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James "Jim" Wainwright
James "Jim" Wainwright passed away peacefully during his sleep surrounded by his family during the early morning hours of Thursday, November 13, 2014. Jim was born on September 14, 1943 in San Bernardino, California to Larry and Hazel Wainwright. Jim grew up on North E Street, just past Little Mountain. He was one of three boys. His older brother Charles preceded him in death this past summer. He is survived by his younger brother Rick Wainwright, who still resides in San Bernardino.
Jim graduated from San Bernardino High School in 1961. He obtained a degree from San Bernardino Valley College in 1963 and a degree in Sociology from San Diego State University in 1965. As a youth, he was active in Boy's Scouts and Eagle Scouts as well as athletics. Jim was a varsity wrestler and football player at SBHS. He continued playing football in college. While attending SBHS he met and fell in love with Karen Lusk, also of San Bernardino.
After graduating from SDSU, Jim and Karen were married on June 26, 1965 at the Emmanuel United Methodist Church on G Street in San Bernardino and then moved to San Leandro, where Jim worked as a juvenile probation officer for Alameda County. In October 1966, Jim enlisted in the Marine Corp. While serving as both a Second and First Lieutenant Platoon Commander in Vietnam in 1967 and 1968 he was twice awarded the Purple Heart, was awarded a Bronze Star and two Navy Commendation Medals. After returning from Vietnam, Jim continued to serve in the USMC Reserves until 1980, leaving the Marine Corp as a Major.
After his active duty military concluded, Jim enrolled law school. In December 1976, Jim was sworn in as an attorney and began his thirty-eight years as an attorney in Tulare County. By now, Jim and Karen had two boys and they relocated to Visalia, California in 1976.
Jim was actively involved in youth sports and coached both soccer and baseball for years. He was also devoted to public service through the West Visalia Kiwanis Club and the Central Valley Vietnam Veterans Club.
Jim is survived by his wife of 49 years, Karen; his two sons, James and Daniel Wainwright and their wives; six grandchildren; his brother Rick Wainwright, his wife Cindy and their two children; his brother in law Brad Lusk and his wife Sharon; his sister in law Janet (Lusk) Sugihara, her husband Glenn and their two daughters; and his soon to be 102 year old mother in law, Louise Lusk, also from San Bernardino.

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Published by San Bernardino County Sun on Nov. 18, 2014.

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Julie Burkdoll

February 25, 2025

Not sure why this showed up on today but I do know this was the kindest giving Attorney, human, family man ever. All the above says it all and more joined the Kiwanis because of his love to all. His Legacy will always live on.. Blessings always to his family.

Rolfe Pope

November 12, 2021

You could not have a better friend than James. Family came first with James. Both he and Karen raised two great sons.

James was a Marine always. He was wounded in Vietnam, and returned home and became a successful attorney.

I had the great pleasure to know James for 51 years (1963 to 2014). Those were great years.

I will always miss my friend James.

March 2, 2015

I WAS VERY SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF JIM. MY CONDOLENCES TO KAREN AND HIS FAMILY. I WAS A CORPSMAN IN 1ST PLATOON FOX COMPANY IN OCTOBER AND NOVEMBER 1967 WHEN JIM FIRST JOINED FOX 2/4. LATER AGAIN I RAN ACROSS JIM DIURING THE BATTLE OF DIA DO JUST BEFORE THE ILL FATED ASSAULT ON MAY 1 TO SAVE GOLF CO. THESE WERE SOME VERY TOUGH TIMES, MOST OF FOX CO. DID NOT SURVIVE THE DAY. FAREWELL JIM. DOC

Kathleen Dever

February 6, 2015

Jim was so kind and helpful when my mother passed. RIP my friend.

December 29, 2014

To Karen and your whole family. I will really miss Jim. He was our guiding light not only in combat but in life. I want you to know that if ever there is any thing we can do for you or your family I will be the first one on the bus. I will keep you in our prayers and we will see you this next year at the reunion.
Love Bob and Suzanne

John Ramos

November 25, 2014

Jim Wainwright was a good friend good listener and always had a helping hand for those in need though so myself he's helped over the years I will miss you.My condolences to Karen and her family

H Yates

November 23, 2014

Jim was a classmate at SBHS, I like Jim were both a Vietnam Vet.
Welcome Home Brother and RIP.

M. Browning

November 22, 2014

Thank you for all the wonderful advice. I will never forget "emotional judo." Blessings to your family and colleagues.

Ron Dean

November 19, 2014

Jim,
You were a great friend. I will miss your yearly visits to VA. You were the best Lt. I served with and we were the last ones in our platoon.
Semper Fi buddy

Linda Oehl-Spencer

November 19, 2014

Dear Karen, James, Daniel & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I'll always remember his smile and sense of humor. My deepest sympathy and condolences.

Kathy Jones

November 19, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Jim for very long, but he will be missed. He was a great help to me when my dad passed.
Another angel got his wings.

Jerry sanders

November 19, 2014

Goodbye Jim!
You were a good & honorable man.
I will never forget the kindness you extended to me during some of the bad times in my life. Thanks! You will be missed!

Ronda Werner

November 19, 2014

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jim's passing. He was a wonderful, fair, and just man. He was also a great boss and friend. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Rolfe Pope

November 19, 2014

Jim was the best friend one could have. Jim's passing is a great loss for me. I knew Jim for more than 50 years. I send my regards to Karen, James, Daniel and to all of the Wainwright family. I cannot begin to imagine how much they will miss Jim.

Jim told me once that the secret to his long marriage with Karen was that she was always right. He said that in jest, but I could always tell how much he loved her. It was always fun to see them laughing together. Jim also loved both sons, Daniel and James. Both were very lucky to have Jim for a father.

I am sure both Russ and Randy, his law partners will miss Jim. I was at a meeting with them many times. I went to many of their office meetings. Their meetings were always a lot of fun, and I could tell how much they enjoyed working together.

Enough said.

Rolfe Pope

Lorena Bacci

November 19, 2014

Jim Wainwright,
You will be missed. Looking forward to seeing you again one day!

Pat Cronin

November 18, 2014

Rick, I am so very sorry to learn of the loss of your brother. My prayers and condolences go out to all of your family.

Brian Hampel

November 18, 2014

Jim was a mentor and a friend. Rest in peace Sir.

Angel Moyeda

November 18, 2014

Semper Fi Lt. Wainwright, may you rest in peace along side the Marines of F co 2nd Bn 4th Marines who have gone before you.

Bob Vail

November 18, 2014

Jim was a friend in high school and a very nice person. My heart goes out to Karen and their children.

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