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Mom and dad
August 17, 2025
Remembering our beautiful, kind and loving Son on the anniversary of his passing. We miss him every day and cherish the wonderful memories that helped to bring us peace.
Thembi
August 14, 2024
Thinking of you!!
mom
August 21, 2021
At the beach in La Jolla
mom
August 17, 2021
Remembering my beautiful son Todd with much love today. Eleven years have passed, the sadness and loss linger but the sweet memories are truly a comfort. I love you so dearly and miss our time together.
Dorrie Armstrong
August 14, 2021
Some of my best memories of my youth involve a summer day on Fallen Leaf Lake on a sailboat with Todd and Jason Oronzi. We used to spend hours deliberately flipping the sailboat and trying to dunk each other in the lake. The boat dock staff got on the megaphone and ordered us to come in, because they were worried we were all going to get hypothermia. Miss those days, miss Todd.
Mom
August 16, 2020
It is hard to believe that tomorrow, August 17 will mark the 10 year anniversary of Todd's passing. The tears and loss still overwhelm me at times but the beautiful memories of our cherished times together bring peace to my heart and a smile to my face. I feel blessed to have been chosen to adopt this adorable blond haired, blue eyed 6 week old baby. I celebrate July 25, 1972 which is the day we brought Todd into our family as well as Feb. 27, 1973 when his adoption was finalized. I wish I had been able to have more years to spend with my son; he was such a complicated person who was dealing with many challenging issues but he was one of the most creative, charming and intelligent individuals I knew. I miss having him around to fix anything broken, to have his wide range of knowledge on a Trivial Pursuit team, and to have his innate culinary talents in my kitchen. I admired the unique and interesting person Todd always was, fiercely loyal to friends and a sensitive and sweet individual. I know my son is constantly with me, I feel his presence watching over my life and I look forward to finding the coins he leaves me, to show that he is still a part of all that is going on in my life. Continue to grow and discover yourself in the after life, my darling son, and know that I think of you every day and love you so dearly.
Dawn Cicero
August 14, 2020
I was friends with Todd in high school and although he was two years younger than me and Jenna, he was kind and mature beyond his years. He wanted to take me out on a date but couldn’t drive so I drove us to see Joe Piscopo in concert and we had the best time. Such a sweet guy. I wish I had known him as an adult but I’m sure he was just as kind and is dearly missed.
This photo is from Stanford Sierra Camp, Week 6, somewhere between 1989 and 1994. Todd Schulman is in the back row, second from the left.
Kristin Dickerson
January 17, 2017
Gabe
October 13, 2014
Todd was an amazing person, he was in my life a short time but made an impact that will last a lifetime, memories of the "Love Bubble" Toyota minivan, trips to Mexico, Jen Barnes, Cassandra, Garth, the El Dorado, many fun times with a friend who was all heart, but hurt inside as well. I miss him and am blown away he is gone... rest finally, in peace my brother, Todd
Caroline Pendergast
July 8, 2014
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Schulman-
My name is Caroline and Todd and I were good friends in college in Santa Barbara. We lived together in Francisco Torres dorm and grew to be really good friends over the course of that year. I cared for your son very much and felt a sort of kindred spirit with him and appreciated the time we got to spend together in college. As the years passed, Todd and I lost touch as young paths meander in different directions. Over the years, Todd has popped in my mind, and I've thought "what ever happened to Toddles?" (As I fondly called him :)
Well, today, after more than a couple decades of asking myself that question, something drew me try to find out and see if I could reconnect to say hello to him again...so, I googled him, clicked on images, found him quickly, and clicked on this site. My heart skipped a beat to discover that sweet Todd has passed on. Moreover, that today happens to be his birthday really struck a deep chord in my heart. I wanted to reach out to send my deep condolences for your loss. I remember Todd as a vivacious, creative, musical, funny, bright man and I am deeply saddened to learn of his loss. I will most definitively light a candle for him tonight on his 42nd birthday. Thank you for this forum to share, and a moment in time to remember a dear friend I won't soon forget. May he rest in peace, and may your family carry on the spirit of such a lovely human who will always be a part of you.
With warmly regards, fond memories and deep sympathy,
Caroline (Langer) Pendergast
Paul Schulman
June 8, 2014
Happy 42nd birthday my beloved son. I miss you so much every day.
Love,
Dad
Susan LaRose
October 23, 2012
Paul and Suzanne,
We haven't signed Todd's guest book until now but have been thinking of you both since his passing. Although we only knew Todd for a few months we know he was a fantastic roommate and great source of strength for our son Matt. You both enlightened us so much and we will forever be greatful for that. Dave, Matt and I feel so fortunate that Todd touched our lives and will never forget him.
August 20, 2012
My darling son,
Two years have passed and today is August 20, the anniversary date of your funeral.
I miss you so very much; miss spending time together, hearing your voice, seeing your beautiful smile, enjoying your cooking creations. I cherish the memories and try to focus on all the happy times our family spent together.
I can sense your presence around me so often and this is truly a comfort. Your ability to connect from one realm to another amazes me as I continue to seek a spiritual connection with you.
I pray you are at peace and watching over those who love you so deeply and dearly. You are always in my thoughts and heart as my love and respect for you grows deeper.
Mom
Paul Schulman
August 17, 2012
My beloved son,
On this second anniversary of your death I miss you so much and pray you are at peace and contentment in another dimension. I think of you daily and am grateful for the time we had together on this earth. I pray each day that we will meet again someday in another realm and enjoy an eternity together.
With undying love forever,
Dad
June 11, 2012
Dear Todd--
I find myself thinking of you all the time, especially as July draws near. Thank you for all the kindness and friendship you showed me over the years. We all miss you.
Dorrie
Alicia Stepp
June 10, 2012
Always on my mind. Miss you every single day. <3
June 9, 2012
Thinking of you always with a smile - miss you...with love from your Plaskin cousins
June 9, 2012
I miss ur smiling face always! It seems you are still with me sometimes....thanks for making my world a beautiful place!
June 8, 2012
June 8, 2012
My darling Todd,
Today has been a day of sweet memories and sad feelings. I visited your grave-site to sing 'Happy Birthday' and bring you flowers. I wish we could have celebrated with our usual lovely dinner together but I know you will appreciate that I toasted your 40th with a beer!
You are always in my thoughts, my heart and my prayers. I miss you so much and love you dearly.
Forever my beautiful TW,
Mom
Paul Schulman
June 8, 2012
Dear Todd,
Today would be your fortieth birthday.I think about you and miss you every day.I love you very much.
Love forever,
Dad
Alicia Woody
August 17, 2011
Thinking about you today and always. Can't believe it has been a year. Miss him so much every single day. All of my love to you, Paul, Suzanne and Jenna as well as your entire family. <3
Dawn Cicero
August 5, 2011
Todd and I were very close in highschool for a short time and I just remember him always being very happy, mischevious and kind.
July 11, 2011
dear sue and paul,
a beautiful day for todd. remembering this angelic-looking blond haired little boy. he filled his life with more adventure in his 38 years than most people do in double that time.
he could repair most things mechanical, electrical, catch a fish, cook a fish, build the alaskan pipeline, fix a computer, program a computer, drive an 18 wheeler cross country and overcome so many physical ailments.
he was admired by his friends and loved by his family. his candle blew out much too soon. he will not be forgotten!
xob
June 12, 2011
Pam Rogers
June 28, 2011
Todd is terribly missed. He always lit up a room with his infectious smile. I have tried for a long time to reconnect with Todd and see how he was doing. I was devasted to learn of his passing.
Dealing with the loss of a loved one is never easy, but take great comfort in knowing that Todd make a positive impact on so many people. He was one of the most benevolent people I have known. I will always remember him.
Mark Borrelli
June 12, 2011
Dear Paul, Sue and Jenna,
As Todd's birthday has just passed, I was reminded of having dinner with Jenna in San Francisco last month, and her telling me that this online guest book was still open, so I wanted to just say a couple of words. Jenna is one of my dearest friends for life, and as a result I spent some time with Todd in high school - and what a wonderful time that was. I know everyone else here has probably said it more eloquently, but Todd was simply a wonderful young man. Such a genuine, vibrant person. When I think of him, the first thing I see is his smile, and it always makes me smile! When you reflect on Todd please remember all the many lives he touched with his humor, his charm, his friendship and his kindness. He was truly a wonderful man from a wonderful family, and he is greatly missed.
Lauren, Dana, Dan and Jess Austin
June 9, 2011
Todd was intelligent and charming, handsome and charismatic. He had so many talents and so much love to give. He marched to his own beat, and lived his life the way that he wanted to. His loss is a hole in the fabric of the family that can never be repaired. We will always remember him for his unique and adventurous spirit. It is our hope that your many wonderful memories of Todd will serve to sustain and comfort you. Our love, thoughts, and support are always with you.
Angie Generazzo-Rader
June 8, 2011
Happy Birthday Todd....you are greatly missed!
Hector and Anna Lora
May 17, 2011
It is with great regret and sadness that i process this news. I met Todd during our days at Grossmont in the early 90's. His engaging charisma, clever wit, and contagious smile made it easy to quickly regard him as my friend. He invited my girlfriend(now wife) and I to his home with such welcoming genuineness we have never forgotten. I've always cherished the memories I have of him and now even more so. When my wife and I reflect and think of people who have touched our lives with kindness, Todd is always mentioned. I just woke her up to share the news and she choked up as well. I am deeply saddened and will always remember Todd as a truly noble soul with a comforting smile. Sorry I waited so long to look my friend up.Our condolences to the Schulmans.
Todd and Alicia - Fall 2001
Alicia Stepp-Woody
May 12, 2011
Alicia Stepp-Woody
April 18, 2011
I miss you so much. My heart hurts every day and will never be whole again.
January 3, 2011
Dear Paul, Sue and Jenna,
I didn't know Todd very well.
I remember him only in his late teens, and I think of somebody
who was warm, caring, and fascinated with surfing and the beach.
It is clear from your memories that he was so much more.
I try to remember that being decent and caring, our influence on others,and a set of values we can be proud of, are really the only things we leave behind. And truly that's who Todd was.
Obviously he was much more accomplished than the surfer I remember.
It sounds like he lived each day to the fullest, not afraid of taking a risk, and yet having time to be everyone's friend, when they needed one.
Todd did so much in his life, and with these memories, I hope you take comfort. And you raised a son who loved others and cared, and for this you can be proud.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Elliott and Bonnie Schulman
November 28, 2010
Eric Bradley
November 27, 2010
Paul, Suzanne, and Jenna,
I will remember Todd for being my first true friend. I still remember the lost, almost hopeless feeling I had that day. I was a shy kid that had moved to a new neighborhood, new school. I was sad & felt like I didn't fit in. Then this kid shows up to my house unannounced & instantly made me his friend. Like I had know him my whole life. I remember all the sleep overs, camp outs, water polo games, swim meets & yes a lot of mischeif. Growing up with Todd had certainly made my childhood colorful. All the good times we had and the wonderful friends I made along the way. I think back on all the caring, understanding & unconditional love you gave us in those days. The memory of this has certainly helped me deal with adversity as a parent. I too remember the pride he had in his Jewish heritage. I also remember how much he & I looked up to Jenna. At the service Todd was remembered for taking care of animals and those in need. In some ways I look back and see myself as a bird with a broken wing. Todd lifted my spirits then and helped me to fly again. This, I will never forget. I will never forget how welcoming your family was to me. Todd will always be in my heart.
Zach Strachan
November 8, 2010
I am so sorry, I can't believe it. It has been 20+ years since I lived across the street from you guys on New Ranch Road. But I always remembered Todd as one of the few good people at Valhalla. I was just thinking about Todd today and decided to Google him to see what he has been up to all these years, and maybe send him a message. I will be thinking of you all.
Tom & Stella Martinez
October 30, 2010
Dear Paul, Suzanne and Jenna,
It's been awhile since we've seen you. We occasionally look back to the fond memories as we pass your first residence here on Long Boat Way. We all were much younger as Todd and Jenna were then children - Ooh how wonderful.
Finding out on the loss of beloved son Todd and brother Jenna, saddens us and we share in your grief. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May your loving memories give you strength knowing that Todd is free and that he lives in your hearts forever.
God be with you.
October 6, 2010
Dear Suzanne, Paul and Jenna,
I am so sorry that Todd has passed much too young. My thoughts are with you all in this time of grief. I remember Todd as a creative and exuberant boy, so full of life. Condolences and best wishes for years of fond, happy and joyful memories of him. Sincerely, Lynnea
Chris Cashin
September 29, 2010
I miss him..In a time in our lives that true friends are so very important I am honored to have known him. I think about him often and kinda know that we will be seeing each other in a different place. Its hard to care about people in our situation and he was always genuine. My heart hurts but he is still showing me that I'm capable of not being so selfish. Thank you.
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September 14, 2010
Dear Paul, Suzanne & Jenna,
Although we knew Todd only for a short time, we found him to be charming and very interesting. We hope that you are beginning to heal from this great loss. We have planted a tree in Isreal through Hadassah in memory of Todd. Our love and prayers are with you all.
Sandra Puchahes
September 13, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
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Todd with Grandpa at wedding
September 12, 2010
Halloween (2 years old)
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Todd with mom
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Todd's high school graduation
September 12, 2010
leslie ima
September 11, 2010
I wish I had met Todd, but from the memories of his family and friends, I know he was loved, and will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to all who loved Todd. He was rich in family and friends with whom he shared great joy.
Angie Generazzo Rader
September 10, 2010
Dear Mr and Mrs Schulman and Jenna,
I just found out I am so very sorry. Todd was truly one of a kind! I have never met, or expect that I will ever meet,anyone like him. He was such a great person so funny and such a kind heart. Todd has always been one of those few people, that no matter how much time passes remains in my heart. words can not express my sympathies to your entire family. God bless.
Todd~ you will always have a special place in my heart. You knew just how to make me laugh...even when I didn't want to. You showed me how to see the good within the bad and find that elusive silver lining. Thank you for being such an important peice of my life.
Be free
September 9, 2010
Dear Dr. Schulman and Mrs. Schulman
We are very sorry about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Coronado Crew
Dixie
Genevieve
Joe
Barbara Jo
September 7, 2010
Dear Suzanne, Paul, and Jenna,
Although, I haven't seen the Schulmans in awhile, it still makes me feel terrible and sad for your grief.
I remember Todd as a happy go lucky kid. I'm sure God will be at his side and watch over his soul.
Danny Marshall Sr.
Give me a call 760-533-3172 or email me at [email protected].
Jennifer (Barnes) McDougal
September 6, 2010
Dr. & Mrs. Schulman, my thoughts and prayers are with you. The two of you were always so kind to me when I visited your home. That same kindness radiated from your son. Words cannot express how much I love Todd Schulman. He was a true friend.
Alicia Stepp-Woody
September 2, 2010
Todd, I am a better person from having you in my life. Thank you for being my friend and always being there for me when I needed someone to talk to. I cherish the ten years of friendship we had and the time we were able to spend together here in Texas. I always looked forward to our phone calls and will miss your voice and your crude jokes and laugh more than I could possibly express. I am just so sad and beat myself up daily for not getting out to visit you in San Diego in time. I love you with all of my heart and will miss you immensely until the day I die. <3
Todd dressed up as Bender from Breakfast Club for my 28th birthday party
Alicia Stepp-Woody
September 2, 2010
Alison Barry-Klein
September 1, 2010
Dear Schulman Family-
I was truly saddened to learn of Todd's passing. Although I have not seen Todd in many years, he was truly an unforgettable person. My heart goes out to your entire family.
Alison Barry-Klein
thembi rivera
August 31, 2010
DEAREST SHULMAN FAMILY,
Iy has been such a pleasure meeting you and THE loss of Todd breaks my heart. The thought of him will always make me smile forever. Meeting your beautiful family is a blessing.
Cousins
August 31, 2010
Grandmother's b'day
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loved to cook
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Family in Santa Fe
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Todd living in Dallas
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Todd's best friend Alicia
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Andrew Kasprzycki
August 29, 2010
I'm so sorry to hear of Todd's death. I have fond memories spending time with him in high school and remember a particular trip we took in 1990 to the Pacific Northwest with Jazz Ensemble. Such a tragedy that the world will be without him now. Warm regards and condolensces to Jenna and the rest of the Schulman Family.
August 29, 2010
Our deepest sympathy goes to all of you on the loss of Todd. May he rest n peace and you find peace as well.
Marilynn Cohen and family
david colombani
August 27, 2010
Lorry & Bob Leavitt
August 27, 2010
Sue, Paul and Jenna,
We are so sorry to hear about Todd's passing. Our hearts go out to you. Please know you're in our thoughts.
Standford Sierra Camp, S. Lake Tahoe, NV, Fall 1994
Traci Zainea
August 27, 2010
My deepest regrets to the Schulman Family. Todd and I spent a winter together, one I will cherish forever.
August 26, 2010
Dr. Schulman, Suzanne & Jenna. Just a note to let you know that you are in our hearts and prayers. Finding the right thing to say is difficult, just know that your many friends and relatives share some of your pain.
Marcia Sylliaasen Adams
Karl Orlowski
August 24, 2010
I'm saddened to hear of Todd's untimely passing. I have many memories of Todd from elementary school through high school, and I can honestly say they always bring a smile to my face. He always was a talented, spirited individual with so much to offer.
My fondest memories are of water polo practice with him and the days in the neighborhood playing with our friends.
My thoughts are with you all during this time.
August 24, 2010
Suzanne, Paul and Jenna: Nancy and I have been on vacation, just returned this week-end and just today learned of Todd's death. We are shocked and so very saddened by this news. Our hearts and prayers are with you. We have so many memories of all the years with Todd and you all on New Ranch Road. We pray God's Grace, Mercy and Peace be with you now and always!
Nancy and Daryl Idler
Eric Faibish
August 24, 2010
Dear Schulman Family, I am deeply sorry to hear of Todd's passing. I have fond memories of Todd from High School and always respected him for the person he was. My condolences go out to your family.
Debbie Bayer-Stallard
August 23, 2010
Dear Dr. and Mrs. Schulman and Jenna, I am so sorry about Todd's passing. I still remember the days swimming in your pool and Todd chasing us around the yard... and all of us screaming with joy and a little bit of fear! Todd was a big part of my childhood as we were both usually in tow when our parents got together. When I think of Todd I think of his eyes... sort of like George Clooney's- very handsome. I know these memories will keep Todd alive in our hearts and minds forever.
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