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David Kubiak Obituary

David Allen Kubiak beloved father, husband, and son died in a tragic fishing accident Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2009. David was born to Donald J. and Diane L. Kubiak in Newport Beach, Calif., in July 1962. David''s greatest passion was commercial fishing, like his grandfather Axel, father Don, and uncles Harlen, Richard and Allen before him. David often reminisced about birthdays at sea with his father. David proved to be a true man at age 15, when he and his brother, Chris, helped their father bring the family''s F/V (fishing vessel) from Texas through the Panama Canal home to Morro Bay. The family repeated this adventure three years later to bring his grandfather Axel''s F/V Skagerrak, F/V Cassie and F/V Lille Baelt home to Morro Bay. He attended Morro Bay High School and married Paige L. Johnson on December 27, 1986, and again November 11, 2003. David served on of the Central California Cable Fisheries Committee and was a lifelong advocate of the commercial fishing industry. He was a true fisherman at sea, providing for his family. David was doing what he loved, he never gave up and fought to stay alive to get home to the people who love him. The Kubiak family would like to thank the Untied States Coast Guard and Meo of the F/V Miss Allison for their assistance. Survivors include his parents, Don and Diane Kubiak; the love of his life, Paige; son, Gunnar; daughter, Taliah; mother-in-law, Cherrie Johnson; brother, Christopher (Teresa); niece, Brooke; sister Cassie (Gene); his tightly knit extended family; the Larsens and Boltons; Uncle Ron Kubiak; and the extended family of commercial fishermen and wonderful friends. A funeral has been scheduled for 10 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 12, 2009, at Benedict-Rettey Mortuary Chapel, 1401 Quintana Road in Morro Bay. A celebration of David''s life will be held from 3 to 7 p.m. Friday, Nov. 13, 2009, at the Morro Bay Vet''s Hall. The David Kubiak Memorial Trust Fund has been set up at Rabobank - donations will be accepted at any branch of the bank to help his family in this time of great sorrow. Benedict-Rettey Mortuary 772-7382 Morro Bay

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Nov. 7, 2009.

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March 7, 2010

David, Everday you enter my heart and spend time in my mind. The wonderful fellow who spoke at your going away day asked us to not call on you for long because you need to go on in your journey. Calling you is not what i do--you just arrive; free and without appointment.
Paige, Gunnar & Tilly feel you too.Of that i am sure.

December 5, 2009

David, you were our other favorite son. During Hi-sch & after, you & Michael were the best of friends. We remember your smile, that made us think that you knew something that we didn't know (or that you were up to somethin. Man, You were part of our family, along w/Chris. We grieve w/your fam., but know that you are w/us & around us every day. To the Kubiak Family: Know that we have loved David as Fam. As a family that has lost an adult son, we can understand the emptiness. Blessings to You All
Glen/Jan/Tracey/Michael Cornett

Dawn Esselbach Urrea

November 28, 2009

The celebration of Dave's life was such a fitting and heartfelt event that I was so glad to have attended. Being a fellow classmate and "Rugheads" girl back in the day resulted in a special friendship between Dave and I.
Although I have become so busy in my own life of family, friends and work, work, work, Dave's celebration helped me to realize that the older that I get the more important the people in my past have become and the more precious my current family and friends are.
The presence of so many spoke of his character and likablity. Who could find fault with a smile like that?
It was so striking to me that Dave was not amongst us physically as we gathered to remember him and some of us took a little trip back in time in his honor. I am therefor so grateful that God created a place for us all to reunite in an eternal celebration with one another.
To Dave's family I pray that you allow God to carry you through this and comfort you as only He can. I can only imagine the heartbreak that you all feel. Blessings to you.
Dawn Esselbach Urrea

November 27, 2009

Remember, OH, Remember. David, there will not come a sunrise, nor a sunset on this blue earth of ours that your precious self is not remembered--

Stormy Wenter-Keyes

November 17, 2009

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of Dave's family and friends. He was such a huge influence in the fishing community, he will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

m

November 13, 2009

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy

November 13, 2009

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

November 12, 2009

Dear Diane & Don, It is difficult to tell you how deeply I feel about the loss of David. When there is love, any life is to short. He will be greatly missed. No person or experience will ever replace the happy days and love David gave you both. I know your courage will help you through these difficult times.

With Love, Your old friend Al

Jeanie Hunt

November 12, 2009

LOVE AND STRENGTH TO THE FAMILY,ALWAYS IN YOUR HEARTS TO BE REMEMBERED,HE IS YOUR ANGEL.

Captain James Chapman

November 11, 2009

It is with a great deep sadness that I am sending my condolences to the Kubiak Family. I still say to myself, not Dave, not Dave Kubiak. Losing Dave is a huge loss... His family, his friends and the town of Morro Bay will miss him terribly. Morro Bay will not be the same without him. This tragedy is so unbelievable to me it’s very surreal. Dave was my boss, a mentor and a great friend and I will shout it out loud that "I LOVED THE HELL OUT OF THAT GUY"! Some of the best times of my life were spent with Dave. When I tell my children the stories of my youth they almost always include Dave Kubiak. He was a great man and his legacy in Morro Bay will go on forever. He was truly a lucky man. To be loved and remembered by so many speaks volumes of Dave’s heart and his character. He will be deeply missed. It is going to be pretty tough to get through this one that is for sure. This is such a great loss to so many people. I know that I will get through these sad times knowing that I will see you again my dear friend in a place where the "fishin's" always good. The entire Chapman Family sends their love and prayers to the Kubiak Family.
Your Good Friend, MAX

Terry Sylveter- White

November 11, 2009

I went to High School with David, words cannot express the sorrow I felt when I heard of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kubiak family and friends of David. Keep his memories alive and may they always make you smile!

Colleen harper

November 11, 2009

All my thoughts and prayers sent out to the entire Kubiak family...

Sara Sigmund

November 10, 2009

Paige, Tilly, Gunnar, Cherie & The entire Kubiak Family,
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. May your memories of David bring you comfort.

Yvonne Davis

November 10, 2009

Just wanted to share a funny memory: Dave & Chris tried to trash can my best friend Elke & I our first day at MBHS. They were friends with Elke's brother, Lee Balgeman. The fun teasing continued after that. We visited them at the Skagerrak. We are so sorry for the families loss of such a nice guy.

Julianne, Sharese & April & Your EOPS Family

November 10, 2009

Paige, Tilly, Gunnar, Cherie & The entire Kubiak Family,
We all share in your loss. Although some of us didn't personally know David, except vicariously through the funny stories/memories that Paige shared with those of us who work along side her, we know these memories will live on forever in our hearts and others.

Amber Robertson

November 10, 2009

Dave kubiak was such a beloved friend...I will always cherish the many memories I have of him. I am so sorry for Paige and his family. My deepest sympathy goes out to them in this time of sorrow. He will always be a part of us all...and he will never be forgotten...

ROXANE SEEBER

November 10, 2009

i am so sorry for your loss. he was a nice guy and always said to you when he was on the docks working on his boat or getting ready to head back out for more fish. my heart goes out to you and your family.

Tim Malone

November 9, 2009

David You will be missed immensely.You were not only my best friend you were also my boss and bro .I am so happy to have known and loved you for the 30 years.Words can not explain the loss of such a great man.Your family brought me in as one their own.Dave always worked to provide for his lovly wife Paige,son Gunner and daugher Tilly.My heart and condolences go out to the whole KUBIAK family.I love you all.David i will see you again in the big world we will fish,camp and ride once again.LOVE YOU ALWAYS.RUGHEAD

Skylar Malone

November 9, 2009

Dave, im gonna miss you, i remember all the times at the lake and Dinki Creek I will charish those memories for the rest of my life. I will see you sometime
R.I.P

Mike Cornett

November 9, 2009

Tears roll down my face as I sit here searching for words of encouragement and condolences to Paige and the entire Kubiak family. To say that David's death was a tragedy would be the understatement of all time. David never considered himself a Big Shot.. But to many of of us he was King. He was easy going, yet still full of passion and hard working. His love and appreciation for family, friends and fishing was second to none. He was a great friend to all, a dedicated father and an awesome fisherman. I feel blessed to have had David and the entire Kubiak family in my life.

On behalf of my Mom,Dad and Sister- We offer our condolences and prayers.

"Captin Dave" will surely be missed.

Billy Maharry

November 9, 2009

David was my friend. We attended high school together and shared many an adventure surfing fishing and being friends Growing up along the Central Coast. I have many happy memories of David. My heart goes out to Paige and the Kubiak family. I will miss my friend so very much.
Peace and Love

Sondra (Sue'Sue) Cardwell

November 9, 2009

Dear Paige and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I pray for peace for you during this difficult time.

Chip and Kim Romero

November 9, 2009

Morro Bay's heart is broken and it will never be the same. We will miss you forever Dave. Did we have some great times or what? Paige, we are so sorry for the loss of Dave. Seems like pretty simple words for such a huge loss.

Ron & Jann Almquist

November 9, 2009

Paige, Tilly and the entire Kubiak family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

craig porter

November 9, 2009

to the whole Kubiak family. thank you for sharing such a wonderful person with us all. david was a great person to myself and my family, we will miss him.

michael

November 8, 2009

we share the joys of a fisherman's efforts, but share only in a small way the loss of a wonderful father and husband. my prayers of thanksgiving for his life and wish for peace to the family he helped create and nurture.

Craig Luce

November 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kubiak family. Who were always frinds of our family,Dave will always live in our harts and memories.God bless and rest in peace.

jamie

November 7, 2009

Dearest Paige , Tilly, Gunnar and family, -the great love that your beautiful David had for you will be with you always and forever, as your love will be with him.

Evan Calvillo

November 7, 2009

I have nothing but good memories of Dave, growing up living down the street from where he lived years ago. It is truly a huge loss and he will be missed. He was a great man and treated us with the utmost respect. My sincerest condolences to the whole family.

James (MadMax) Chapman

November 7, 2009

I am very sad and I will be praying for you all . I will miss you my friend.
Max

James Chapman

November 7, 2009

I am very sad and I will be praying for you all.
Max

Lisa Schicker

November 7, 2009

Dear Paige, Tilly, Gunner and David's extended family and friends: There are never easy words for what has happened to all of you - I cry with you and I grieve for you, I wish I could ease your pain. I was part of a fisherman's family myself, many years ago,in the outer banks of North Carolina - I feel so deeply for what happened to your family and even though I only knew David through you, Paige, I know what a good and brave man he was and how much you and others loved him. I want others to be able to share their thoughts with you, too, and I hope this journal will offer you some peace and good memories in the years to come. Sending you love, compassion and light from your loving friend, always from Lisa

Rosemary Donnell

November 7, 2009

Dear Paige and Cherrie,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I mailed David's obituary to Renee this morning. I know she also sends her thoughts and prayers in this very difficult time.
Rosemary Donnell
Mother of Renee Scholtes Arias

Reni

November 7, 2009

May God have you in heaven and that God may soon bring peace to your family and may they always keep you alive in their memories.

Janice Peterson-Anthony

November 7, 2009

Dave's family, We want to say that our thoughts and prayers are with you all....We understand the grief you are going through and time will heal...Keep the love and memories close to your hearts and David,Dave will never leave you...and look for signs that he is still nearby...

Mark Wise

November 7, 2009

David, I didn't know you, but the entire SLO County community has spoken so highly of you through the Tribune articles on your untimely death.

Rest in peace!

Jeff and Lori French

November 7, 2009

Love to you all.

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