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MARY KUHNS
August 15, 1945 - November 24, 2024
Mary was born in Pontiac, Michigan, in 1945 to Audrey and Dick Kuhns. She grew up in Dearborn, MI along with older brothers Tom and Rick then went to Muskingum College in Ohio.
After graduation she spent 3 years teaching, counseling in a youth center and serving as a chaplin on Mindanao island in the Philippines as a Frontier Intern with the United Presbyterian Church. Mary had always wanted to be a minister, so she enrolled in seminary upon her return to the States and was ordained in 1975. Although she said she would never be in parish ministry, she became associate pastor of the Church of St. Andrew in Atlanta, Georgia, and served there for 14 years, discovering that she loved parish ministry, especially youth ministry. She earned a Doctorate in Ministry at Columbia Theological Seminary. From there, she moved to Louisville, Kentucky, and became Associate for Justice for Women at the Presbyterian Center.
Both in Atlanta and in Louisville, she became trained as a therapist, becoming licensed in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and after 6 years at the Center, she went into full time counseling. She also had her credentials as a Fellow in the American Association for Pastoral Counselors. She lived 20 years in Louisville, counseling, teaching at Louisville Presbyterian Seminary, supervising therapy students, being Stated Supply at Patteson Memorial Presbyterian Church and parish associate at Central Presbyterian Church, working with women and addiction.
Mary retired in 2008 to live in her RV. She traveled to Santa Fe, New Mexico to be close to friends and to work at the KOA. After a stay in Tucson, she returned to Santa Fe and discovered she was more of a homebody than she thought. She got a job at Trailer Ranch RV park and lived and worked there for the next 4 years, finally moving out of her RV into a casita with her 2 dogs. In 2013, Mary moved to Pilgrim Place, in Claremont, CA. which is a continuing care community and while there, she became the Director of the Pastoral Counseling Institute, taught at the Claremont School of Theology, was parish associate at the Claremont Presbyterian Church and had a small counseling practice. Deciding she wasn't a "California girl", Mary moved back to Santa Fe in 2017, back to Trailer Ranch and into the same casita, again with 2 dogs. In 2019, after a major surgery, Mary moved into a mobile home in Trailer Ranch where she has lived out her life.
Along with her ministry and counseling commitments, Mary also knew how to have fun! Anything outdoors with her kayak, motorcycle, snowshoes, bike or RV brought out the twinkle in her eyes! And her absolute favorite was walking her dogs on any beach.
Along with her deep commitment to improving the lives of people, animals have been an integral part of her life that she shared with dogs Wags, Katy, Kody, Carly, Boots and the infamous Augie. They have each given so much to Mary's joy of life!
For those who loved her, our Thanksgiving will be an appreciation for and celebration of Mary. For her intelligence, caring and great sense of humor. For her wonderful alto singing and ukulele playing at care homes, Tunesday and Hazel's group. For her whimsical watercolor paintings. For living a life devoted to God but who never preached at people. And for all the members of First Presbyterian church where she shared her experience, pastoral care and love.
Mary peacefully passed away after a brief illness. We want to thank the Christus Hospital professionals for their excellent care and dedication to making Mary comfortable.
In lieu of flowers, Mary requested that donations be made to Faith Roots Reproductive Action, Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains, the Food Depot, Santa Fe Animal Shelter &/or the Interfaith Community Shelter.
A memorial service will be held at First Presbyterian Church on Friday, December 6 at 11:00.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Dec. 3 to Dec. 6, 2024.

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Mary Huber Graham

July 28, 2025

My mother Jane Parker Huber loved Mary who she came to know when they were both working at the Presbyterian Center Headquarters in Louisville. They shared a passion for advocating for women, for the gifts of all God´s people. When Mom knew she was nearing the end of her own life, she wished Mark Kuhns could officiate her memorial service. To this day, I regret I did not find it possible to make that happen as Mary had recently moved away. I finally spoke with Mary about this a few years ago. She was so unproblematic about my feelings of regret. I was in my way to visit her, but a broken bone interrupted my trip! I´m grateful to read the fond memories here and her amazingly full life of service. Blessings abound!

Jeanne Langelier-Symington

March 10, 2025

Having been part of a group of painters, I was lucky to paint alongside Mary and enjoy her delightful water color sketches and her sweet personality. She will be missed greatly!

Todd Jarman

January 23, 2025

I was Marys health insurance agent for the last 9 years or so. Mary was always so fun to talk to, whether answering questions about her insurance or just shooting the you know what. I always looked forward to our time on the phone. I'm sad that I won't be able to help her anymore and never got to meet her in person. I'm glad she passed peacefully without suffering and will miss her.

Marie T. Cross

December 20, 2024

Mary has been a good friend and colleague for many years. I´m grateful that Steve and I made the trip to Santa Fe this past summer. Our visit with Mary was filled with treasured memories. Blessings of God´s grace and peace.

Marie T. Cross

December 20, 2024

Mary, Mary, a friend for so many years. I´m so thankful that Steve and I made the trip to Santa Fe last summer. That week will remain a treasure in my memory. You have been a model and support for so many women in ministry. I thank God for your life. Peace.

Mary Ann Lundy / Don Wilson

December 3, 2024

Mary Ann Lundy - Mary was competent, sensitive, always aware of others needs. She was constantly learning new insights into the lives of others, especially of older persons. Her sensitivity to others´ needs endeared her to them. As a a therapist, teacher and friend, she helped many through difficult times and periods of their lives.
We are especially grateful to have had her perform our marriage and be a continuing source of counsel and loving friendship.
Mary Ann Lundy and Don Wilson

Scott Kuhns

November 30, 2024

I am Mary's nephew Scott Kuhns. I've known Aunt Mary for over 65 years. She was always an upbeat, fun, and happy person. She was always great with kids and pets. I last saw her when she lived in Claremont. I loved to see her at Christmas time. We will all miss her so much. I'm sure she has a special place in heaven. R.I.P Aunt Mary, you were one of a kind.

Jennifer (Spangler) Miller

November 29, 2024

Mary was not only my youth pastor, but also married my husband and me. She was an incredible and inspirational person in my life

Michael Adee

November 28, 2024

Rev. Mary Kuhns was a wonderful friend and colleague in faith and social justice work. I am grateful that she moved to Santa Fe. I will miss her greatly.

Patty and CR Siel

November 28, 2024

We should all aspire to live a life as rich, fulfilling, and charitable as Mary's life. Mary was an active and graceful instrument of her faith, always answering the call to serve others in need, perhaps even when the need wasn't realized. She was a strong advocate for women's rights and protections, never accepting that enough had been done or that she had done enough. She brightened every room with her charm, humor, intelligence, and stories of her adventurous life. We shared her love of animals, particularly her precious family of dogs, and could talk endlessly about our doggies and the love and entertainment they gifted to us. Mary was a tireless soldier of compassion and truth. She unquestionably made a positive difference in so many lives, and we are extremely grateful for Mary's presence in our world.

Ann Deibert

November 26, 2024

I'm so grateful that Mary served as Parish Associate early on in my ministry at Central Presbyterian Church in Louisville, KY. Mary was a friend, confidante, and mentor to me. She was wise and funny, loved people and animals, and had a great bull**** detector. I give thanks to God for her life and witness.

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