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Mary Hartnett Obituary

Mary Louise Hartnett, age 62, of El Paso, Texas, lost her battle with cancer on January 7, 2020. Mary Lou was born and raised in Smyrna, graduating from Smyrna High School in 1975. She made her mark having lettered in basketball and softball, a 5' 2" terror on the court and on the base paths. She helped lead the 1975 high school girls' softball team to the Henlopen Conference Championship with an undefeated record.

We will never forget all the times when Mary Lou was a teenager and she would play baseball and basketball pick-up games with her brothers and the neighborhood boys. No question she was such a fierce competitor.

Mary Lou was preceded in death by her parents William (Pat) and Eleanor Hartnett. She is survived by three brothers, Keith and his wife Teresa of Albuquerque, New Mexico; Bill and his wife Karen of Fairport, New York; and Francis and his wife Lorena of Smyrna, along with many cherished nieces, nephews, cousins and friends and finally, her two dogs Jazzie and Ellie.

One of the highlights of her career was serving in the U.S. Army for approximately four years and attaining the rank of Sergeant.

There will be no Memorial Service per Mary Lou's wishes.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Smyrna/Clayton Sun Times from Jan. 15 to Jan. 24, 2020.

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Darlene Kelley

April 23, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Mary Lou's passing. Our parents were good friends and I met Mary Lou through them. I remember her in gym class and she always had my back as I hated basketball and she knew it, so she always picked me to be on her team so she could "keep an eye on me". My Thoughts and Prayers are with her family during this difficult time.

Robert Hume

February 9, 2020

Condolences to the Hartnett Family

Anita Melton Naylor

January 17, 2020

Marylou had a beautiful smile that I will always remember. RIP Marylou. My condolences to the family.

January 16, 2020

Our condolences to the Hartnett family. Many memories in high school and playing basketball on and off the court with Mary Lou. She was a great athlete and friend.

Terri Everett Timmons
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Donnie Poore Jr.

January 16, 2020

Thoughts and prayers to the family, so sorry for their loss.

Kelly Doremus-Pepper

January 16, 2020

Sorry to hear of Mary Lou's passing. Such a nice person and could always make you laugh. Prayers to the family.

Glenn Buxton

January 16, 2020

Vaya con Dios Marylou we will meet again.

Vickie Baker Fabiszak

January 15, 2020

So very sorry to hear of Mary Lou's passing. Our prayers and love to her brothers and their families. She will be missed but now she is at peace and reunited with her Mom and Dad!

Ginger Keeler

January 15, 2020

So very sorry , prayers to all the family members.

Laura Lee Handsberry (Essick)

January 15, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It's been such a long time since we've seen each other but Oak Drive sticks together!!!

Cindy Buxton

January 15, 2020

My early memories of MaryLou were of her attending my birthday parties when we were kids. Also i was proud of her athleticism in Higj School. I would tell friends "thats MY cousin!" I miss her already. Prayers and condolences to her family.

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