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Brian Tobey Callahan

Brian Tobey Callahan, age 74, passed away suddenly on January 24, 2013 at his home on Denman Island, British Columbia. Although his passing came too soon, he was granted his wish to remain active to the end, cutting and splitting the yearly firewood supply, gardening and helping his family.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Northwest artist Kenneth Callahan and writer Margaret Bundy Callahan.

Tobey was born in Seattle, Washington, on January 25, 1938. As a child he spent much of his time in the forests and mountains of Western Washington; the natural world remained important to him all his life. As a young man he worked for the U.S. Forest Service out of Granite Falls, where his family had a cabin. This experience motivated him to earn a Bachelor's degree in Forestry from the University of Washington, and a Master's Degree from Yale University. He later returned to the University of Washington for a Bachelor of Science in biology and a teaching certificate. He worked for many years in the Seattle School District, as a teacher and counselor.

Tobey married his Garfield High School sweetheart, Mikell Sherman, in 1959. In 1976, they moved to a cattle ranch in the British Columbia interior. The couple loved ranch life, the surrounding wilderness and the people who lived there. Finally, fifteen years later they moved to Denman Island on the southern BC coast, where Tobey pursued his love of the outdoors by creating and maintaining a network of trails through their forested oceanfront property.

Politics and family history were two of Tobey's enduring passions. Though he eventually became a Canadian citizen, he maintained a lifelong interest in, and was always prepared to debate the fine points of, American political life. Tobey recently published "Margaret Callahan: Mother of Northwest Art," a book based on his mother's journals, newspaper articles and other writings. It was a true labor of love.

Tobey is survived by Mikell, son Sean (Teddi), daughter Claire (Keith) on Denman Island, five grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. His generous and courageous spirit lives on in the hearts of the many people whose lives he touched. He was outspoken, caring, with a big laugh and a great presence. Arrangements are pending for a late Spring memorial service and celebration of his life.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Feb. 24, 2013.

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Anne Pohl Mohundro

January 28, 2024

I was just looking up some of Mark Toby's art online and thought of Tobey when he was a counselor at Meany Middle School in the early 1970s. I was a new teacher, and I recall discussing students with him in his office that had artworks hanging on the wall that I didn't recognize, but should have. He was a fun fellow. I just learned about his later life and his death.

Jack Bernard

December 7, 2021

Mike: A voice from the long distant past. I'm sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I knew him when we were little kids on Capitol Hill and later when you were both at Garfield. I spent a weekend or two at his family's cabin looking out at Pilchuck, and I still have a scar on my chin from a fall I had in the Callahan living room. I'm not surprised at his bio. He was always an original. I was glad to get an overview of your lives. I loved knowing both of you. Best regards, Jack

September 20, 2013

Tobey was a very important link for our family. Although I never knew him, he inspired me to find my own roots with the wonderful people who surrounded him and who bore me. Kirsten Storch McNeil

Philip Storch

September 18, 2013

So sorry to hear of Tobey's passing. The Storch boys were inspired to pass the Callahan legacy on to their children by Tobey's chronicle of Margaret and Kenneth's life at Robe Ranch.

I played at Robe Ranch, remembered the smells of Ken's studio and the cedar bridge over the still waters of the stream behind the house. And the trips to fish the pond at Bowers and the Tunnels where dad (Earl Storch) and Mom (Margaret Storch) took us to learn to fly fish.

We recently found a painting of "Fire on Green Mountain" that Kenneth painted for Mom and Dad in the 40s. In Tobey's memory, we'll donate it to the Kenneth Callahan collection at the Seattle Art Museum.

So sorry to close yet another page in the memory book of the growing up period in my life. Please know the Tobey's book has inspired the next generation to explore their roots and appreciate Granite Falls and the Mountain Loop.

Dottie Durant Simoni

May 28, 2013

Mikell, Sean, and Claire,
I just heard of Tobey's passing, and wanted to let you know that you are all in my thoughts. I'll never forget taking guitar lessons from Tobey, and every time I hear "Wendy," I think of him. I have so many wonderful memories of time spent with your family in Robe Valley.
Dottie Durant Simoni

linda mcdonald

February 27, 2013

Hi mikell. Jessy just cld me about tobey. So sorry. He was a great person. If there is a memorial in seattle i will be there.

Susan Lane

February 25, 2013

Dear Mikell,
I am sad with the news of Toby's passing. He was a big presence- big voice, great laugh, big hugs! He leaves a whole in the world that won't be filled.
My heart is with yours.

February 24, 2013

Mikell, My condolences to you and your family. You are in my heart and I send you lots of healing energy. I know this is a very difficult time. The best to you, Judy Stratton

Gregory Tuai

February 24, 2013

A keen mind, expansive knowledge, great eye for art, compassion, and someone I would proudly say was a friend. I always looked forward to talking with Tobey. I will miss him dearly.

Leah and Jim Tourond

February 24, 2013

Mikell I am thinking of you every day we have so many good memories of good times spent with you and Tobey. We will miss him so much but will always remember him.

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