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Nicholas Kapusniak Obituary

Nicholas Ryan Kapusniak Waukesha, WI - Nicholas Ryan Kapusniak “Nick”, 20. We are heartbroken to share the news of the death of our son, Nicholas Kapusniak. Nick was taken tragically from us on March 1, 2014 in St. Louis, MO in an unnecessary and senseless act of gun violence. We are all in shock and still have not come to terms with his passing. Nick was a loving son, grandson, great grandson, brother, nephew, cousin and friend. We will always remember him as a loving, caring and talented individual who always put himself before others. Nick had a gift of connecting with people and making them laugh. He was fun to be around and he found joy in life. Nick earned the friendship and love of everyone he met. He was an avid drummer who loved music, achieved the rank of Eagle Scout with troop 641 Oshkosh, WI, played tennis, and was very active in his church community and fraternity. Nick will be deeply missed by his friends from his years at Holy Trinity in Webster, NY, Catholic Memorial High School in Waukesha, WI, St. Louis College of Pharmacy in St. Louis and others across the country. Nick loved going to pharmacy school- being a pharmacist was his dream. As parents we are so proud of his accomplishments. Although we lost our son, we will always be grateful for the journey he took us on over the last 20 years. He is survived by his parents Rich Kapusniak and Renee Bennett-Kapusniak and sister Amanda Kapusniak of Waukesha, WI, his grandparents Charles and Alberta Bennett, his great grandmother Maryellen Celeste, his aunts and uncles John Kapusniak and Stacey Waterman, Steve Kapusniak and Dr. Julie Dubiel-Kapusniak, Michael and Michele Decker, Kerri Bennett-Bishop and his cousins Mark Kapusniak, Kim Labunski, Dr. Brian Carkner, Justin Carkner, Tristan Bishop, Evan Bishop, Claire Kapusniak. He was predeceased by his grandparents, John and Helen Kapusniak. We would like to thank all those who mourn with us and we encourage everyone to celebrate the life of this amazing young man. Relatives and friends may call from 4pm to 8pm Friday, March 7, 2014 at the William J. Burke & Sons/Bussing & Cunniff Funeral Homes, 628 North Broadway, Saratoga Springs (584-5373). A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9:30am Saturday, March 8, 2014 at the Church of St. Peter, 241 Broadway, by Rev. Dominic. S. Ingemie, pastor. Burial will follow in the family plot at St. Peter’s Cemetery, West Ave., Saratoga Springs. There are other services scheduled as followed: Webster, NY- Holy Trinity Church- details to follow; Pewaukee, WI- St. Anthony on The Lake March 16, 2014 at 4:30pm and St. Louis, MO- St. Louis College of Pharmacy, March 13, 2014 evening candlelight vigil, March 14, 2014 memorial service. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Catholic Memorial Scholarship Fund in memory of Nick Kapusniak – 601 East College Ave. Waukesha WI, 53186. Online remembrances may be made at www.burkefuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Saratogian from Mar. 4 to Mar. 5, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
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S. Mary Louise Degenhart

February 28, 2022

Hold Nick and all of you in thought and prayer.

Ann Wallace

March 1, 2015

The Mass this morning at St. Peter's was a symphony - of beauty, reverence, faith, mourning and peace. My son is 20 this year, and I can't imagine the year you have had. Your dignity this morning was inspirational. And the gift you gave the church - timely and beautiful. Thank you.

Scott O'Dell

August 5, 2014

Rich and Renee, I'm so sorry to hear of your son's passing. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time

Maryellen Abbatiello

June 6, 2014

I am so sorry that senseless violence has taken your beautiful son.
Having two sons myself around the same age, I dont believe there would be any words to help bring comfort. I know you are all loved. Grandma Celeste talks about your family with great love. I am saying prayers for your family, and hope your faith heals your hearts.

Ericca & Mike Caccamise

March 21, 2014

Our oldest daughter, Samantha, was a couple of years behind Nick, and had Renee as a teacher at Holy Trinity. While there are no words to express the overwhelming sadness brought by Nick's tragic and much too early departure, please know that he is remembered fondly and left a positive and lasting impression on the many people he encountered in his life. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Tom and Michelle Oakland

March 18, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of your loss!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!!

March 16, 2014

We were deeply saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your son Nick. Our boys were also at CMH while Nick was there. Many prayers for your family at this time of sorrow.
the Waltz family

Nick & Lisa DeSantis

March 14, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda,
We are so deeply sadened to hear about this horrific news. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sure you were very proud of Nick.

Dana Coronado

March 12, 2014

My family and I would like to express our condolences. Nick was my son, Mario's friend and AZO brother. My daughters also enjoyed visiting with Kappy at their brother's parties. We are all saddened by this great loss and will miss his friendly smile.

With deepest sympathy,
Dana Coronado

Mieke Van Parys

March 10, 2014

Rich and Family, also in Europe, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our deepest condolences. Mieke Van Parys and the Brady Benelux team

Terese Farley

March 9, 2014

Dear Renee, Rich, and Amanda,
My heart is breaking for you during this most difficult time. When I think back to Nick as a young boy at Holy Trinity School, I see a beautiful smiling face; so full of joy. I can only imagine what a lovely man he grew up to be. Please know that all of you will forever be in my prayers.

John Mangus

March 8, 2014

Rich and family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences.

Mike and Robin Waters

March 8, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda,
Words can not express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Nick seemed like an amazing young man. You have been in our constant thoughts and prayers. Love you Cousin

March 8, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you today as you both mourn the tragic loss of Nick and celebrate his beautiful life.
Sister Mary Louise Degenhart
Special Assistant to the President
STLCOP

Dan & Mary Bartowski

March 8, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda

Our thoughts and prayers are with and your family.

Annelies Colman

March 8, 2014

Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent. Losing him due to an unnecessary and senseless act of gun violence makes it even worse.
My deepest Sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

A colleague from Brady Belgium,
Annelies

Rande & Meredith Barnes-Hempen

March 7, 2014

Our family wants to express our deepest sympathy to your family. We were privileged to meet Nick for supper one evening. Our son Bryce went to STLCOP with Nick and pledged AZO due to his friendship with Nick. We will continue to keep your family in our prayers.

Chris & Lisa Jurik

March 7, 2014

Rich,Renee and Amanda,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Nick always and will remember his contagious smile and all the joy he brought with him wherever he went.
With Our Deepest Sympathy,
Chris, Lisa, Marissa and Daniel

dawn goetz

March 7, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda, You and all of your family in our forever prayers. We have continuous prayers for Nick.With our most deepest sympathy The Goetz Family, Dawn, Greg, Marcus and Ashley

Mary Jo Belongea

March 7, 2014

My heart and prayers goes out to the family of Nick during this difficult time. Although I didn't know Nick, my granddaughter, Alyssa, did and was with him at the time of his passing. She and all of our family very sad about this tragic loss. May Nicks Soul rest in peace.

Joe, Theresa and Caity Mills

March 7, 2014

We've never met but our daughter knew Kappy through AZO. She attends The University of Toledo and she had met him several times and they were friends even though they attended different schools, he was one of her AZO brothers. Caity says he always had a smile on his face and was so friendly and welcoming to the Toledo chapter when they came to visit. We grieve for you and your family and ask God to wrap his arms around you and give you peace and comfort. We are praying for you in this very difficult time.

JJ Zacher

March 7, 2014

Nick, Renee and Amanda,
May the memories of Nick and the thoughts, prayers and comraderie of family and friends help you in this difficult time.

Susan Wilczynski-Lado

March 7, 2014

Richard, Renee and Amanda,
My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing Nicholas was loved by many people. Sending love and prayers your way cousin....

Tim and Elaina Reinhold

March 6, 2014

As parents of a freshmen student at Stlcop. Though we never met your son, we want to extend our deepest heartfelt sympathy to your family and Nicks friends.

Lisa Wieneke

March 6, 2014

Our prayer's go out to Nick & his family & friends. My daughter went to college with Nick.

March 6, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda,
We are so sorry for your loss. Nick was like a brother to our Nick and to Sara and Lauren. He is beloved in our Holy Trinity community. We will cry because he is gone, but we will smile because he was here.
All our love,
Mark and Helen Malahosky

March 6, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda, You are all in our forever prayers. We have continuous prayers for Nick. The Goetz Family, Dawn, Greg, Marcuss and Ashley

Mike and Lori Ramey

March 6, 2014

Our family would like to expess our sympathy for the loss of your son. Although we never had the privilege of meeting Nick he was a fellow 3rd year classmate of our daughter, Angela at STLCOP. She has nothing but nice thing to say about Nick.

Debbie Dearborn

March 6, 2014

My cousin, I never met RIP..our prayers are with your parents, family & friends. We will meet!
Love your cousins Debbie, Alyssa & Austin Dearborn

Ken Schrank

March 6, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda,

We are shocked and saddened by your loss. You and Nick are in our prayers. God bless. With deepest sympathy,
Ken & Chris Schrank and family

Bob Scarrott

March 6, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda. I was so sad to hear of your loss. Nick was truly a wonderful person. I can't imagine what you are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

March 6, 2014

Alberta , Charlie and family: so sorry to hear the devastating news about your grandson . I know how so very proud you were of all of his accomplishments . Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Camille Butler and all of us at the Clifton Park Hallmark

christine bartoszewski

March 6, 2014

my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you - a tragic and senseless act. God bless all of you.

Kathleen Miscioscia

March 6, 2014

Rich and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Stuart Gordon

March 6, 2014

Rich and Renee, I don't know what to say. There are no words for a tragedy like this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

JoAnn Hughes

March 6, 2014

Berta & Charles, words are never easy at this time - but thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. Losing a child is never easy. Cherish the good memories - JoAnn

MaryAnn Jones

March 6, 2014

Alberta and Rusty - I am truly sorry for your loss. What a tragedy for you and your family. I am thinking of you.

Gary and Marion Fuller

March 6, 2014

Charlie and Alberta, words do not come easily. We are so sorry for your loss and hope that God will bless you with His comfort.

Clare Ryan

March 6, 2014

Oh, Renee, how you must identify with Mary's pain as she held her beloved Son. My heart breaks for you, and for Rich and Amanda. Please know that your Book Group friends are grieving with you and holding you up in prayer.

March 6, 2014

So very sorry for your loss may Nicholas rest in peace with the Angles for evermore.

Meg Wadina

March 5, 2014

To Nick's family , our son Nick Wadina called Nick his best friend. He loved hanging out with your Nick. He was thrilled when Nick invited him to visit in St. Louis and had his train ticket paid for! The fondest memory we have was when Nick came over to our house Dec 20,2013 and the 2 Nick's and their friend Lauren all made Christmas cookies together! That is a picture in our photo album we will cherish forever . God bless your family in your time of sorrow.

Tom and Rose Fandrich

March 5, 2014

To Rich, Renee and Amanda,
We are so deeply hurt by your tragic loss. We remember just last summer how you spoke so very proud of Nick while he was attending the white coat ceremony. Stay strong and keep your faith, allowing time to heal your pain. We can not begin to feel what you are feeling at this difficult time.
Our deepest sympathies to your family, John, Steve and Julie.
You will be in our prayers.

Ben Pflefka

March 5, 2014

I pray and hope to God we find his killer(s). I believe only then will most of the people affected by this be able to then start recovering from this loss.

Ben Pflefka

March 5, 2014

I didn't know Nick personally, but I'd like to think there is some bond between us, from us both being from the Waukesha County. From all the stories I've read from fellow students here at STLCOP, he seemed like an amazing young man, and I regret not getting to know him. I'm extremely sorry for your loss, and our entire school is grieving over this. God bless you all in these hard times of yours.

Bridgford Family

March 5, 2014

We were heartbroken to hear of the loss of your son. You don't know us, our son is a 6th year student and spent his 3rd, 4th & 5th year in a home just blocks from Nick's. We have and will continue to pray for your family. May God pour His love, peace and comfort out on you. Again, we are just so, so sorry!

Kim and Jami Hinman

March 5, 2014

We were so sad to hear of your sudden loss. We send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you and all your family.

Becky, Bruce & Kaitlyn Craddock

March 5, 2014

To Nick's family,
Our hearts are heavy with sadness for the loss of your son and brother. May the wonderful memories of the amazing young man you raised sustain you and bring you comfort.
Another STLCOP family,

Len & Maureen Kane

March 5, 2014

Our hearts ache for you and your entire family. We will keep you in our prayers especially during this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathies.

Laura Bouyea

March 5, 2014

My heart goes out to the entire family. As I know how close you all are, the family bond will get you through this difficult time. You're in my prayers Sincerest condolences

Tom & Patty Bartoszewski

March 5, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with Nick's family. There is no way to understand such a tragic act taking such a young promising individual in such a senseless act

Ken, Nancy Courtney & Katlyn Breidel

March 5, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and all of his friends. Such a wonderful, respectful young man taken too soon.

Deb Sobczak

March 5, 2014

As a mother of an AZO frater from UT, my heart goes out to Nicholas' family, friends and AZO "brothers".
As an academic advisor for the College of Pharmacy at UT, I will post Nicholas' obituary so that all of our students can honor his memory.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathryn Harvey

March 5, 2014

To Nick's family, especially Amanda, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed spending time with you and Nick at CMH. Please be assured of my thoughts and prayers for Nick and all of you. May God bless you all with peace.

March 5, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda - I want to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of Nick. May the Lord be by your side every step of the way.
Erin, John, AJ and Tyler Hutteman

Marie King

March 5, 2014

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Gerard Keuler

March 5, 2014

A tragic loss. Nick was truly a wonderful person to be around. He always had a smile and always seemed to look at the bright side of things. May God comfort the Kapusniak Family

Tom & Eva F

March 4, 2014

My wife and I want to express our love and sorrow to your family at this time. Our son Dane was a friend of Nicks. They were in a band together and Nick graciously let Dane drive up with him to Wisconsin, so Dane could spent the holiday with his Wisconsin grandmother. We used to live in Waterford, WI, but now live in Oregon. I wish we could have had the pleasure of meeting your son. We hope to get to meet him and get to know him well in Heaven someday. Stay Strong, Tom and Eva Fickes

Heidi Calvert

March 4, 2014

My son & Nick were good friends having met at Stlcop. He mourns the loss of Nick & my heart is broken for your
family.

June DiClementine

March 4, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda
All of you are in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. There are no words that can ease your pain at this difficult time. I do know you will feel some comfort in knowing that Nick is spending eternal life with His Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. May all your wonderful memories of Nick bring you comfort. May the Love of Jesus Christ, and your family and friends help you through this difficult time. Nick was a wonderful young man, and is smiling down on all of you from heaven. Please don't hesitate to contact us, if there is anything we could do for you. With Deepest Sympathy.
June, Paul, Michael & Matthew DiClementine

Pam Rhodes & family

March 4, 2014

Words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. My family and I have you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Scott

March 4, 2014

My family and I are praying for your family and Nick's friends. We didn't know him, but several of my former students knew him well as a classmate in St. Louis . God bless you and yours in this difficult time.

chuck and susan kohlmeier

March 4, 2014

We are so grieved by this terrible tragedy. we remember Nick from Holy Trinity. He was a wonderful child--and what an amazing young man he had become. You are in our prayers

Sonja Mellesh

March 4, 2014

Go with God, Nick.

Devon Mellesh

March 4, 2014

You were a good friend, and a great guy!

Chuck & Lynda Bartoszewski

March 4, 2014

We were shocked and saddened to hear the news about Nick. Our prayers and sympathy go out to you and your families

Mark

March 4, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this time of sorrow. Such a tragedy to be taken at such an early life. Nothing can fill the void left in your lives. May he rest in peace.

Kathy, Bill, Sarah and Adam Hamilton

March 4, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda,
We are saddened and in shock to have heard the news about Nick. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.

Mary Riter

March 4, 2014

Rich, Renee and Amanda
I am so sorry for your loss it is just devastating. You are all in my thoughts and prayers if there is anything I can do let me know.

March 4, 2014

The Staff at Burke & Bussing Funeral Homes extend their deepest sympathy to Nick's family and friends. Our thoughts are with all of you at this very difficult time.

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