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John Whelen Obituary

John "Jack" Whelen passed away peacefully Monday, June 4, 2012, in Morro Bay, with his wife, Mary at his side. Born in 1917 to Sidney and Virginia Whelen, Jack grew up on the Eastern Shore of Maryland. He obtained his education at St. Andrews prep school in Delaware, Princeton University and later, U.C. Davis. As World War II approached, Jack enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps, where he served until the War''s end. As a young officer, his assignment to March Field Air Base brought him to California, where he met his lovely Mary Roberts - they married in the March Field Chapel in 1943. In the early years of their marriage, Jack pursued ranch management experience, first on a thoroughbred horse breeding farm, then on a dairy farm. However, as his family grew, he decided to put his engineering studies to work in the aerospace industry in Southern California. In retirement, he and Mary purchased an apple farm on Highway 41 West, where Jack raised organic apples, sheep and poultry, and made fresh apple cider every fall. He particularly loved bringing the small farm experience to children. For many years, Jack was very involved with his kids in 4-H Club as well as the AFS Intercultural student exchange program. Jack and Mary also loved to travel, and took many adventurous trips over the years. A few of Jack''s favorite things were good literature, rural living, working on projects with friends, his loyal dog, Sadie ''¦ and the ocean. Jack leaves behind his wife, Mary; four children Carol, Susan, Clyde and Patti; honorary daughter, Nga Nguyen and family; granddaughter, Tracy; sister, Billie Brittingham and extended family in Maryland. He was predeceased by his twin sister, Virginia. In his remembrance, a gathering of friends will be held later this summer. Please call (805) 528-3073 for details.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jun. 14, 2012.

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Julian Besset

July 2, 2022

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Julian Besset

July 2, 2022

Ten years have passed. I have grown older, passed my eighties, endured the pandemic, which nearly terminated my own existence, yet my memories are still vivid, thank goodness, meaning I won't ever forget you, dear John.

September 20, 2013

Dear Mary and Patti,

I wish to let you know how moved I was to learn belatedly of Jack's demise.
The remembrance of the day when I first met Jack and you all, in 1986 has stuck with me. All the time I knew him, his pointed humor, congeniality and equanimity stood out. I have tried to follow his one time counsel : "never grow old", at least in one's mind, but don't think I can do so as well as he did.
Love to all.

Julian Besset,
228 rue Naujac,
33000 Bordeaux, France.
[email protected]

Susan Bone O'Brien

June 30, 2012

Dear Mary and Patti-
I have thought of all of you so often over the past 34 years or so! Have always appreciated Jack's gentle kindness and his stories when we were growing up.
Almost 70 years of marriage!
My heart is with you. Many blessings and love,
Susan Bone O'Brien

Michael Thomas

June 21, 2012

Dear Patti, Marisa, and Mary
Jack was a wonderful man and I will always remember him. I loved our long conversations, his sense of humor, his curiosity, his stories, and the joy he found in simple things like taking off to find some ice cream on a hot day. I miss him.
Michael

Marty Brown

June 18, 2012

Dear Whelen Family,

I remember Jack from way back 35 years ago. We took a field trip
with our preschool kids to Jack and Mary's Apple Farm on Morro Road
It was delightful. He loved his place and the animals he cared for.

I also knew Jack from when my late husband,Dennis Brown, and I owned the Battery Exchange.
Dennis and our son-in-law, Troy Wilson, used to look forward to visiting with Jack
when he'd drive in with his old truck. Sometimes it was because he'd had some sort of
starting problem, but mostly it was just to talk. The subjects were varied from politics
to farming to family.

It was a pleasure knowing him and he will be missed from our lives.

Sincerely,

Marty Brown
423-8500
5385 Palma Avenue
Atascadero, Ca. 93422

Michael Emrich

June 17, 2012

Very sorry to read about Jacks passing. He was a very nice man. I always enjoyed meeting him down town or where ever. He was so friendly and supportive. I will always be greatful for his and your early support of my solar business. He will be missed. Michael J Emrich, Solarponics.

Sue Fong

June 15, 2012

All of the docents, past and present, at the Morro Bay Museum of Natural History send our condolences to Mary and the kids. With his twinkling blue eyes and ready wit, Jack was a fixture at the Front Desk of the Museum for many years, most recently on Sunday afternoons. Mary, too, contributed over many many years to the school programs at the Museum, notably taking reservations and wheedling docents into working. We know what a strong team they have been over so many years.

Jean (Betty) Huot

June 14, 2012

My condolence to Mary and family. We at Casa de Flores miss Jack. He was an admirable person and a friend to all.

susan & scott sommers

June 14, 2012

On Sundays when we drive to the coast for fish and chips we always say"wonder what happened to Mr Whelen?" We were sad to hear of his passing, what a dear man. He bought hay from us and brought apples. Our prayers for your loss

June 14, 2012

My heart & prayers go out to Mary & family during this most difficult time.
I help at the Museum of Natural History in Morro Bay and have heard many wonderful stories about Jack and his contributions there.
I knew Mary when we both drove school buses for SLO Coastal School District.
The students loved her!
Most Sincerely,
Trudy from Morro Bay

June 14, 2012

My name is Mel Sutton. I met Jack thru first meeting his wife Mary. Mary & I went thru school bus driver's training in the late 70s. After Prop 13 passed, I lost my drivers job and Mary suggested I talk to Jack about working at the apple farm. I worked for Jack thru the whole summer. I can't remember ever sweating so much. Jack & I became friends and I will always remember him. We used to talk about everything & I respected his wisdom. Rest in Peace Jack. My condolences to you Mary.

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