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1939

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2020

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Lucas & Eaton Funeral Home Inc

91 Long Sands Rd

York, Maine

Spencer Stonemetz Obituary

YORK, Maine - Spencer J. Stonemetz, died Friday, October 23, 2020. He was born October 16, 1939 in Boston, Mass., a son of the late Catherine L. (Richardson) and Harold T. Stonemetz. He grew up in Hingham, Mass.

He continued his life-long love of the sea and sailing while attending Tabor Academy, in Marion, Mass. He graduated from High School in 1957 and joined the U. S. Navy immediately following graduation. He attended Nasson College, in Springvale, Maine, where he met his wife Marjory "Marj" Hill, graduating in 1964. He married Marj following graduation.

He began his career with the Treasury Department of the Internal Revenue Service in 1964, retiring from the Criminal Investigation Division as a Special Agent. He worked for Maine Drug Enforcement; he was a private investigator; Chief of the York Volunteer Ambulance Association; Superintendent of First Parish Cemetery in York; and was a licensed funeral attendant for Lucas & Eaton Funeral Home.

He had volunteered with Group Work Camps of America as a counselor. He had been involved with Power Squadron, as a teacher. He delivered meals for the Meals on Wheels program for many years. He had been a volunteer firefighter in three different communities. He greatly enjoyed participating in George Parton's train club. He was a York Rite Mason. He gave his time freely to many community organizations.

Spencer was predeceased by his sister, Nancy L. Peterson. He is survived by his wife; daughter, Jennifer S. Cray (Thomas Murphy) of Portsmouth, N.H.; son, James S. Stonemetz of North Berwick, Maine; and his sister, Barbara J. MacDowell of Wayland, Mass.

A very special thank you to his dear friend Tina Parsons Lightner. Many thanks to the York Ambulance Association; York Village Fire Department and Hospice of Southern Maine. The family gratefully appreciates the compassionate care given to Spencer while at York Hospital.

SERVICES: Calling hours for family and friends will be held from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., on Sunday, November 1, in the Lucas & Eaton Funeral Home, 91 Long Sands Rd., York, Maine. Graveside services will be private. Please omit flowers.

Memorial contributions may be made to York Ambulance Association, P.O. Box 238, York, ME 03909 or to York Hospital, 16 Hospital Dr., York, ME 03909. Visit www.lucaseatonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Seacoastonline.com from Oct. 27 to Oct. 30, 2020.

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Michael and Susan Thorp

December 8, 2020

We were honoured to have known him and send our sincere condolences to Marj, Jennifer and Jim. We will always remember his smile, his American humour and his tolerance of us Brits! Rest in peace, Spencer. Michael and Susan Thorp, Cambridge, UK.

Marilyn Oneil and Dick Scire

November 25, 2020

Dick and I have fond memories of Spencer and Marg on our senior bus trips. He was always ready with a smile or laugh. You will be remembered. Marilyn and Dick

November 2, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear of your loved and deepest condolences are extended to you. Something that's helped me through the death of loved ones is to reflect on 1 Corinthians 15:26.

Hazel Raynes

October 30, 2020

Dear family and friends of Spencer. Condolences to all. Spencer was a wonderful man and so helpful when he worked at the First Parish Church. Jennifer and my son, Rick were great friends in their teenage years. Sympathy to all.

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