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Carol F. Berman
August 30, 2023
Dear Jim, Paul and I were so saddened to learn of the incredibly untimely death of Kim. We have such fond memories of her, seemingly always being gracious, personable, kind and generous in spirit. It only makes us realize that we have missed out by not knowing her better and seeing her more often.
Our son Zachary remembers Brad and Tanner and our daughter Jen may have crossed paths with your kids.
We wish you as well as possible during this time of grief when feelings and emotions are heightened;
this time actually allows you to hold her more closely and savor the feelings and memories, so don't rush through them (I'm obviously wearing my therapist hat).
We would hope to connect with you when the time is right. Seeing Kim's photo makes me remember how very elegant and beautiful she is in my memory.
Sincerely, Carol Berman
Greg and Micki Joseph
August 10, 2023
Jim and Family... we are so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, Greg and Micki Joseph
Paul Berman
August 1, 2023
Dear Becket family! We wish to express our profound sadness and shock at the loss of your beautiful and loving and special person in Kim. She was a special lady and a significant member of the Santa Cruz community. Our hearts go out to you all and especially to Jim in this trying unexpected tradgedy to your family. With love and respect Paul and Carol BERMAN
Christine Soto Hantgin
August 1, 2023
Kim and I were friends for 60 years. Every time we met it was like the years just melted away. She loved Jim and the life they built together so very much!The children were her pride and joy! To say she was a loving wife, mother and sister ( Steve) is not enough to describe her. Pass all she taught on to her beautiful grandkids! Condolences, Christine Hantgin
Emily Buchbinder
July 31, 2023
Jim and family,
I am so very sorry for this sudden and tragic loss. My thoughts are with you as you move through this enormous and difficult transition.
Warmest regards,
Emily Buchbinder
Patty and Fred OHara
July 30, 2023
Our sincere condolences to the Becket family at this time of great sorrow.
Kim was a beautiful and caring person and we know she was so loving and
so loved. She will be missed.
Kate Kropf
July 30, 2023
Elegance, grace, beauty, and love. Our Godmother and best friend. We will all miss our Kimberlin so very much.
The Kropf Family
Gary & Frank
July 29, 2023
Dear Jim, Brad, Tanner and Carolyn, As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Jeannette mcneil
July 29, 2023
A wonderful friend for over 48 years
Jeannette McNeil
Virginia Yant
July 29, 2023
I will be planting a tree for Viola´s dear and wonderfully supportive friend very soon at the 5V in Santa Margarita where I live. I´m sure it will thrive in her honor. What a loss to her family. I send my condolences. Another UCSB graduate, Virginia Yant.
Barbara & John Hill
July 29, 2023
We are devastated for Jim, Brad, Tanner and Carolyn and send our love, deepest prayers and sympathy to them and their families. We know that Kim enriched and brightened their lives daily as she did ours on every encounter over the past 40 years! Rest in peace, dear lady.
Barbara & John Hill
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