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EILEEN McCARTHY Obituary

Born on September 11, 1921, to Fred and Lorretta Dean in New York City, NY, and died on May 6, 2011, at Sunlit Gardens Assisted Living in Alta Loma, CA. She was 89 years old. In 1940 she married the love of her life, John E. McCarthy. In 1949 they moved from New York to Upland, CA, to raise their family. John preceded her in death in 1991, after they moved to Apple Valley, CA, to retire. They were married 51 years. Raised 5 children, Daniel (wife-Bernice) of Laughlin, NV, John (wife-Kay) of Upland, CA, Michael (wife-Melva) of Upland, CA, Kathleen Schenk of Sioux Center, IA, and Patrick of Osage Beach, MO. Twenty Grandchildren, twenty five Great Grandchildren, and 2 Great Great Grandchildren. Eileen was an active member of St. Joseph's Catholic Church of Upland for 40 years and of St. Joan of Arc in Victorville for 20 years. She enjoyed traveling, servicing her community, and being with her family and friends. One of the highlights of her life was when the City of Upland dedicated and named a Park at San Antonio Ave. and 20th Street after her late husband, John McCarthy for all of the dedicated work they did when John was a City Councilman and Mayor of Upland. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to the Charter Hospice at 1012 E. Cooley Dr., Ste. G, Colton, CA 92324. Stone Funeral Home in charge of arrangements.

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Published by San Bernardino County Sun on May 10, 2011.

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Mark Hebrank

May 14, 2011

I always enjoyed our visits. Missing you already. Love forever

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May 12, 2011

I will miss you very much all my love, Susan McCarthy

Ann Marie McCarthy

May 11, 2011

I am Eileen and John's first born grandchild, but to me they were known as Gammy and Poppy. They always made me feel special and loved and I miss them both more than words can describe. Gammy, thank you on behalf of my mom Susan, my daugther Megan, my brothers David and Danny and their families. Your love and support meant more to us than you can ever imagine. I will love and miss you forever!

Jo-ann Mullin

May 11, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. Please find peace and comfort in her loving memories.
Todd, Jo-Ann, Dalton and Dylan Mullin

Denise Hebrank

May 10, 2011

I will miss you Grandma McCarthy. You were my Grandma for over forty years and always made me feel special and part of your family.
Love you, Denise

Judy Tanner-Monfils

May 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. What a wonderful women she was. I have great memories of both your Mom and your Dad. Both along with all of you will always be in my heart.

AnnMarie McCarthy

May 10, 2011

Gammy, I will miss you forever...thank you for all that you have done for me and especially for Megan...I know you and Poppy are in heaven watching over us now...Love always, AnnMarie
P.S. Can I let everyone know I was your favorite now? xoxoxo

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