David Searls True died of cancer on June 16, 2010 after several months in Hospice care.
Born in Dorset, Vermont on May 19, 1945, to Phoebe and John True, David was the second of their five children. He was raised in Rye, NY. In 1963 at the age of 18, he came to San Francisco and found a new world in the Haight Ashbury. There he developed a life-long love of the Grateful Dead, anti war politics and otherwise challenging the status quo. Although he traveled back across the country several times, he always found his way back to California.
His personal history of addiction led to many difficulties, both for him and for those who loved him. Through efforts at recovery, however, David found his way to the pursuit of justice for people living on society's margins. He moved to Santa Cruz in 1988 and began volunteering at and eventually leading numerous programs to facilitate social change. David founded several Central Coast and Bay Area needle exchange programs to fight AIDS. He organized, with great joy, annual Christmas toy drives for children in the Salinas Valley. For the last ten years, he worked in Santa Cruz County to find alternatives to incarceration for youth in the juvenile justice system and to welcome parolees back to the community.
Youth sports fans from across the county will remember David's raucous cheers for his son, Nicky, and Nicky's many soccer, baseball and lacrosse teammates. His booming voice rattled the walls at Soquel High basketball games as he sang along with the school band and echoed across the fields during Live Oak Little League games. "That's a STRIKE right there, ump!" He is loved by many young men and women, and his smile and interest was genuine for each and every one. Game nights made his world bright.
He benefitted from the friendship of close friends who played the dozens with him, talked sports, shared crime novels, told stories, created family gatherings, drank coffee and pursued an honest life in recovery.
David's great joy was family. The birth of his son, Nicky in 1990, marked a new life for David. Years passed reading stories, playing catch, tidepooling, listening to music, bodysurfing, going to Giants games, traveling the minor league baseball circuit, making biscuits, and simply delighting in Nicky. He often said, "Oh, this is my favorite stage of Nicky's life." Indeed, every stage was David's favorite. His reunion with his son Chris, over 12 years ago proved to be a powerful source of love. He celebrated Chris' marriage to Kristie and the birth and toddlerhood of their son Chase with tremendous joy. David also recently reunited with daughter Jessica and her family and took to his role of grandfather happily. David and Susan were together for 17 years and created a home and community for Nicky and many friends. Nicky, Chris, Susan and several very close friends were with David in his final hours.
In addition to Nicky, Chris, Kristie, Chase, Jessica and Susan, David leaves his four siblings John, Trip, Mary and Laurie and their partners and children. He loved his nieces and nephews and their children and celebrated their many accomplishments. Through the many twists and turns in David's life, his siblings offered forgiveness, welcome and love. He also leaves many people in the community whom he hopes will use his death as inspiration to treat children and youth well and advocate for justice. David asked that any contributions be made to the Youth Resource Bank PO Box 1844, Capitola CA 95010 to support Christmas presents and needed items for youth participants of the Community Restoration Project.
A memorial service will be held this Friday, June 18th at 10:30 AM at Sesnon House on the Cabrillo College campus 6500 Soquel Drive, Aptos, California.
In David's own recent words, "I have deeply loved and I have been deeply loved. Thank you."
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James E. McCullough
August 31, 2024
From an old friend from Rye, New York. Bless you David.
Jim McCullough
Adrian Veliz
July 13, 2010
Always amazed who Creator decides to take. David taught me so many things. I have received numerous certificates but his tie dyed certificate for Harm Reduction is still my personal favorite.
You will be missed my friend, until we meet again.
Adrian Veliz
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nancy chism
June 28, 2010
I will miss David.
Jen Shockey
June 18, 2010
A true activist and mentor at heart, David taught me all that I know now from my working with him in the 90's at MCAP! I am so sad that we had not crossed paths again! I'll always remember his big smile and heart! My heart is heavy but I know he is still doing what he does where ever he is!
June 17, 2010
MAY THE LOVE YOUR LOVED ONE GAVE SO FREELY CONTINUE TO MULTIPLY WITHIN THE WORLD ........
Robin Roberts
June 17, 2010
Wow, the fabric of life sure just changed for a lot of people. I worked with David some years back when we were both affiliated with SCAP. He always said exactly what he thought, and I admired him for that. His humor, his love for his son and family, his dedication; all purely and truly David. I will miss him.
Woody Bell
June 17, 2010
David's work with others was selfless.
David took the high road in this life coming from a place of love and inspired many. Happy Trails David!
Kirsten Matsumoto
June 17, 2010
My heart is breaking. I worked with David in the 90's at MCAP. Believe me, he taught this Piedmont girl a lot as we pounded the pavement in East Salinas with every risk reduction trick he had in his bag. At one point, I even had the opportunity to be David's "supervisor." With a twinkle in his eye, he would nod "yes" and then do whatever he wanted anyway. Classic David True. I learned so much from this giant of a man. He changed my life. I know I should be grateful for the life he lived, but it is a sad, sad day for me, so I think I'll cry a little more. Good-bye for now, my friend. We will meet again.
Al Richard
June 17, 2010
A true friend and mentor for many of our at-risk youth, the void created by David's leaving will be felt by many. He will be missed by all who knew him.
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