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Margret Rickie Crane
June 25, 2024
On June 22nd, 2024 the Clay Butler Memorial Garden was dedicated at Alimur Mobile Home Park in Soquel, Ca. Clay was instrumental in our being able to buy the park from the owner. He dedicated many years and was tireless in his determination to accomplish this goal. in 2015 we succeeded; thanks to Clay and others. He was an amazing man and I can't describe how much I admired and respected him. He will not be forgotten. Gone entirely too soon.
Kimmy Tenkate
October 13, 2023
I am so sad to learn of Clays passing. I looked forward to his wonderful photography on facebook. I haven´t heard about his journey in a while and did a search and found he passed. My condolences to his wife and child and family. He will be remebered always by his beautiful photography. RIP sweet man!
Erin Paster
September 17, 2023
Sending all the love to Rosalee and Jennifer. May Clay's memory be a blessing. He touched so many lives and added so much love to this world.
Amanda James
September 11, 2023
Thank you Clay for sharing your experience. Sadly I discovered your YouTube following my recent enucleation due to ocular melanoma. We both had same diagnosis, the same reason to ditch radiation therapy, and go straight for removal.
Mine was right eye & I'm only just starting my journey with scans to check for metastasis, and your videos allowed me to understand what I have been experiencing since my op and for once not feel alone.
You covered everything that I am relating to.
I was hoping to comment on your videos to say how much your wisdom and insight meant to me.
I'm heartbroken. I never met you, engaged with you, didn't even know you existed until 2 days ago, yet I felt a connection as though you were an old friend.
God bless you,, God bless your family.
Gone far too soon. I will continue to share your videos and hope that they will help others with ocular melanoma diagnosis.
A true warrior.
Lopi LaRoe
August 11, 2023
Clay was a friend of mine and I can't believe he's gone. I was just going through some old videos of the performance space I ran back in the 90's in Santa Cruz and found some video of him which was quite funny. I did a web search with his name to connect with him and I found his obituary. This is truly shocking and I'm super sad to hear he left the planet. Please reach out to me Rosalee so I can send you video if you're interested.
Athena and Jackie mcgeough
July 31, 2023
Iwas diagnosed with om clay gave me advice was abeautiful person a ring he help my daughter to understand about this illness god bless him. Fly high clay I'm sure your making waves where you are condolences to his family
Loretta Tillman
July 10, 2023
I did not know him personally but I felt I did through his writing. I love his art and beautiful photographs. He chronicled his cancer journey on Facebook with such a positive mentoring and I´m sure his words have helped many. He was such an inspiration to me and so many others. What an amazing gentleman he was. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends. RIP Dear Clay. You were loved by so many .
Kenneth
July 5, 2023
Rest in peace Clay, my fellow OM traveler. You have arrived in the Realm of Light of the Holy One. Your positive Spirit will be missed here.
Chris Clemmer Lines - Oregon
July 5, 2023
I was diagnosed with OM in Nov 2021 and had my surgery in Jan 2022 while I believe Clay was diagnosed in Jan 2022. Clay was already an active and valued member when I joined our Tues Zoom group. He had such a positive attitude and reached out to everyone. He was like a warm ray of sunshine mixed with a rainbow spreading hope and lifting spirits and he was so funny and open. It was a bit of a gut punch when he passed so suddenly. But I am so glad I got to meet him even if it was just on Zoom and FaceBook . He has left a lasting impression and left the world a brighter place, even as we are sadden by his departure. Even though Clay is gone, I'm sure there are some of us who will lean on his memory to help us face what lies ahead.
Beverley Allen
July 5, 2023
I´m so sorry to hear the passing of Clay. I did not know him, but I communicated with him via Facebook on the OM page. He was such a positive, open person who I will truly miss reading about his journeys .. god bless him
Courtney
July 4, 2023
My mom also shares the same diagnosis of Ocular Melanoma. Clay was always a helpful, and uplifting light in the OM community. While I never met him, he will always be remembered.
Kathleen Black
July 4, 2023
I knew Clay from a Facebook group. He was inspiring to me. One week after having his eye removed there was a picture of him holding his board ready for the waves at daybreak. I found it so amazing that he was back at normal life 1 week after enucleation. I think all of us in the group looked forward to his posts. Truly a life well lived.
Steve
July 4, 2023
My heart felt condolences, I surfed pleasure point, the hook dawn patrol a lot and Clay was always so stocked and energetic the line up was always a better vibe when he was surfing. He will be missed and I will never forget Clay.i would love to attend the paddle out if it has not already happened
Troy Potter Charleston, SC
July 4, 2023
While I never had the honor of meeting Clay personally, we share the same wretched disease, and met through a FB OM page. I enjoyed following his journey because he held nothing back, and gave hope to those of us who find ourselves in a similar situation. Through our interactions I know he loved photography and surfing, and was always willing to off sage advice about the treatments he was going through. To his family and friends, I'm truly sorry for your loss, I imagine he was quite a character! Please make it a mission to have a yearly, dilated eye exam, in his honor. I think that would be a great way to honor him. Rest peacefully, Brother. You put up one hell of a fight
Tina Zweygardt "OM Homie"
July 3, 2023
I never had the privilege of knowing Clay personally, I met him on the OM website. When I got diagnosed with OM I was so scared, I went online to learn about this nasty cancer and found the OM community. He helped me more than he ever knew, I refer to him as the "warrior" of our group. I ask myself everyday who's gona answer my questions now??? Gone way too soon. Fly easy my friend .
Peggy McPherrin
July 3, 2023
Clay and I met on social media due to our unfortunate diagnoses of OM. He was a force to be reckoned with, so full of positivity, knowledge and humor. He is missed, deeply.
Nancy Marie Brewer, OM Face Book Group
July 3, 2023
A true life force, helping others along the life journey with eye cancer, thanks to his sharing, he lighten the load of others with eye cancer, true gentleman, with integrity!
Fellow Omie, ShoeZilla
July 3, 2023
Thank you for your support and inspiring posts for your fellow Omie´s. We miss you already, but know you are surfing the great skies now. Rest well Clay; we´ll continue the cancer fight.
Peggy McPherrin
July 3, 2023
I met Clay by having the same diagnosis thru social media. He was an educator, philosopher and a humanist. We had our surgeries the same day, 2/22/2022. Unfortunately he left us way too soon. Every time I see something on our OM groups, I think, what would Clay say? Condolences to his family, he really made an impact in our short friendship. Peace be with him .
Vickie V
July 3, 2023
Clay is sorely missed in the OM community. I will always remember his wit and caring force. Rest easy.
Tamara Deer
July 1, 2023
Clay was a bright light who led the way in greatness. He loved what he did and did everything well. He was so creative, talented, intelligent , kind and always added humor to the mix. I´m so grateful to have been friends with Clay . Anyone that knew Clay would wind up being his friend. He exuded his passion for life. I miss Clay so much...Your spirit will always live on. Gone from this planet way to soon.. Sending love to all Clays family and friends.. Rest peacefully my friend
Chris Schelstraete
July 1, 2023
What can I say about Clay. He was the most free willed person I've ever knew. Nothing would stop him from being himself. More people only wish to be as free as he was. Clay will be in my memory for the rest of my life. To Clay the only human to never hid for anyone
Jan
July 1, 2023
Rest in Peace, Clay. Such a dynamic, community-spirited and artistic man is a rarity. You made friends everywhere. The lighthouse and Milky Way will always remind us of you. Condolences to your family and multitude of friends.
Pam
July 1, 2023
Still in shock how quickly cancer took Clay. His fight was so inspiring and I will always be grateful he shared his battle with our community. An extraordinary human who will be greatly missed.
Ami
July 1, 2023
Thank you for all of your wonderful coastal photography over the years on Facebook! Blessings to your family. Fair sailing Clay
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