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Moana Plotkin Obituary

Moana Alice Plotkin
Born October 11, 1941 in Arcadia, CA, passed on December 4, 2012 after a sudden illness. She will be remembered for her selfless devotion to others and her kind, compassionate spirit.
Born to Jack and Amy Hendricks, Moana was the first in a family of five, followed by brother Joe, sister Mary, brother Dave and sister Denise. She grew up in Arcadia and attended UCLA where she would meet her husband and partner of 40 years, Barry Plotkin. Moana went on to earn a Master's Degree in School Psychology at USC.
Moana spent 38 years serving as a school psychologist for the Riverside County Office of Education. There, she often worked with the most challenging of cases, offering her love, support and service to children in need while endearing herself to her co-workers with her friendly and loving personality.
Moana and Barry settled in Upland where they raised four children, Mary, Randy, Jack and Amy. Her children remember her deep sense of compassion, her unconditional love and overwhelming generosity. Her favorite moments were spent with her family by her side, sitting around a table, drinking a glass of wine, and enjoying one another's company.
She was lucky enough to get to know her first two grandchildren, Samantha and Thomas, whom she loved deeply. In the last months of her life, she witnessed the birth of her two newest grandchildren, Luke and Emery, and she held them both in her arms.
Moana showed kindness, mercy and compassion to all she knew and she left a mark on everyone she touched. She will be greatly missed. Services will be held at the First Presbyterian Church of Upland on December 12 at 2pm with a reception to follow at the home of the family.

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Published by San Bernardino County Sun on Dec. 9, 2012.

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Jerry Dugave

December 3, 2020

A prayer for Moana and the family.
God bless you all; have a happy Advent and a Merry Christmas ...Jerry

April 27, 2013

Miss you mom!!

Jerry Dugave

January 7, 2013

All my condolences. You may remember me; the boy from New Rochelle, N.Y.. you met in 1956 in Santa Barbara, and you invited in your home in Arcadia.
I may not have come back to California but the entire family is still in my heart.
God bless Moana and all of you ...Jerry

Terry Dobias

December 13, 2012

We had the pleasure of meeting Moana when our daughter (Shannon) played softball with Amy. Moana was such a compassionate and loving woman, she will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Plotkin family. Marc & Terry Dobias ( Shannon & Jared)

December 12, 2012

I know words cannot make pain go away, but may the memories of all the good Moana has done for others travel with you. Barry, my thoughts and warm love are being sent to you and your entire family. Jim Moeller

December 11, 2012

Very sorry to know about your great loss, Moana was a wonderful person. We will always miss her. Our deepest condolences are with you. Dennis, Suzie and Cindy (foothill Foreign)

December 10, 2012

Although our family has been gone from Upland for more than 10 years, we never lost memories of Moana's powerful love and support for children and their families. I can still see her pacing up and down the sidelines of the soccer fields saying "Go Jack, Go Jack" as he took the ball down to score - A precious vision !
Our love to your family, John and Penny Marino ( Johnny and Adam ).

Ryan & I at Kevin's wedding, Moana, Barry, Randy & Jack were there as well.

Diane Talbott Mosier

December 9, 2012

Moana was a wonderful friend who will be remembered for her hospitality and warmth displayed to all of the kids she welcomed into the Plotkin home. Our kids always felt welcome to drop by their house and visit--she showed how much she cared aobut each one by how well she knew them and their interests. We always enjoyed time spent with Barry & Moana at Lamppost Pizza on Friday nights--good memories that are even more special at this time.

December 9, 2012

Our sincerest condolescenses to the Plotkin family, Moana leaves a beautiful legacy to all those she touched.

With love, Gail and Mohammad and all the Sateri clan

Linda & Wayland Morrison

December 9, 2012

It has been our good fortune to have the Plotkin family as next door neighbors for the last 32 years. Mo was always thoughtful and kind and our children have fond memories of growing up with the Plotkins. Thank you Mo for all you have done for our family. You will be truly missed.

Sandy McCutcheon

December 9, 2012

My deepest thoughts and prayers are with your family Amy.

Laura Bilek (Seal) and Family

December 9, 2012

We will always remember you, your kind words and gestures, and the way you lived each day to its fullest. You truly touched the lives of everyone you met. Your amazing family will continue your work in their everyday lives-they had a great role model, teacher, and mother.

Gary and Michele Curtis

December 9, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers and deepest sympathies are with you all.

Joyce Cushnie

December 9, 2012

I am very sad to hear of Moana's death.
What a wonderful woman. Jennifer and I will be attending the funeral.

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