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Emile John Buteau
November 25, 2024
Don and I were both in our 30s when we first met in 1976 in the Walnut room of that hotel over near the County Building. Our host was Bernie Harris, and Bernie had us meet to get Don's feelings on our future together in the freight business. I had already met Don's father, Leo, a few days before and I recognized him when he walked in. His coiffure was magnificent as it spread out and actually bounced as he walked. What a guy, who said to everyone watching, "I know who I am, and I like it."
We have lunch, and he turns to Bernie, and says, "Why not?" A couple of years later I incorporate, and ask Bernie to buy stock, and he says to me, not unless Don Barliant is one of your directors.
Good counsel and friendship followed over the years. He kept peace between Bernie and I, and taught me a few words of Yiddish I didn't already know. He was good enough after Bernie Harris had passed to allow us to have the corporate annual meeting at the house in Santa Fe.
He once told me about where his grandfather found the name Barliant. It was in a Moscow train station where he was hiding among the cargo to hop a train to Germany. It was on a shipping crate. His grandfather told him his original surname, which Don told me, and, as getting old, I can't recall. Oh, and right after he told me about that legendary case he won, I get a call, and he's asking me, "If you're at the plate at Comiskey Park what direction are you facing?" And, I told him North-East, if it's the old park. I have no idea where that was leading.
He was a good lawyer, a better friend, and one heck of a consigliere. Thanks, Don, for being there. Your life meant a lot to a lot of people.
Mark Plotnick
November 1, 2024
I just learned of Don's death from a longtime employee at Barbara's Bookstore. I first met Don in 2019 at the Vernon Hills, IL store when I was pitching an author event to the store manager. I lived in Vernon Hills and this was my first rock music book following retirement from a corporate career. This interesting looking man was hanging around as I was pitching the book and he asked, "Who are you?" I told him and then I asked "Who are you?" He said, "I am co-owner of this chain." What a shocker. Then I learned all about his life. What an amazing person. Being Jewish - and Don knowing about rock music - there was this underlying kinship. He told the store manager at that time "support this guy." With his support, my author relationship with Barbara's was so rewarding and continues today with my new book. I am so saddened to hear about Don's passing. He was so unique, so unusual, so talented. And at least to me, so kind. To Janet - may his memory be for a blessing.
Sharon Preiss
January 3, 2024
I´m so sad to hear of Don´s death. I worked for him at the Barbara´s in LaGuardia Airport for six years. He was a real mentor and generously gave of his time and wisdom when I spun off to open my own book selling service. My condolences especially to Jan, who was also so kind and generous. We´ve lost a real stand-up guy. He´ll be missed. xoxo
Marcy and Bill Litzenberg
December 24, 2023
This is sad news for me and my husband, Bill. We can't imagine a Santa Fe without "Don and Janet" in it. We will miss him, but never forget him. Love to you, Janet, and all the kids and grandkids, especially Rebecca.
Sandy Gelber
December 24, 2023
As his younger cousin, I always looked up to Don (literally and with respect). A giant boy turned man he was the elder cousin who set the example of scholarship, heart and adventure for the rest of us. Don leaves behind happy memories and a wonderful family to carry his legacy.
Sandra Schiller Gelber
Jeri Skrondahl
December 23, 2023
Donald was a kind and generous man, with a wonderful sense of humor. When he spoke about Janet he lit up. I was lucky to have known him.
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