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Donald Gravely Obituary

Donald Gravely Donald Gravely, 71, of San Luis Obispo, passed away in San Luis Obispo in August of 2019. Born in Louisville, Kentucky, Don was a long-time Central Coast resident. He was a member of Alcoholics Anonymous and had been sober over 30 years. A kind man with a quick wit, Don leaves a wealth of friends in the area who loved him and will miss him. He is survived by his sister Nancy Tomes, a nephew, Keith Tomes and nieces, Leigh Anne Tomes and Sarah Bowles, all of Louisville. No services are planned. He will be cremated and his ashes scattered at sea.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Sep. 14, 2019.

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George Kevin Gravley

July 12, 2021

See you later cuz.

Philip Garcia

December 13, 2020

I've been thinking about Don for quite a while now but he had always been a difficult person with whom to get in touch. I'm saddened to learn of his passing. He was a wonderful friend to all he met. I admired how he shared his experience, strength and hope with others. He had a sense of practical wisdom along with a quirky sense of humor. I regret not being able to spend more time with him. Rest in peace, old friend. Phil G.

September 23, 2019

I was a homeless man who has lost my way in life this man who never knew me didn't judge or look down on me as if I wasn't even human just offered me some kindness and a meal to eat its people like this that makes San Luis Obispo special we all as human beings need acceptance love and kindness we were designed this way

Edison Lake, CA

Bry Schmidt

September 23, 2019

Don and I used to sit on the couch at Melody and Shake. I spent many hours with Don when we were newly sober. He was my friend and I will miss him. Love you Man and you and God will get along fine.

Jane J

September 23, 2019

Don, You will always be in my heart. Over 30 years of great memories since first meeting you at Melody. My heart hurts knowing I won't see you again until.....

Ronnie S

September 19, 2019

Don,
I knew you over 25 years and always admired your sense of humor and friendship. We will all miss you.

Mike Anderson

September 18, 2019

Don worked for the California Conservation Corps for many years. His heart went out to many young folks, imparting his wisdom along the way. Many are better for having met you.

September 14, 2019

Don, you will be missed! You have some great company to join in the big meeting in the sky. You had some "pearls of wisdom" that strongly impacted me. Rest in peace Don!

September 14, 2019

Don always greeted me with "It's too bad." Yes, Don, it is. Will miss your dry dry wit.
Love to you as you annoy the angels.

September 14, 2019

Don - You will always live on in my heart and I will miss your dry wit, amazing stories and your big warm bear hugs. You left us way, way, way too soon.

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