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Brian Adler
June 25, 2014
Hi, Dad--just having some thoughts of you today. Love, your son
Brian Adler
June 4, 2009
For Memorial Day 2009: Bernie Adler, WWII Veteran. This is the information entered into the WWII Memorial Data Base regarding Dad:
ACTIVITY DURING WWII
MEMBER OF COMBAT AIRCREW, NAVY AIR FORCE SQUADRON VPB-153, 7TH FLEET AIR WING, BASED ON GUAM. NAVAL AIR STATION AGANA; AIR OPERATIONS AGAINST JAPANESE FORCES IN MICRONESIA, INCLUDING TRUK.
Dad's tombstone has him listed as AOM 2 (his WWII rank) and as a Major (his rank when he retired).
Felicia Mitchell
March 22, 2007
When I think of Bernard A. Adler, I think of the intense devotion he had for his Helene and Brian, and they for him. I also think of how happy Brian, Annette, Sarah,and Noah as a family made him (and how the legacy of this family will honor Bernie's spirit). While it is hard for me to imagine Helene without Bernie by her side, I know that a love like theirs endures past death. I wish the family all the best.
Brian Adler
March 21, 2007
Who was Bernie Adler? He was my dad, and I loved him with all my heart. He was a man who looked for only the best in everything he did and who lived every day cheerfully and with a full purpose in mind that he would work to his maximum abilities. My dad gave of himself in countless ways to his family and also helped many others in need. He loved my mother, Helene, and was a devoted husband to my mom for over 54 years. He was a doting grandfather, who loved his grandchildren, Sarah and Noah, who were the light of his life. He loved his daughter-in-law, Annette, and treated her like the sister I never had. He loved his dog Sweetie, and when the two of them walked down the street, my dad with his fearless Boston terrier, all manner of wildlife, from squirrels to rabid dogs, trembled mightily and hid themselves.
What is the last, best measure of a man? Surely it is in the good works he leaves behind and the people who love him and remember his wit, his charm, his wonderful sense of humor, and his uncanny ability to usually be in the right place at the right time. My dad also had the somewhat annoying habit of oftentimes being right, about everything, which made it difficult sometimes, to disagree or argue with him. He read constantly, and he loved language. As he lay dying, I said to Dad, “Something intractable has got hold of you.” As I said the word intractable, his brilliant blue eyes opened wide for the first time, and he looked straight at me. I could tell that, even in his perilous condition, he appreciated hearing that word, and it engaged his mind nicely for a moment.
My dad loved history, and he loved duty, and he loved his country. He was so justly proud of his military service, as is his family. When the World War II Memorial was dedicated in Washington, DC, just over a year ago, I offered to drive my dad and mom up to see it, but he was already too sick to take such a trip. My dad taught me to play chess when I was very young. For years afterwards, I thought Dad actually liked to play chess, but one day he told me the story of how he learned to play. He was stationed on the Pacific island of Truk during WWII, and once, a supply plane made a mistake and delivered to his outpost one hundred chess sets instead of the assortment of diversions that the soldiers had expected. When my dad wasn’t flying missions, he and all the other airmen had nothing else to do on the island except play chess. My dad told me he was glad I learned quickly enough, because it was really one of his least favorite games.
My dad spent much of his professional life around mammoth forces. He built nuclear power plants, and he built missiles for defense and for space exploration. He rubbed elbows with many important scientists and pioneers of space flight. But my dad’s best legacy, I think, is that he was a good man, and in his own way, he was a religious man, who believed deeply in God and who worked hard to know God’s will. My dad was steady, unfaltering, and, until the very end, unflagging. He never stopped fighting. He loved life, he loved his life because it contained the people that he loved. My dad was a fast walker his whole life—no one could keep up with him. I think it’s because he was always curious to see what was just up ahead. My dad was always looking forward, with a glad heart, and with a sense that great things could be accomplished if one just worked hard enough. Thank you, Dad, for all the gifts you imparted to me.
Bernie Adler in 2006
March 20, 2007
Boland Eye Center
February 14, 2007
It was a great pleasure to care for Mr. Adler. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
Dr. Ryan Boland & Staff
Helen Chiboucas-Hartley
February 1, 2007
Dear Helene and Family,
Was saddened to hear of Bernie's passing. He was such a joy to be around. You both remain in my heart always. I am sorry I cannot be with you. Have missed our gatherings since my relocation to Texas. Please know my prayers and heart are with you at this time.
Love, Helen
Sue Friedman
January 31, 2007
Dear Helen and family,
Everytime I will think of Bernie, I will remember his humor; the twinkle in his eyes (yes,they really did!); his strength and determination; his determination for choosing which battles to fight and which ones to cast a shrug... His love for walking and his concern for others. I will aways remember our visits, altho' short, before services.
If ever I can be of help, please let me know. With love, Sue
Ruby & Phillip Perlman
January 30, 2007
Phillip and I are thinking of you with fond memories of all the times and conversations and happy times we shared. Please know, we include you and your family in our prayers and know you will find the strength to continue as Bernie would want you to. We love you.
Pamela Chapman
January 30, 2007
On behalf of my Dad,the late retired M/Sgt. Charles A. Harper, I offer my respect to Mr. Adler for his outstanding service to his country and fellow men. A life so well lived will always be remembered and deeply appreciated.......sincerely, Pamela Harper Chapman
Betty Rowland
January 30, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Margaret Boyer
January 30, 2007
My heart is with you during this time. What little time I had with Mr. Adler was a memorable one. He was such a pleasant man and I enjoyed our conversations when he would pass by headquarters during his morning walks. I always looked for him and will miss him. May God bless you and if I can be of any assistance to you in any way, please feel free to call on me.
April Archibald
January 30, 2007
With my deepest sympathy forMrs Helen and for your family . God does give rest to the weary. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. April, medical assist with Dr Robert Remler at Southcoast Medical Group
Alex & Cynthia Cusmina
January 29, 2007
Alex and I are praying for peace and comfort for you and your family during this time. I am so thankful for the time we spent with both of you last week. GOD bless, Cynthia
Connie Presser
January 29, 2007
Sheldon and I wish to extend our our deepest sympathy to each of you. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you during this time.
Patricia Atkins-Norton
January 29, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Teresa & David Williams
January 28, 2007
With sympathy,
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