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Douglas Deaton Obituary
July 14, 1953 ~ May 7, 2019
Doug passed away on Tuesday, May 7, 2019, with his beloved wife at his side, at his home in Everett, WA after a brief illness. He was born in Soda Springs, ID, on July 14, 1953 and also lived in Colorado, Wyoming, and California prior to moving to Bellevue, WA, with his family as a child. Graduating from Sammamish High School in 1971 Doug was always eager to work and while still in high school he pumped gas then worked as head of security at K-Mart in Bellevue. When a senior in high school he began what would be a 27 year career as a heavy equipment operator by working as a crane operator at Bellefield Office Park in Bellevue. Quite an accomplishment for a 17 year old. Doug returned to school and then spent 20 years working in IS, IT and as a network administrator.
Doug liked to tinker and could repair almost anything always chalking up these abilities to his Idaho ingenuity. Unknown to most he was a good cook and could not only prepare wonderful meals but also lemon meringue pie from scratch. He thoroughly enjoyed being an amateur (ham) radio operator (extra class and VE examiner) and the friends he made through this hobby. He also enjoyed fly fishing, shooting, lapidary work, gardening, the ocean and mostly being home with his wife.
Doug and his wife first met when he was just 19 years old but the timing wasn't right. They were reunited a number of years later and celebrated 34 years of marriage. Doug was a devoted husband, humble, kind, honest with a work ethic not often seen, smart and loving with an uncanny wit.
Doug was preceded in death by his parents, Blaine Deaton and Janice Evans and brother Sean. He leaves behind his wife and soulmate, Susan, son, Blaine, stepchildren, Warren and Tamara; sister, Debi; grandchildren, nephews and a niece.
Our hearts are broken but Doug will continue to be loved and missed more than words can say.
In honoring his wishes, there will be no service. Sign Doug's online Guest Book at www.Legacy.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Eduardo Hernandez
June 17, 2024
Amigo Douglas
Is been few years since you went to a better place in Heaven, but you left your big smile & big Heart , in our Hearts .
I missed you , I wish you a happy Fathers days
You Rest in peace , Enjoy your trip
Susan Deaton ... wife
June 17, 2024
My love,
Another year has passed. Another missed wedding anniversary and in three weeks your birthday. The grief is still deep and endless. True to your nature and concern for me you didn't leave until I begged you to as I couldn't bare watching what you were going through. I miss you so very much but comforted in knowing you are no longer in pain and in a much better place. I can't wait until we are reunited.
Mary Mueller Heusner
June 30, 2022
I am so late in acknowledging Doug's death. I knew Doug in high school and when I was 19 and first going to college. I don't think I've seen him since a wedding in the early 70s! What I remember about Doug is that he was a really good man...even at 19. I remember meeting his mom and he was so considerate and protective of her. Doug was different than some guys I knew, maybe because he lost his dad. He was more mature, perceptive, motivated, and kind. I am happy he had a good life with his wife of 34 years and family. And I am sorry for your loss.
Susan Deaton
January 17, 2021
We've entered a new decade. Without you. Miss you more than ever. Still love you more than life. For eternity. S
Christmas 2018
Sweetie Deaton
February 5, 2020
The endless seconds stretch into minutes into hours into weeks and months that you are no longer here. Grief multiplying upon grief. My best friend, my soulmate. My forever man. The only man I've ever loved in ways I didn't know possible. Sometimes I wear your coat pretending it's your arms around me and remember the sound of your voice saying I love you. You are the most beautiful/handsome, kind, loving, supportive and patient person I've ever known. And the laughter. God, how I miss the laughter. Until tears ran down my cheeks. I miss and love you so very much.
Susan Deaton
September 17, 2019
I love you!
Wedding Day
Susan
July 16, 2019
Susan
July 16, 2019
Fly Fishing
Sweetie
July 16, 2019
Happy Birthday sweetheart. I missed you terribly yesterday on what should have been a day of celebration. But then I miss you every moment of everyday. I love you.
Audrey Autrieth
June 30, 2019
We've lost a wonderful man too soon. I'm his mother in law and love him very much. He and my daughter had such a very special and wonderful relationship. A thoughtful, caring, kind, and gentle man. And always so nice to me when I messed up my computer!
Bob Amos
June 28, 2019
I will miss Doug. I remember the numerous chats we had on the repeater. Also the VE testing sessions where he helped bring new HAMs into the world of Amateur radio. Our group dinners at the Pizza Bank were always fun. Doug also worked where my sister retired from a couple of years back, Vacation International. He would occasionally provide batteries from their UPS systems that had been removed for replacement, but were still in good condition. My wife Sandy and I pray for God's comfort upon Susan and the Deaton family.
Jenny Kaiwi
June 27, 2019
Doug was often the first person I greeted when I came into the office each morning, he was as reliable as the sun. They were just simple "Good Mornings" and "Hellos", but I miss them...
Bailey Hays
June 27, 2019
I worked with Doug for over 20 years, and relied on his expertise and patience addressing any questions or issues I was having with the company computers and systems. He taught me a lot and could always be counted on to give you straightforward advice. He was never condescending or patronizing. I will really miss his presence in the office.
Billy Byers
June 26, 2019
I met Doug, 3 years ago on ham radio. Doug would get on his radio while commuting. Doug always helped us with computer stuff, in a way we could understand. Doug will be greatly missed by the 900 MhZ HAM GROUP. My thoughts and prayers go out to us survivors, I hope to see him again, in the future.
Bill Byers, AG7VI (aka the sultan of schrag).
Bob Othmer
June 26, 2019
Doug was a wonderful man.He was always helping us geeks with problems. Wh ed n you hit an IT roadblock Doug was the go to guy. Loved his help and his humor on the radio. He was always there to liven up the radio chat and helped immensly many ham radio projects with necessary potential life saving supplys to keep the communications alive and well when needed. His wit, humor and comradery will be sorely missed. Love ya Doug. Godspeed in your ascent to a better place. Hope to see ya again someday ss.
Rich Salter
June 26, 2019
Doug was a dedicated supporter of amateur radio, donating countless hours helping many Hams with everything from building antennas, to complicated computer interfaces. Also supplying computer support using his IT skills, Serving as volunteer test examiner, repeater control operator and trustee. and just all around great guy. His wisdom and jovial nature are truly missed.
Debbie Watson Masters
June 24, 2019
Doug and I met at Tillicum Junior High. Little did I know we would be lifetime friends and one day family. I introduced him to my sister Susan who became his wife many years later. In the early years coming to my home to work on my computer for me. My sister and Doug shared a very special bond. He truly will be missed and thought of often. He was a humble man I hope he knows how much we all appreciated him.
Michael Smyth
June 24, 2019
It was an enjoyable 14 years of acquaintance. Doug's wit and sense of humor is truly missed. Rest in peace my friend.
Eduardo Hernández
June 24, 2019
Dear Douglas
I will miss you amigo always good man and
Very kind
I will have the good memories with your family
I will pray for your peace and hoping you are in very best place in heaven
Gregory Ruzinsky
June 24, 2019
Worked with Doug many years side-by-side, shared with him many responsibilities. Was always impressed by Doug's work attic and attitude, his independence and reliability. He is missed and will be.
Art Crowder
June 24, 2019
In loving memory of an old friend. Chris and I will miss you always.
Gregory Ruzinsky
June 24, 2019
Worked with Doug many years side-by-side, shared with him many responsibilities. Was always impressed by Doug's work attic and attitude, his independence and reliability. He is missed and will be.
Jodi Boughton
June 24, 2019
I was fortunate to have known you and worked with you for the last 19 years. You are greatly missed.
Susan
June 24, 2019
As always my love,
For eternity and beyond
Dave Sedlacek
June 23, 2019
I'm lucky to have worked with Doug for many years. Whether it was knowing he'd be there even in the worst weather, enjoying his witty and (mostly) good-natured remarks, or commiserating about life's unexpected twists, he was a good guy to have around. I'm better for having known him.
Dorothy Heiret
June 23, 2019
It was my pleasure to work with Doug for almost 20 years. Every day he came to work with a can-do attitude, patience and professionalism. He was reliable and concerned about us all the way to the end. I appreciated his efforts to help people less fortunate, and enjoyed his great sense of humor. I miss him and think of him often.
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