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DONALD BARLIANT
Donald Barliant, attorney, independent book seller, astute political observer, and storyteller whose childhood in the Jane Addams Hull House in Chicago helped shape his worldview, died on Saturday December 9, at his home in Santa Fe. He was 86.
His wife, Janet Bailey, said the cause was heart failure.
Don grew up in the projects near Chicago's Little Italy where his father Leo worked for the Santa Fe Railroad shifting cars and commodities and his mother, Helen, was a housewife who did occasional stints as a stenographer and sales clerk. Early on, he mastered the violin, performing on stage with local orchestras. After taking a beating from a local gang at age ten, his parents sent him to a rabbinical school where he became, in his words, a "godless gadfly." While his grandparents were Orthodox, Don was deeply connected to Judaism without believing in God. The Israeli Palestinian war caused him great distress in his final days.
After graduating from the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign with a major in political science, he earned a law degree from DePaul. A memorable accomplishment from his time practicing law was a personal injury case that made law in Illinois. His client was a spectator at a golf tournament, eating a hot dog, when an errant tee shot sent a golf ball straight into her face. She lost an eye. At the time of the incident, the law asserted that a sports spectator assumed all liability for death or injury at an event. Don argued that the event coordinator also had responsibility for exercising reasonable care for the spectator's safety. A jury agreed and awarded his client one of the largest verdicts for such an injury. An Illinois appellate court affirmed, thereby changing Illinois law.
In 1967 Don bought a lefty, gonzo-hippy, but literary bookstore as a hobby. In those days, when publishers sent authors on the road, Barbara's Books hosted a galaxy of great writers: Isaac Bashevis Singer, Joseph Heller, David Sedaris, Joan Didion and scores more. Currently, the chain has eleven stores in the Chicago area, including at O'Hare airport. Don operated the stores with his wife of 47 years, Janet Bailey, right up to the end. He had no intention of retiring.
Don was a quiet force in the book business. He took on Amazon when he convinced many of the largest publishers to use Barbara's Books as a supplier to conventions and other meetings where books would be available for purchase. His credibility with publishers led developers of upscale malls in the Chicago suburbs to seek Barbara's Books as anchor tenants.
Known for his curly crown of white hair and insatiable curiosity, Don delighted in meeting people so he could learn new things. He was assisted by an ever present sidekick – his iPad. He collected first edition books, chocolate, and was a total news junkie from Adlai Stevenson to Joe Biden.
Ernest Donald Barliant was born on Jan 25, 1937, in Chicago. His first marriage to Esther Scholar ended in divorce. He is survived by sons Scott Barliant and his wife Jennifer of Park Ridge, Ill., and Jared Barliant and his wife Michelle of Santa Fe, and grandchildren Jackson, Grace, Henry, Isaak and Arran. He and Janet Bailey, the love of his life (he bought her gifts on his birthday), eloped in 1976. Their daughter, Rebecca Schwartz, lives with her husband, David, in Des Plaines, Ill., with sons Lucas and Eli. He is also survived by step daughter Kari Hubbard and her husband Bruce of Colville, Washington, grandchildren Matthew and Haley, and sister Marlene Frank and husband Eugene of Santa Fe.
Don was a trusted advisor, confidant, and source of wisdom on all topics for countless family members and friends from all walks of life who constantly sought his counsel. He was both brilliant and a true mensch, large in stature and presence, and will be deeply missed by those who had the great fortune to know and love him.
A private memorial is planned for the end of January.

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Dec. 23 to Dec. 24, 2023.

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Emile John Buteau

November 25, 2024

Don and I were both in our 30s when we first met in 1976 in the Walnut room of that hotel over near the County Building. Our host was Bernie Harris, and Bernie had us meet to get Don's feelings on our future together in the freight business. I had already met Don's father, Leo, a few days before and I recognized him when he walked in. His coiffure was magnificent as it spread out and actually bounced as he walked. What a guy, who said to everyone watching, "I know who I am, and I like it."
We have lunch, and he turns to Bernie, and says, "Why not?" A couple of years later I incorporate, and ask Bernie to buy stock, and he says to me, not unless Don Barliant is one of your directors.
Good counsel and friendship followed over the years. He kept peace between Bernie and I, and taught me a few words of Yiddish I didn't already know. He was good enough after Bernie Harris had passed to allow us to have the corporate annual meeting at the house in Santa Fe.
He once told me about where his grandfather found the name Barliant. It was in a Moscow train station where he was hiding among the cargo to hop a train to Germany. It was on a shipping crate. His grandfather told him his original surname, which Don told me, and, as getting old, I can't recall. Oh, and right after he told me about that legendary case he won, I get a call, and he's asking me, "If you're at the plate at Comiskey Park what direction are you facing?" And, I told him North-East, if it's the old park. I have no idea where that was leading.
He was a good lawyer, a better friend, and one heck of a consigliere. Thanks, Don, for being there. Your life meant a lot to a lot of people.

Mark Plotnick

November 1, 2024

I just learned of Don's death from a longtime employee at Barbara's Bookstore. I first met Don in 2019 at the Vernon Hills, IL store when I was pitching an author event to the store manager. I lived in Vernon Hills and this was my first rock music book following retirement from a corporate career. This interesting looking man was hanging around as I was pitching the book and he asked, "Who are you?" I told him and then I asked "Who are you?" He said, "I am co-owner of this chain." What a shocker. Then I learned all about his life. What an amazing person. Being Jewish - and Don knowing about rock music - there was this underlying kinship. He told the store manager at that time "support this guy." With his support, my author relationship with Barbara's was so rewarding and continues today with my new book. I am so saddened to hear about Don's passing. He was so unique, so unusual, so talented. And at least to me, so kind. To Janet - may his memory be for a blessing.

Sharon Preiss

January 3, 2024

I´m so sad to hear of Don´s death. I worked for him at the Barbara´s in LaGuardia Airport for six years. He was a real mentor and generously gave of his time and wisdom when I spun off to open my own book selling service. My condolences especially to Jan, who was also so kind and generous. We´ve lost a real stand-up guy. He´ll be missed. xoxo

Marcy and Bill Litzenberg

December 24, 2023

This is sad news for me and my husband, Bill. We can't imagine a Santa Fe without "Don and Janet" in it. We will miss him, but never forget him. Love to you, Janet, and all the kids and grandkids, especially Rebecca.

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Sandy Gelber

December 24, 2023

As his younger cousin, I always looked up to Don (literally and with respect). A giant boy turned man he was the elder cousin who set the example of scholarship, heart and adventure for the rest of us. Don leaves behind happy memories and a wonderful family to carry his legacy.
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Jeri Skrondahl

December 23, 2023

Donald was a kind and generous man, with a wonderful sense of humor. When he spoke about Janet he lit up. I was lucky to have known him.

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