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Sue Patchen Obituary

Susan Patchen, 76 was born in Twin Falls Idaho. She passed away December 5, 2019 surrounded by her family in her home in Morro Bay. She will be remembered for her tireless energy and generous spirit. Her "no job is too big" mentality guided her through several careers. Sue spent her childhood as a self described "Army brat" accompanying her parents Major & Mrs. Jack (Alta) Silbaugh along with her sister Kay Ash through 48 states and foreign travel. Sue settled in Morro Bay in 1962 where she became a cosmetologist. In 1972 she purchased the Spanish Dolphin restaurant in Cayucos and later opened the Freight Office restaurant just down the street. In the 1980's she became a Real Estate Broker, before she decided then to channel her natural eye for design with her love of antiques. Never one to slow down for the last 20 years she owned Antiques on Main in Cambria with her daughter, Debborah. Sue was active in several volunteer projects and was always willing to give her time in support of a cause. Sue is survived by her husband, Jerry Patchen, her three daughters, Debborah Patchen, Wendy Hill and Robin Brindley. Her sons in law, Michael Hill and Larry Brindley. Sue loved celebrating family milestones with everyone. She came to be known as Grammy to her beloved grandchildren Jordan Henslin, Dallas Hill, Cody Brindley, Wesley Henslin, Rachel Brindley and great grandson Hayden. A celebration of life will be held on for February 1 , 2020 at 3 PM at The Eagles Lodge, 2988 Main St. Morro Bay, CA.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune from Jan. 7 to Feb. 3, 2020.

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Monica Roberts

February 8, 2020

SUE PATCHEN

Please come flying o'er the diamond washed sea
In a dress made of clouds and a crown of stars
Ride o'er the Morros by the wide shifting sands
Where seagulls find shelter on the windless lee

Please come dancing through the storms and rain
To the music of thunder and wild lashing waves
When the moons but a cradle urging babies to sleep
Bless the deep of night till the sun shines again

Please come running where the rushing creeks flow
Where dogs race the tides with untamed hearts
And messages are written by sticks dipped in glitter
Encircled by stones and shells that glow

Please come singing when the summer nights lift
Turning time into light linked by fog and dew
Beckoning folk to rise in the rosy-damp dawn
Till the songs you are singing send prayers adrift

Please come winging o'er this land we all love
Waving and clapping, and shouting and greeting
Till the trees are all bursting and the wildflowers thrive
So well know were all safe because youre above!

Joie macadam

January 9, 2020

I knew Sue from her time in Cambria at the Antique store she and Debborah managed. A really nice lady, always willing to help with props for the Pewter Plough Playhouse. Her smiling face will be missed.

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