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Sheryl Duncan Obituary

DUNCAN, SHERYL B. Sheryl B. Duncan, age 51, of La Jolla, passed away peacefully at her home on September 4, 2009, with her husband at her side, following her valiant fight against cancer. She is survived by her husband, Todd; sons, Jonathan and Matthew, her father, Lynn Berndt; sisters, Chris Burks, Luann Elwell and Lisa Cheney, and brothers, Bob and John Berndt. Sheryl's celebration will begin with optional reflection at 12:45 p.m. with the service beginning at 1:00 in the afternoon on Monday, September 21, 2009, at Good Samaritan Episcopal Church located at 4321 Eastgate Mall in San Diego, CA. To share the journey of her battle, visit http:// sherylduncan2008.blogspot.com/ In lieu of flowers, the family asks for donations to be sent to the Sheryl B. Duncan Breast Cancer Foundation, www.sherylduncanforever.com to benefit breast cancer research and recovery.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Sep. 13, 2009.

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Michal Ann Joyner

September 29, 2009

Dear Todd and boys: I'm so sorry to hear of Sheryl's passing. I was hoping she would beat this thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember her sweet personality and sweet, sweet smile.

Dave & Linda Kempston

September 29, 2009

The rose handed to me as I walked into Sheryl's Memorial Service still is perfect. Looks like it will last forever just like everyone's love for her. She was probably the most beautiful person, inside and outside, we have ever known. It was a very moving celebration of her life. We send all of you our deepest sympathy and pray that God will give you the strength to endure until you see her again.

Susan Booth

September 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

September 16, 2009

Dear Todd, Jonathan, and Matthew,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. I'll miss seeing Sheryl walking the dog, always with a friendly word and a smile. Know that your memories will bring you happiness in the months and years to come.
Your neighbor,
Mary Woodall

September 15, 2009

Dear Todd, Jonathan, and Matthew,
I'm very sorry to hear of Sheryl's passing. Although I didn't know her well, I know she got all she could out of life, she loved you all more than words can say, and she will be greatly missed. I hope that the knowledge that many, many others are sharing your grief will help in some way. And as a friend told me when we lost our spouse/parent, be gentle with yourselves during this difficult time. Warm regards, Carol Manifold and Riley (Via Valverde neighbors)

Amber Bree

September 13, 2009

Dear Todd, Jonathan, & Matthew,
My Mum just told me the news. I am so sorry for your loss. I love Sheryl very much. In the years that I worked for Sheryl and Todd, she was good to me -inspired me -and taught me a lot about myself. I have been trying to get in touch. Now, I know why it was so hard to. I can not imagine how the three of you are feeling. I lost two loved ones last month. I am fumbling for words. I am just truly sorry and wish you much healing. I know Sheryl will watch over you from the heavens above. Love, Amberbree

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