemeyer
February 19, 2008
We will ALWAYS remember Rita. Her laughter and wonderful personality - love of life. We are so sorry to hear of your loss, Gary. We love you both so much.
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