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Steven R. Rhoades

1947 - 2020

Steven R. Rhoades obituary, 1947-2020, Vista, CA

BORN

1947

DIED

2020

Steven Rhoades Obituary

Steven R Rhoades Vista Steven Rhoades, beloved husband, father, Marine, educator, and community member, passed away peacefully on June 18th. He will be remembered for his big stature and equally big heart, having transformed the lives of so many, through his teaching, leadership, and generosity. Although we grieve for our loss, his spirit has soared back to his wife, and they are now together again. Born on November 19, 1947 to Harry and Lucille Rhoades in Plymouth, Indiana. A lifelong Hoosier and Notre Dame fan, Steve would join the United States Marine Corps, serving honorably in Vietnam, and then settling in Vista, after marrying the love of his life, Linda. Together, they would raise two boys: Robert and Benjamin.After 20 years in the Marine Corps, Steve would go on to complete his college degree and begin teaching economics at Alta Vista High School. His service to youth continued through active participation in the Sunrise Vista Kiwanis, and serving on the City of Vista's Youth Basketball Board, as well as the City's Parks & Recreation Commission.Steve's chief passion was baseball. He coached at all levels, from Little League to high school. He also played softball for the All-Marine squad, as well as the City's adult softball league for nearly 40 years. A longtime Padres season ticket holder, Steve was always optimistic about their post-season prospects.A celebration of a life that has touched so many will be held at a time that best reflects the wellbeing of our community. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Sunrise Vista Kiwanis Foundation (include "Linda and Steve Rhoades Scholarship Fund" on the memo line), PO Box 142, Vista, CA 92085. November 19, 1947 - June 18, 2020

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jul. 12, 2020.

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Mark Hiltbrand

July 6, 2022

I have great memories of playing with and against Fogs and Figs. Steve will always be remembered as a true friend and most generous person! I will always cherish the memories of being with him. RIP

mark hiltbrand

July 6, 2021

As we embark on another season of softball in Vista, it just won't be the same without Steve around. Nobody enjoyed the comraderie more than Steve. Blessings to all who knew him!

Larry & Marty Ullrich

July 20, 2020

It was a privilege to have known Steve and Linda.
Our prayers and thoughts are with the Rhoades family.

Dorreen Donatoni-King

July 13, 2020

Best person on this planet. He will be missed by many

Cindy Castillo

July 12, 2020

I treasured yours and Linda's friendship all these years. I know you're happy to be reunited again. Love you both. RIP Steve

Anna Hayman

July 12, 2020

Mr. Rhoades was an amazing mentor, leader and friend. I first met Mr. Rhoades as a sophomore at Vista High School where he subbed and was an advisor for the Vista High FFA department. He loved the FFA department and was instrumental in creating, leading and serving on the scholarship committee for over 20 years (since the inception). He will always be remembered and carry a very special place in my heart ❤

Mark Hiltbrand

July 12, 2020

I had the privilege of playing softball under Steve's guidance for 5 years.He was a hard competitor and a good friend! We have had many enjoyable conversations over the years and he will be truly missed! It was truly a blessing to have known Steve!

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