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Lu Shurkus

1928 - 2017

BORN

1928

DIED

2017

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J.S. Pelkey and Son Funeral Home

125 Old Post Rd

Kittery, Maine

Lu Shurkus Obituary

YORK BEACH - Whether on Short Sands in York Beach, Maine or out living a full and enriched life, Lu Shurkus liked to make a splash! She was an amazing party thrower and an eager party goer. She loved her life and all the people in it. She awoke every day hoping to embark on a new adventure, make a new friend, buy a new Chico's jacket or gather with old friends to create new memories. She lived well, but more importantly, she did good. On Wednesday, July 12, 2017, surrounded by her family, Lu made her way on her final adventure.

Lu was born in Nashua, N.H., on July 13, 1928, the daughter of the late Robert and Celedase (DesRocher) Cote. She graduated from Saint Aloysius High School in 1946 and later from Notre Dame School of Nursing in Manchester, N.H. In 1985, she received her bachelor's degree in sociology from Rivier University in Nashua, N.H.

The majority of Lu's nursing career was spent at the Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, where she worked for 50 years. Most of her time there was spent as a Clinical Educator in the Operating Room. She was proud of her career and all that she accomplished, including serving as the president of the Boston Chapter of the Association of Operating Room Nurses (AORN) for several years.

Lu raised her family in Burlington, Mass., but her heart was always in York Beach, where she and her family spent every summer. In 1990, Lu moved to York to be closer to her daughter, her grandchildren, and the beach! She loved her house up on the Nubble, loved her view and loved to the see the Isles of Shoals from her pillow.

When not sitting with friends and family on Short Sands Beach (in the same spot for 50 years), she could be found volunteering for the York Food Pantry, Hospice, York Hospital, the Portsmouth Music Hall, the Historical Society Showcase House and countless other places. When she wasn't at the beach, volunteering, doing yoga or going on Red Hat adventures, she was traveling. She loved visiting friends and family around the country, including her yearly trips to Naples, Fla. However, her travels to Europe were her most memorable. Although her life was full and her schedule busy, she still found time to be an amazing Mimi to her two granddaughters.

In addition to her parents, Lu was predeceased by her husbands, Richard Madden and Albert Shurkus; three brothers, Maurice Cote, Richard Cote and Paul Cote; and three sisters, Isadora Cote, Monique Grondine and Rita Cote.

Surviving members of her family include her daughter Marcia (Madden) Taylor and her husband Scott of York; two grandchildren, Morgan Taylor and Niki Taylor, who lit up her world; two sisters, Jeanne Kennedy and her husband Thomas of Manchester and Lee Dublow of Louisville, Kentucky, a brother Robert Cote and his wife Cessa of Pittsfield, Mass.; her amazing god-daughter Karen Kennedy of Goffstown, N.H.; four sisters-in-laws, Marianne Cote of Long Island, N.Y., Betty Cote of York, Maine, Judy Buckley of Pawcatuck, Conn., and Ann Gilland and her husband Dave of Plantsville, Conn., and dozens of nieces, nephews and cousins.

A Memorial Mass was celebrated Monday, July 17 at St. Christopher's Church, 4 Barrell Lane, York. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.jspelkeyfuneralhome.com. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations may be made in Lu's memory to York Community Food Pantry, 38 Woodbridge Road, York, ME; or to Rivier University, Albert J. Shurkus Scholarship, 420 Main St., Nashua, NH, 03060. Care for the Shurkus family has been entrusted to the JS Pelkey Funeral Home.

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Published by Seacoastonline.com from Jul. 14 to Jul. 21, 2017.

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Marilyn ONeil

July 13, 2019

She was one of those people you only meet a few times in a lifetime. A good caring friend. She will always be remembered for her enthusiasm for life. Hope you are still having fun.

Flo Larson

July 31, 2017

So sad to hear of Lu's passing. I feel lucky to have previously been Lu's neighbor for several years and missed seeing her when I moved from York. As others have already said, Lu was a unique and wonderful lady and always did everything with great flourish. I will always think of her fondly and continue to be grateful for having known her.

Sincerely,
Flo Larson

Jack Biagioni

July 29, 2017

I was so sorry to hear of Lu's passing. I have such great memories of her and growing up on Short Sands Beach with the whole gang. There were long beach days, various parties and great bonfires. She was always such a warm and caring person. She will be missed.

With sympathy,
Jack Biagioni

Marilyn ONeil

July 17, 2017

Thinking back to first meeting your mom and Chelsea. What a pair. Lu was one of a kind with tons of energy. She will always be in my thoughts

Jeanne Cusson

July 17, 2017

Please accept our sincere sympathy for the loss of your mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend... And all the many people whose lives Lu touched. She was one of the grande dames of the world and will be missed.
This is sent from Margaret, a long time member of "the group", and Jeanne C, a not so long time member. Margaret, who is 93, recently had surgery and was not able to make it to York. And Jeanne is playing nurse right now.
We will be sending something to Rivier in Lu's memory.
Love from Concord, NH

Shirley Harris

July 17, 2017

To Lu's Family:
I got to know your mom when I was Chair of the 350th York Celebration in 2002. She was a gracious and fun lady who was always first to volunteer for any task, and I valued her involvement. She is probably now the guardian angel of your family and the Head Angel of volunteers in heaven. May she rest in peace, and may you know that she was loved by everyone. Rest in peace, Lu.
Sincerely,
Shirley Harris, York

Gregory Ball

July 16, 2017

To Marcia and the family i am very sorry for the loss of your mother I knew she was a wonderful lady and a outstanding grandmother to your girls. She has gone to a better place now where she can watch over all of you and go to the beach any time she wants. May God Bless

Susan Tremblay

July 15, 2017

In loving memory of Lou, how she loved her family, life and all the people around her! Remembering all the great times we shared together with her and the Cote Family!
Susan and Fleurette Tremblay

Reb Buckley

July 15, 2017

Marcia and family, very sorry to get the news about Lu's passing. Quite an incredible lady and a very full life. She touched so many in a unique way. All our thoughts are with you, Reb, Holly, Sydney and Madden.

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