Thaddeus "Ted" Szychowski passed away unexpectedly, on Saturday, October 9th, following a short illness. Ted was born April 16th, 1930, in Wilkes Barre, PA, to Anthony & Julia Szychowski. His lifelong love of aircraft led him to enlist in the U.S. Air Force at age 18. After basic training, Ted attended the prestigous Defense Language Institute Foreign Language Center in Monterey, CA., earning diplomas in Polish and Russian.
While studying in Monterey, Ted fell in love with California and a beautiful Italian girl named Loretta Casalegno. Together they traveled the world with their four children.
While fluent in other languages, his military intelligence duties centered around Polish and Russian. Ted's 20 yrs. in USAF Intelligence spanned 3 wars. His top secret duties allowed Ted and his teammates a ringside seat to history. Career highlights included a tour of duty in Turkey monitoring Russian space and missile operations in the early 1960's, gathering and monitoring Russian intelligence during the Cuban Missile Crisis. For this work, he was awarded the Air Force Commendation Medal. Tours of duty included England, Turkey, Germany, and the National Security Agency in Ft. Meade, MD. Ted summed up his military career in these words: "Although I did not carry any weapons, I'm proud of my contribution to a peaceful solution to the Cold War."
Following retirement in 1969, Ted & family settled on the Casalegno Family property at the corner of Old San Jose & Laurel Glen Rds., where he became the "self-appointed information officer" of all that was going on in the Soquel Valley.
He went on to run the family business at Casalegno's Store from 1986-1994 where he was as quick to dispense unsolicited advice as he was a joke, all while giving change for your purchase. Ted remained a fixture at the business up till the time of his death; working, having daily coffee, or a beverage on the infamous "green bench."
He thrived around people, especially family, including many "adopted stepsons & daughters". Ted's greatest joy was a table filled with family and good food. He made friends the world over with his sense of humor and optimism. He was a man who could "walk with kings and yet not lose the common touch." Ted also loved and took much pride in his grandchildren and their accomplishments. He was one of a kind who made a lasting impact on his community.
Ted is survived by his wife of 59 years, Loretta Casalegno Szychowski, for which he presented her a "medal of achievement" at their 50th Anniversary. Children include daughters Ries and Eileen Szychowski, sons Steven wife Beth, and Mark wife Esther Szychowski, and five loving grandchildren: Zach, Angelo, Jessica, Nick and Gina Szychowski. Also surviving: sisters Helen Szychowski, Genevieve Rooney, and Irene Zielinski.
Per Ted's wishes there will be a small private ceremony, followed by a Celebration of Life to be announced at a later date, where friends and family can enjoy good food, and fun memories of Ted.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions to Ted's favorite charity: Camelot Therapeutic Horsemanship, 23623 North Scottsdale Road, D-3259, Scottsdale, AZ. 85255.
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Kim
October 23, 2010
I will miss that great smile and the warm and respectful way you treated everyone in the office when you came in....RIP Thaddeus Szychowski ~ I will miss you my friend
October 20, 2010
I knew Ted Szychowski through his daughter Eileen and am grateful for having experience his unique sense of humor as well as I got to hear a few of his jokes! My thoughts and prayers are with Ted and his family.
Kathlyn Curnow
Palm Desert, CA
Margaret Theisen
October 18, 2010
Dear Uncle Ted,
Just about 9 years ago at your 50th wedding anniversary I had the good fortune to meet your family in what I later discovered was a typical boisterous family celebration! This was the perfect introduction to the expansion of my family as I was welcomed whole heartedly and genuinely. To be with more than 100 people who could speak the truth of your incredible journey and acknowledge you and your beautiful bride Loretta was a powerful witness to who you have been for your families, friends, communties and Country. You blessed us in your struggles and successes, your perseverance and charm. You leave a hole in our hearts and tears in our eyes...and the truth that it is better to love and let go than to never have loved. Thank you for loving me, thank you for letting me love you, and I bless you on your journey to our Loving Creator. Margaret
October 17, 2010
Ted will always be in our hearts. We were so blessed to have had him for our brother. We loved him dearly.
Sisters Helen, Gene and Irene
ROCHELLE STURTEVANT
October 17, 2010
The Sturtevant family will miss seeing Ted at Casalegno's !!! we will always remember his smile beautiful blue eye's and the many years of holiday decorations posted at his fence.Even our granddaughter was delighted to always see the christmas lights.Ted was a true joy to know.God bless Loretta and his children and grandchilden and all those who loved him.sincerely Rochelle&Dean Sturtevant
October 16, 2010
.....Ted, we will miss you....and those cigarette breaks and the bullsessions we had at Monterey,...I thank you once more for the glass of wine you bought me at our reunion at Monterey in 2003,...you are so hard to forget,...and so easy to remember,...go with peace,.. Bob Stonham....
October 16, 2010
Thank you, Ted. For all you did for your country, your family, your neighbors & community. You will be missed. I am grateful for having met you. (Angela Amitrano, Phoenix, AZ)
Mary Westheimer
October 15, 2010
His big heart and great spirit will live on forever.
October 14, 2010
Soquel just lost one its best. RIP Ted.
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