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Morgan James "Jay" Wilbur III

Morgan Wilbur Obituary

Morgan James "Jay" Wilbur, III - SAVANNAH - Morgan James "Jay" Wilbur, III, 62, died July 24, 2008 at Candler Hospital from an aortic aneurysm. He was born in Savannah, son of the late Morgan James Wilbur, Jr. and Lily Agnes Paige Wilbur. The lifelong resident was a graduate of Jenkins High School and the University of Georgia. Mr. Wilbur was an Investment Banker with Rainmaker International. He was a member of the Catholic Faith, United States Army Veteran and a member of the First City Club. Mr. Wilbur was a contributing member to the Telfair Museum of Art. Surviving are his wife, Elizabeth Valdes Wilbur of Thunderbolt, GA; son, Morgan James Wilbur, IV and his fianc , Rosey Niboonkit of Savannah, GA; daughter, Allison Virginia Wilbur of New York, NY; brother, Daniel A. Wilbur and his wife, Sarah of Jacksonville, FL; nieces and nephews, Danielle Wilbur of Manassas, VA; Ashley Wilbur of Savannah, GA; and Chad Wilbur of Athens, GA. Graveside Service: 1:30 p.m. Sunday, July 27, 2008 in the Greenwich Section of Bonaventure Cemetery. A reception will follow at the Wilbur Home. Remembrances: Social Apostolate, 502 E. Liberty St., Savannah, GA 31401 or Humane Society Chatham-Savannah, 7215 Sallie Mood Dr., Savannah, GA 31406. Please sign our on-line guestbook at www.foxandweeks.com . Savannah Morning News July 27, 2008 Please sign our Obituary Guest Book at savannnahnow.com/obituaries .

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Published by Savannah Morning News from Jul. 25 to Jul. 27, 2008.

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Frank Cantafio

July 19, 2023

I remember Morgan arriving at our Halloween party in a limousine dressed as satan.
He, of course, won the contest!!
He was a great sport and I couldn´t have asked for a better business partner.
He was kind and generous and brilliant!
I still miss him!!
Frank Cantafio

Dionne

November 13, 2008

Dear Elizabeth,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. We here at Escada will deeply miss having James around, he was full of happiness. Our prayers are with you and I know he will be watching over you.

stephen mark

November 5, 2008

Dear Elizabeth, JJ, and Allison,
Please forgive the tardiness of my reply, I only learned
yesterday of Jay's passing. As the memories I reflected on
throughout last night, I know everyone was better off having
known Morgan James Wilbur III. I express my deepest
sympathies for your loss.

Mark (Durant, FL)

dennis jones

September 8, 2008

To Elizabeth & MJ,
My very best wishes and deepest condolences for your loss.

Things I can say about Morgan without any reservation are:

An big personality
A people person extraordinaire
Honest, sensitive, caring
Wise, intelligent, diligent
Confident, reassuring, spontaneous
And most important, a big heart...and I never met him in person.

Your loss is also shared by the rest of us!

Alan & Graciela Pacella

August 30, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

August 15, 2008

Dear sweet Elizabeth,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember all of the visits to St john with your dear husband, with sweets in hand . Your angel will be looking after you.
Warmest regards,
Debra

Pete Batayias

August 14, 2008

Elizabeth, MJ, & Allison

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our loss is heaven's gain. Jay lived life to the fullest. He brought such joy and happiness to everyone around him. You couldn't help but to smile when he was in the room. As I sit here reflecting back on what Jay meant to my family and I, we consider ourselves very lucky having had the opportunity to spend time with Jay and Elizabeth here in Atlanta just this past month. We will never forget the 15 minute ride in his new toy (lexus), which actually only equated to a 2 minute ride, due to the kid in Jay (pushing all the buttons and twisting all the knobs). A husband, father, and friend to so many people. Jay will not only be remembered for the person he was, but also how he made each and everyone of us feel as well. We will always be there for you.

Pete, Annette, and Amanda

Deborah & Chris Smith

August 14, 2008

Our Dearest Sweet Elizabeth, Its taken us awhile to comprehend the passing of our great friend Morgan,What a LOVE he was to everyone. On the Friday before he took ill, We had so much fun eating out with the two of you. It was a late birthday dinner for you, with us .Morgan was so funny , laughing ,smiling, always hugging,cutting up just the picture of pure happiness. Elizabeth you and Morgan had the Special love story of the century.Morgan would want you to be happy, to continue your life by loving all life has to offer , He enjoyed every minute he had on this earth and especially the time he had with you . He was a proud man to always have you by his side and on his arm. His face glowed when he saw you walk into a room. I remember the Sweet kisses he always was giving you . The two of you showed Chris and I how to enjoy life. We so enjoyed our Special Trips ,Places we would never had ventured to. Our whole lives changed being Friends with the two of you. I've never met a more loving couple in my life. I have thousands of pictures to remind me how Special you both have been to Chris & I. We hope to always stay close to you, And we will never ever forget our loving ,sweet friend Morgan . With Our Love Always and forever we love you . Deborah & Chris Smith

Frank J. Cantafio

August 14, 2008

Elizabeth, MJ, Allison and Rosie,
As you all know, Morgan was much more than just a business partner. He was also an especially close personal friend.
Perhaps it is because I am older than Morgan that I have become more aware of my own mortality and, therefore, Morgan's passing has affected me even more profoundly.
I can't imagine calling Rainmaker and not hearing Morgan's pleasant, laughing voice.
He was always honest and truthful in every transaction.
He was always a gentleman and a gentle man.
The best way I can think of to honor his memory, is to try to be more like him.
I'm sure my wife, Marianne, would welcome that as well.
Kindest regards,
Frank J. Cantafio
Rainmaker, International
Barrington , Illinois

Elizabeth

August 14, 2008

Dearest Dan,
Please always remember that Jay hasn't left you, he is paving the way in gold for you, his precious little brother.

Theodocia Englund

August 14, 2008

Dear Elizabeth,
I just got back and was devistated by the unimaginable news. Jay was such a kind and giving man. The two of you were such a perfect pair in great love and friendship. I am very sorry you are going thru such a loss. I do hope to see and comfort you in Charleston.
Love Theo

Carrie Stacha

August 13, 2008

My Precious Elizabeth,

Your wonderful sweet husband was a “one of a kind” and had a personality plus that made you love him instantly. Jay was always happy and smiling and so much fun to be around and it was because he had the love of his life, you sweet Elizabeth. Everyone that saw you knew you two were so in love… you two made the “Sun Run” at living life to the fullest. Jay was so intelligent, full of life, and had such a generous heart that let you know he was a gift from heaven. Being together with you and Jay, traveling, sharing many happy times together will be treasured forever. He will always be in our hearts and in our memories. Love you so much.

Ray Stacha

August 13, 2008

Elizabeth,

I want to share a few thoughts about Jay. When you stop, close your eyes and visualize our Jay, he was a very bright, energetic, adventurous, fun person with a heart of pure gold. Many of us wish we could have shared those same qualities. He loved to travel with you, do things together with you, and truly loved you. I don’t think he ever met a person he didn’t like and truly a person that touched the lives of many. He ruined me though! I will always have a bottle of Cognac XO close at hand and occasionally take a nip in honor of my friend. He will always be with us, in our hearts and in our memories. The times we shared will always be treasured. Our prayers are with you and the family. God Bless.

Caroline Edwards

August 5, 2008

Allison,

I went to St. Vincent's with you. I just wanted to send you a note, letting you know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. May God give you the strength you need during this difficult time.
God Bless,
Caroline Pace Edwards

Richard Singer

July 28, 2008

Elizabeth & MJ,

My deepest sympathy to you, although I never met Morgan in person, I'll always remember his warm telephone voice and how his humanity shined through.

Louise Williams

July 28, 2008

Tudi: David, Chris and I were saddened by the news of the loss of your husband. Although I did not know him personally, I know you-- and he must have been a fantastic man to have been a part of your life. Please know you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. May God Bless..

Calvin & Jane Seckinger

July 28, 2008

Elizabeth,
We were truely sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Please know that you are in our prayers. You, along with the family, have our heartfelt sympathies. We know that God will wrap his arms around you and provide you with the extra love and comfort you need during this difficult time. We are also near if you need anything at all. May God watch over and bless you and the family.

Morgan J Wilbur IV

July 27, 2008

I would like to thank everyone for thinking of my Dad and writing something about him. Dad loved people and was a vivacious, social creature who loved life and enjoyed it to the fullest. I was lucky enough to spend the past few years with him in the same city and office. Dad made me the man I am today, and I hope I am fortunate enough to pass on some of his qualities to my children in the future. Dad, I love you, and we will miss you.

Susan Lindsey

July 27, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Andrew Newton

July 27, 2008

To the Wilbur family,

My deepest sympathy on your loss, but I am sure you will continue to remember and celebrate the life of a great man and caring father to Morgan and Allison

Morgan and Allie, our thoughts are with you, and I am sure your fathers presence is as strong, and positive as ever.

Sarah & Andy

Luree Bonner

July 26, 2008

Dear Elizabeth,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have not known you and Morgan very long but I do know how much it hurts to lose the love of your life. I hope you will find strength in God's Love and trust him to bring you the peace and understanding you need in the days to come. Remember all the wonderful memories you have and hold them dear to your heart. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
Luree Bonner

Buddy Yarborough

July 26, 2008

I was truly saddened to read of Jay's death today. He was a great guy and I had the priviledge of working with him in the home health field a number of years ago.

Jim Lovley

July 26, 2008

It breaks my heart to hear about Morgan. When first meeting Morgan, I knew he was genuine, a gentlemen. He gave you respect, he would make you feel like an old friend. After spending a few days with Morgan on a business trip I came to know and appreciate an intelligent, easy going man who had a great sense of humor. I’ll never forget the time him and I sang a karaoke song on that trip, we both couldn’t sing worth a darn, but we had fun doing it. Morgan was truly a man of high caliber, I’m grateful to have had crossed paths with him.
M J & Rosie, Allison and Elizabeth my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless You!

Scott Dooley

July 26, 2008

To the Wilbur Family

My heartfelt condolence's on your sad loss. I know MJW III was a strong influence on all your lives and will be dearly missed.

Morgs and Allie, I wish I could be there with you, but know I'll be thinking of you both. I'll raise a wee dram in your fathers honour.

Much love, stay strong
Scott

caroline kendrick

July 26, 2008

Elizabeth,our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .my heartbreaks with the loss that you must feel.I hope that your memories of all the love and adventures you shared bring you comfort in the day"s ahead. I Think of the special things you both have done and smile . you both have a place in my heart. love, Caroline and Family.

Jay Dombroski

July 25, 2008

This is truly shocking news. Morgan was one of those people that you could spend hours or days talking to. He was just so very kind and made you feel at ease when you talked to him. I enjoyed calling the office and speaking with him, even for those brief conversations. Being from Florida, Morgan is the perfect example of what a Southern Gentleman should be. He will be truly missed, especially his laugh! To everyone he left behind, my heart and prayers go out to you.

Marika and Helen Carellas

July 25, 2008

Dearest Elizabeth,
Mom and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your husband. He was such a nice person and had a great sense of humor. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. May Jesus comfort you during this most difficult time.

with love,

Bernard Beaulieu

July 25, 2008

Elizabeth and MJ please accept my sincere condolences. May my amigo rest in eternal peace with the grace of God.

Miriam Lariscy

July 25, 2008

I met Jay 34 years ago when he worked with Mead-Johnson Laboratories and I had begun my first job with a group physicians' office. Whenever Jay walked in the door, he always had a huge smile on his face. Jay kindly provided me with Enfamil for my son's entire first year of life. He spoke often of Allison and Jay with such pride. He was one of the kindest men I've ever known.
May your memories bring you comfort and the love of God bring you peace.

Deloris James

July 25, 2008

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so thankful to have known him. May God's grace strengthen you.

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