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Adam Blatner Obituary

Adam Blatner
October 1, 2021
San Luis Obispo, California - Adam Blatner, M.D., "floated to the finish" (in his own words) in October. Inspired as a child by his primary physician's kindness, Dr. Blatner declared his intention to become a doctor even before elementary school, saying "I want to help other little children, like you do." Graduating from the University of California, Berkeley, where he was awarded Phi Beta Kappa in his Junior year, he continued his education at UCSF School of Medicine, receiving his M.D. and entering psychiatric residency at Stanford University School of Medicine. Following his residency, Dr. Blatner joined the United States Air Force; served as head of the family clinical treatment facility at Lakenheath Air Force Base, England; and achieved the rank of Lt. Colonel when he was discharged from the service. He was double board certified in adult and child/adolescent psychiatry and was a Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association.
Dr. Blatner's sub-specialty interest led to his certification as a Trainer Educator of Psychodrama. He is the author of the primary textbook in that field, Acting-In, which has been translated into every major language. A prolific writer, he authored several other books, chapters in textbooks, and many articles.
He was an active proponent of psychological literacy, critical thinking, and mental flexibility. As a clinician, he helped patients discover areas of health and joy in their lives. Dr. Blatner wrote and taught about the primary values of imagination, intuition, playfulness, improvisation, physical vitality, expressiveness, and spiritual inspiration as ways to foster a higher level of social and emotional skills in the human population.
Teaching has been a constant focus of Dr. Blatner's professional and avocational endeavors. He was an Associate Professor at the University of Louisville School of Medicine and Texas A&M Medical School. In retirement, he and several other teachers started a Senior Learning for fun program. A passionate reader and polymath from his early childhood, Dr. Blatner borrowed from local lending libraries and purchased thousands of books—reading them all! One of his greatest joys with the Senior Learning program was the chance to teach classes on a wide variety of subjects from Shakespeare, world writing systems, micro-biology, process philosophy, history of medicine, history of comic books, etc.
He was an outstanding dancer, embracing international folk and ballroom dance as a teenager, adding square and round dancing, and advanced his skill in those areas into his later life. During retirement, he sang in a choral group and participated in community theatre productions. Always a lover of the tradition of campfire song fests, he compiled an extensive songbook, and actively held small and larger group sing-a-longs wherever he lived.
After Dr. Blatner — a lifelong clinician, academic, theorist, internationally respected author and educator — learned that he was experiencing symptoms of dementia, he declared his intention to calmly "float to the finish." Which he did, surrounded by his devoted family. He is survived by his wife of almost 50 years, Allee; ex-wife, Barbara; son David and wife Debbie, their sons Gabriel and Daniel; daughter Alisa and husband Paul, their daughters Camille and Zoe; brother Irwin, two beloved nieces, and numerous cousins. His uplifting smile and joie de vivre will be deeply missed by his family, colleagues, and friends. He often insisted that his greatest accomplishment was: "I got to help."
The family thanks SLO Hospice and the "angels on earth" from Dignity Health Hospice who attended his final decline. Neptune Society was especially helpful when we needed them most. In lieu of flowers please consider donating to your local Library. The family held a private service to honor Adam's life.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Oct. 6, 2021.

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Maureen

September 30, 2022

At the one-year commemoration of the completion of Adam's float to the finish, I'm even more aware of how profound our loss has been. This is the first opportunity I've had to read his extremely well-written, moving obituary. What an extraordinary human being. Again, I express my gratitude for having met him! Through Allee, I feel Adam's magic still working, his desire to help just a strong as ever. Love you Adam.

felicia white-meyers

November 8, 2021

My condolence to his family and friends. I met him many years ago at a psychodrama conference. I was so impressed with his expression and understanding of life and helping others. He was very unconventional. To me he was the epitome of spontaneous living. He exuded a wealth of knowledge and autonomous life energy. I conversed with him in several of his blog posts. He made a positive impression on my life. There will never be another like him. I was lucky to have met him when I did. Our limited exchanges in blog messages was meaningful valued. He will not be forgotten.

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Maureen Moriarty

October 15, 2021

My life was graced by the presence of Adam and his beloved wife Allee for only a few short years. But oh, what wondrous years they were. I often expressed my sadness to them that we hadn't met long before we did. But that wasn't to be. I treasure my memories of Adam: observing the back of his fluffy white head in the first or second row on the right side at UU services and feeling comforted by his presence; sitting next to him at The Palm, watching "Yellow Submarine"; listening to him singing and being amazed at his recall of lyrics; and receiving loving hugs and smiles from him. Suffice it to say, there will never be another Adam. Much love to Allee and the children. ~~~ Maureen

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