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Steven O'Leary Obituary


Steven Arthur O'Leary Father, Son, Brother, Uncle, Nephew, Cousin, Friend and Architect was at home with his family when he passed away peacefully on June 30, 2023.

He will be missed not only for his creative talent as an architect but for his great sense of humor, engaging personality and beautiful, loving soul.

Steve was raised in Los Angeles, CA and Mason City, IA, graduated from California High School: Class of 1982 and from Cal Poly Pomona: B. of Arch.: 1989. He became licensed in 1993 and worked at architecture firms in Southern California where he was the designer of many AIA Design Award winning projects.

While he was a student, he was on the design team as a finalist for the West Hollywood Civic Center Design Competition.

He was a docent at the Frank Lloyd Wright Barnsdall House and with another architect recreated the design of the living room furniture from photographs and built the model that would be used for the fundraising campaign that was used to rebuild the furniture for the renovation.

He was a past instructor at the UCLA extension and Mesa College and a thesis advisor at Newschool San Diego.

He is survived by his three children, Kelley, John and Griffin O'Leary, his former wife, Michele Grace Hottel, his parents, Vilma Toruno Burrola (Richard), his sister Eileen (Chris) Trautwein, his brothers Trevor Montroy & Patrick McGilligan, the O'Leary Family in Mason City, The Toruno Family, his nieces and nephews, Audrey and Hannah (Dan) and Benjamin, Victoria and Nate, great niece Annabelle, great nephew Ian and his in-laws, Barry Hottel, Mary Hottel, Eugene Hottel, and Cliff (Betsy) Eighmy.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, July 29th at 1pm with a reception to follow at St. Andrew's Lutheran Church, San Diego, California where he was an active and cherished member.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jul. 16, 2023.

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Theresa Atkinson-Betz

May 18, 2024

I worked with Steve in Alaska on the Nicole N fish prossesser in 1984. He was Very respectful and friendly coworker! I was the cook on the boat. I was 19. The majority of the crew were men, many of them creepy! Steve was very respectful and an advocate. We were friends. I continued my work as a industrial cook and found a job in Antarctica. While passing through LA, to sign my contract Steve and I were able to reconnect. We spent the day catching up. Just falling back into our friendship. Because Steve was that kind of guy. He reached out to me on Facebook. But I was too late to reply. I just googled him and sadly found his memorial. I'm glad he had a family and was able to share his love with you!

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Loangle Ray Newsome

July 17, 2023

Sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

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Lee

July 16, 2023

It seemed that there was always a smile in his countenance. An" Oh Well, let´s keep going" attitude. Peace to Michele, John, Kelly and Griff.

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