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Stephen Tomasiak Obituary

Stephen "Mike" Tomasiak, 52 1959 ~ 2011 OCEANSIDE -- Mike Tomasiak died in a motorcycle accident early Monday morning, October 3, 2011 in Oceanside, California. He was born in Okinawa, Japan to Stephen and Sachiko Tomasiak. Raised mostly in Guam, Mike moved with his family to San Diego in 1977. An Oceanside resident since 1989, he was a California Highway Patrolman for 27 years, and retired in 2009. He was a loving husband, and a devoted father, whose kindness and joy for life affected deeply, everyone who was lucky enough to ever cross paths with him. Mike is survived by his wife, Jennifer; children, Michael, Kevin, and Kylie; mother; and brother, Thomas, a large extended family, and innumerable friends. A memorial service to celebrate Mike's life will be held at North Coast Church, 2405 N. Santa Fe Avenue in Vista at 10am Monday, October 10th. Memorial contributions, made to The Mike Tomasiak Scholarship Fund, which will benefit his children, may be mailed to: P.O. Box 4164, Oceanside, Calif. 92056. "Don't cry because it's over, but smile because it happened." - Dr. Suess. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Oct. 9, 2011.

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Mike Berger

September 23, 2021

I knew Mike from Gold's Gym in Pacific beach. Mike was a special guy, one of the best Human beings I've ever known. That big smile on his face truly represents his personality and good heart.

Janet Duenas-Resto

October 25, 2011

Tomasiak Family: I'm just hearing about 'Steve' (I think I was the only one that called him by his first name). My thoughts and prayers to all. Steve and I shared the same neighborhood and friends at JFKHS on Guam. He was a true Islander and will be missed!

October 16, 2011

Jennifer and family,
Mike loved to use my mini wagon at practice while he would go and write for the local newspaper. It was the color of the team, maroon. My friend Mike put my picture in the paper. You've heard it over and over. Your dad was the best in Guam.
Mark and Pauline Pangilinan

Lance Goranson

October 16, 2011

RIP Michael, "They never die that live in the hearts, they leave behind"

Gordon Macaraeg

October 14, 2011

Jennifer and family,Tom and Mrs Tomasiak, Mike touched the lives of many people, he was a sound human being in all sense of the word. I grew up with Mike on Guam. Played football on the same team as well as opposing teams. He will be missed but not forgotten.

October 13, 2011

Mike

October 12, 2011

Dear Jennifer and Family,

I am also a friend from Guam who knew Mike during our 'football days.' Our prayers are with you and your sweet family.

Aloha,
Tina (Tavares) Roberts and Family
Yigo, Guam

John and Linda Goulart

October 12, 2011

Our heart goes out to Jennifer and the kids. We haven't seen them in a long time. I was talking to John about this when it was mentioned by a former student on my fb page. We remember Mike coming across the street to sit and talk with Brian and visit when we both lived on Alabar. I see that Mike has continue to reach the hearts of the young and old alike. The world was a better place because of Mike's life.

October 12, 2011

To My brother, a fellow sensei and who was there for me throughout my life at the hardest of times. Sayonara,

Thomas Tomasiak, (Only kid brother)

Winton Young

October 12, 2011

From what I am reading Mike continued to be the great guy I knew in high school. I am blessed for having spent time with him both on and off the football field. I am sorry for your loss and will take comfort that his family will be great people with a father and husband like Mike.

Doug Bowen

October 12, 2011

Let go Let Go (d) Mike, I will miss you my friend

Vince Diaz

October 11, 2011

Jennifer and family: Mike was a teammate and friend in Guam. He was highly highly touted as an athlete but more importantly was respected as a friend and gentleman. Please know that there are countless people whom you have never met but who are grieving alongside of you and the kids.

Lorna Rettig

October 10, 2011

Jennifer, Michael, Kevin and Kylie: I am one of Mike's many friends from his high school years on Guam. It has been a long time since those days but I'll always remember him as a really good guy! I am so very sorry for your loss. May God's graces comfort and console you through the difficult days ahead.

Mel & Kym Mitchell

October 10, 2011

Jennifer, we will forever remember the incredible times in West LA, the amazing rides with Mike, your wedding reception and the napkin trick, Mikes love for food family and friends!

We thank God for the years we had him to enjoy! Thanks to you and the kids for sharing such a remarkable and unforgetable man! We love you all.

Lynn Mendiola Dempsey

October 10, 2011

Jennifer and family, I am so sorry for the sudden loss of Mike in your lives. I knew Mike while in high school on Guam. He was quite the athlete and always a gentleman. I never saw him without that smile on his face that I see was with him even in recent years. My prayers are with all of you. May God wrap his arms around you and your children as you mourn and heal.

Brian Franks

October 10, 2011

Mike was an amazing guy that always had a positive attitude and was full of life. We worked together almost every day over the past year, went out to lunch and dinner together often, even grabbing a beer occasionally after work. We had dinner together on Thursday night at Tip Top Meats before work. He was always so generous and would almost never let me pay, and this was one of those times. He even shoveled half of his food onto my plate even though I couldn't eat most of it. Mike was just a great guy to be around and treated me like family. We had a lot of great times together and I will miss him immensely.

Mia Ada Bonnie

October 9, 2011

Dear Jennifer, Mike, Kevin & Kylie,
I grew up with Mike on Guam. He was always a kind, sweet and fun friend. We lost touch but inevitably his name would come up amongst the gang as we all loved the high school years we shared we him. He was a wonderful man even back then!! I'm so sorry he left this world too soon... You are all in my thoughts & prayers. God Bless You!

Janice Davies

October 9, 2011

Wow, life is precious,mike always made us smile at Pollos Maria, he was such a positive spirit, we will pray for the family,he will be missed, Janice and the Pollos Maria crew.

Chuck & Diane Sutherland

October 9, 2011

Jennifer and family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We have enjoyed having your family as our next door neighbors, we couldn't have asked for anyone better. Mike will truly be missed and we want you and the kids to know we are right next door if you need anything!! May God bless you and your family!! Always, Chuck and Diane Sutherland

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