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Jeffrey Schlameus Obituary
Jeffrey F. SCHLAMEUS 1949 ~ 2008 Born and raised in Great Falls, MT, Jeff met his loving wife of almost 35 years in Napa Valley, three years prior to graduating from medical school in Washington D.C. Residency through the University of Washington brought Jeff and Jan to the Pacific Northwest, where they stayed and he joined Edmonds Family Medicine almost 30 years ago. Jeff relished fatherhood with great involvement in the lives of Brett and Brooke. He enjoyed coaching the kids' sports teams, family vacations from the mountains to the river, Sunday ski lessons and summer afternoons by the pool. Jeff was an avid golfer and enjoyed his several weekly golf games with the guys. He cherished Alaskan fishing trips with his father, where last year they caught "the big one." As everyone knows, the true love of Jeff's life was his wife, Jan, with whom he lived life to the fullest. Jeff loved surrounding himself with people and his boisterous laugh could always be heard in a crowded room. Aside from Jeff's personal life, through his career in medicine he touched many lives. He was respected in the medical community and admired by his colleagues and patients. Jeff was a man who always had his priorities straight. He was loved as a father, cherished as a husband and will be missed deeply by all who knew him. Jeff was preceded in death by his mother Ferne, and survived by his wife Jan, father Floyd, son Brett (Ali) and daughter Brooke. Jeff died unexpectedly yet peacefully on May 7, surrounded by his loving family. A celebration of Jeff's life will be held at 2:30 p.m. on Thursday, May 15 at Edgewood Baptist Church, 20406 - 76th Avenue W in Edmonds. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in memory of Jeff Schlameus to Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center dedicated to Mantle Cell Lymphoma research. (http://www.fhcrc.org/) Arrangements: Beck's Funeral Home, Edmonds, (425) 771-1234.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Schlameus
Kyle
September 13, 2024
Back in 1999 or 2000, when I was around 13, I had frequent nosebleeds. My dad took me to see Dr. Schlameus, our family doctor. After examining my nose with his little magnifying tool, he put it away, sat on his rolling stool, and asked me a few questions about the nosebleeds. Then he hit me with the big one: "Do you pick your nose?"
I nervously replied, "No."
Dr. Schlameus looked at my dad, then back at me, rolled his stool closer, and said, "Kyle, there are two types of people in this world: people who pick their nose, and liars."
Hahaha I´ll never forget that moment and wanted to share it.
Nancy O´Connor-Eustice
November 10, 2023
I had an appointment @ EFMC today. The clinic hasn´t been the same since your passing. You healed our family for 30 years. We miss you so very much. Thank you for allowing us the pleasure of having the best doctor on the planet. Your family continues to be in our prayers. We´ll always call you our PCP. The Eustice Family.
Ali Schlameus
June 17, 2008
My note to Jeff:
For a man without siblings it’s amazing how many friends think of you as more of a brother, and how many of your children’s friends find you more of an “uncle”. To me, you were my other dad… which didn’t seem possible considering I was already blessed with such an amazing father, how did I get so lucky to get another one that treated me like family from the start? I will never forget Brooke introducing me to you at Dad’s Weekend and you so quickly throwing your arm around me and claiming me your adopted daughter – never realizing that today, eight years later, I’d be so lucky to call myself a Famous Schlameus and be married to your son. Our memories at the river with so many laughs over an a.m. frosty beverage, our late night heart to hearts in the hot tub, Christmas tree cut downs, calls for advice on our various house troubles…it’s not fair to not know the last time we did these things would be the last and that’s hard. But I still feel you and see you every day… through your family, and I thank you for that.
Thank you doing such an amazing job at raising your children, as my life would not be the same if it weren’t for you and your family. Thank you for setting an example in so many ways for Brett and Brooke to watch throughout their lives. Thank you for showing your daughter what it meant to be a friend, for raising one of the most amazing woman I have ever met, a best friend and now a sister. Thank you for being an incredible example of a husband to Jan. Brett clearly learned from the best and I am indebted to you for that. For better or worse, through sickness and health – you were always a source of compassion, strength, laughter and unconditional love. I am so grateful for you and the treasures you have shared with me –the most amazing mother-in-law in the world, another grandfather, a best friend and a husband, the love of my life. You never put a line in the sand, but instead would correct me when I would refer to you all as a family unit and myself as the in-law… blood line does not define a family.
I will strive to keep my promise to you to take care of your family when you can not - to keep a smile on their faces and comfort in their hearts. I will be there as a daughter-in-law, a friend, a wife, and one day the mother of your grandchildren… for better or worse, through sickness and health.
I will never forget you – but will always miss you.
I love you,
Ali
Karen & Harry Purpur
June 17, 2008
What a lucky day it was when we moved next door to Jeff, Jan, Brett and Brooke in August of 1986. We moved next door to a most wonderful family!
We watched Brett and Brooke go through grade school, high school and college undergraduate school, and, to some extent, graduate school. We were present for the installation of the swimming pool ( almost non-installation of the swimming pool-it threatened to float away!), we observed the playing of countless pickle balls games and played in some as well. We shared - 4th of July fireworks, Halloween trick-or-treats and Christmas cheer; the building of a fence and conversations over that fence; the clearing of trees from our views and the moving of the ensuing logs and branches; and Brett and Ali's wedding. And if over all the years we needed anything such as a cup of sugar, the use of a tool, brief medical advice, how to get into our house when we didn't have our key or because the power was out when the snow came, a casual conversation or a smile, we could see or talk to Jeff and/or Jan. And through it all we remember that's how it was--Jeff and Jan, a team--not Jeff and Jan alone. And that team was never more evident than when Jan and Jeff took care of each other as Jan went through her health issue and then Jeff had his.
We have been away from Edmonds for almost seven years now,and over those years we have very much missed having Jan and Jeff as our neighbors. How lovely it would have been to have them here in Orlando!
But maybe our best memory is that of having the privilege of simply knowing the good people who lived next door to us. The warmth, caring, generosity and kindness they shared. How blessed we have been!
Mr. Rogers, the television personality, said: "I've always wanted to have a neighbor just like you; I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you." Jeff, Jan, Brett and Brooke thanks for allowing us to experience exceptional neighbors. Happy Anniversary Jan and Jeff , and Happy Birthday Jeff!
Jan, Brett and Brooke - we love you!!!
Karen and Harry
James Shoemaker
June 16, 2008
Jan,I'm truely sorry for not getting to you sooner.My deepest sympathy to you and your family.Although we haven't seen each other much in recent years I know he was the best because he was with you.My prayer's are with you and your family.Love always,Jim and Cecille Shoemaker
Kristin Guinan
June 16, 2008
Whenever my dad would bump into other KD dads he knew, (Big O, Kev-dog, anyone he saw in Pullman), he would always end up repeating the same little story. Per Bob, “I will never forget the first time I visited Kristin in Pullman. Dad’s weekend ‘04, Kristin and her friends were far from 21, and I was thinking to myself, should we buy some beer in front of the girls, or would that be a bad example? We were walking over to this frat house for some poker exchange and we thought we’d stop into the local mart to pick up a 6 pack to share responsibly. At this point, I was still trying to decide if I should offer Kristin a beer or not once we got there. Three of us dads start strolling down the street and then we walk into the mart and head to the fridge. Tom and I are looking at 6 packs, we were thinking to ourselves, we are really nervous about what the Dr.’s going to say about this unhealthy choice. We grab one each from the fridge, turn around and there… smiling down at us was Dr. Jeff, holding the largest case of beer the store carried. We both started laughing so hard, going, hey Doc…we didn’t think you’d approve of such a thing. He just kept grinning and laughed boisterously saying, come on guys, my daughter’s a Coug… and so are yours. I’ve been trained well, and what would make you think that doctors don’t drink cases of Busch Light.”
He could never stop telling that story about your dad, I swear I’ve heard it 50 times. He was just so impressed with your dad after that first impression, I bet they’ve bumped into each other for a beer or 2 already, up there!
So next time you're standing in the beverage aisle of the beer mart, remember to follow "the doctor's orders", and really go for the glory and enjoy yourself.
Cheers to Jeff and his beautiful, amazingly strong family! And as we all know too well...life is short. So, just keep it in your heart that we will all see him again soon. Sooner than it feels like, now. So just keep taking each day at a time, and do your best to live each day to the fullest for him. He is always watching and he needs to see your smiles, laughs, and happy new memories forming, as his legacy.
I love you guys so much.
Patsy Linde
June 15, 2008
Jan and family,
You all have been in my thoughts constantly since last month. I'm wishing you good thoughts and calm moments. Jan, as you know, I did not know Jeff very well. But, during the winter months when I'd visit I felt I had gotten to know him much better. When, finally, you allowed Book Club to assist you two with an occassional dinner, I found it definitely was my pleasure to bring dinner items that I thought you and Jeff would enjoy. It didn't take long for me to realize that Jeff was very keen on Mexican foods and the sweet treats I included. I was so glad that he seemed to keep his appetite. During those "drop off" visits I found Jeff to always be high spirited, pleasant, interesting, even when he might not have been feeling very well. I surely wish I had known him better, earlier. I can see why so many, many people have said such wonderful things about him. I'm glad I, too, can add words about this special man. Many people will miss him terribly.
Pattie Martin
June 15, 2008
Dear Jan, Brett, Brooke, Ali, Papa~
Whenever I think about Jeff's passing I always think to myself..."why do bad things always have to happen to the best people?" It just doesn't seem fair somehow.
Although no one can say or do anything to ease your pain, please know that your friends and loved ones care so much about you all and wish we could ease your grief.
I pray for your strength, now and in the future, and think of you often.
Just know that you have been so fortunate to have someone so wonderful in your life as a husband, father, son, and best friend.
Love,
Pattie
Bob and Mary Jeffers
June 15, 2008
Dear Jan, Brook and Brett,
We are sending you our continued love and prayers as you live out the unplanned change in your lives with the enormous loss of Jeff. God bless you always.
Bob and Mary Jeffers
Robert Shoemaker
June 15, 2008
Dear Janie;
Aunt Fran and I always thought of you as our other daughter, you and Robbie were so close and spent so much time together. You are special. If Aunt Fran were here she would join me in saying that we love you with all our hearts. Fondly, Uncle Bob
John & Julie Waxham
June 15, 2008
When we think of Jeff Schlameus, we have a big smile on our face. Sometimes we're shaking our heads while smiling about some of his antics on the golf course, but "The Moo" will always be in our hearts and those of so many people who were blessed to know him. He was always quick with a hug for all the "friday girls" after golf and always wanted to make sure everyone was okay. Our wish is that the sweet family he left behind will know that he is with you every minute of every day. You have a special guardian angel watching over you who doesn't miss a thing. Our love and support is with all of you always. May God bless you.
Ryan and Jesse Bennett
June 15, 2008
Jeff was a wonderful man and we will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at your time of need. We are here for you.
Louise DuFresne
June 15, 2008
Dearest Jan, Brett, and Brooke,
Although I didn't know your father well, I do know that he was such a great source of love, support, and joy to all of you and the community in which you live. I know he will be greatly missed by one and all. I know he was extremely giving and caring.
My God bless you and give you the strength you need to get through these difficult times. My love and prayers go out to you all.
With much love,
Louise
Bob & Julie Zwink
June 14, 2008
Having been at the memorial service,
we're even more aware that Jeff was an amazing and fun loving person. They say that the good die young, and Jeff's death goes to show that this is true.
Sharon and Jeff Remington
June 14, 2008
Jan,Brett,Ali,Brooke So many memories.....Our time together with your family is very special to all of us. Jeff will be greatly missed by all the Remingtons, but we will always hold him close, his laugh, his big hugs are all memories we cherish. His love for all of you is a treasure to hold in your hearts. We love you all. Jeff and Sharon and all the Remington children
Trent Chittick
June 14, 2008
Jan and family,
Although our families have not met, I became good friends with Jeff during 2007-8 through our time shared at Mill Creek CC. He was an inspiration to me. During all that he went through, he remained cheerfull, optimistic and always with a smile and that famous chuckle. We will always remember his good nature and sence of humor.
Sincerelly,
Trent Chittick and family
Myra Horiuchi
June 13, 2008
It's still hard to believe that we won't be hearing Jeff's booming voice and laugh coming down the hallways of the clinic or lightening up a moment in a meeting. I know that his spirit will always be there and hope that we can continue to provide the same welcoming and caring experiences that he shared with everyone in his path. For me personally, his energy, joy, and gusto for living life to it's fullest will always be an inspiration for what I want for my own life. I will always be grateful to him for his larger than life presence and to you for sharing him with us.
Ashley Lund
June 13, 2008
There were always the WSU Dad's Weekend "favorites," if you know what I mean. Jeff was definitely one of them. Always friendly and fun to be around - us KD girls adored him. Jeff will be missed, but there's no doubt that his kind and fun-loving spirit will live on through his family. Lots of love and God bless.
Eva & Bob Hynes
June 13, 2008
May the memories of a wonderful father, husband, and best friend
be in your heart and stay with you always.
Rob Byrd
June 13, 2008
Dear Jan, Brett, and Brooke,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a wonderful person and will be missed by all. He was not only my golf buddy and my Dr., but a friend. We will miss his boisterous laugh, great humor, and his stories. He was always such a pleasure to be around.
He has left a wonderful family far too soon, but one he can be very proud of! He spoke about each of you often with a smile ear to ear each time.
Rob & Kathy Byrd
Nate and Erin Snodgrass
June 13, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. Jeff's enthusiasm and posititivity were infectious, and we will keep them as very warm memories of a wonderful man. Sending our love....
Ron Bray
June 13, 2008
Jeff's entusiasm and zest for life can not be matched. He will definitely be missed from the medical community and his large circle of friends. We will miss his strong arm on the press at wine makeing time
Peggy Hamernik
June 13, 2008
Our prayers go out to your family to provide comfort during this difficult period of loss. May the love that binds all of you grow ever stronger as you support one another in these sad days.
The Hamernik Family
Dan and Jean Hendrick
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan, Brooke, Brett and Ali, and Papa,
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we mourn the loss of Jeff, your treasured husband, father, and son; a valued leader, friend, and mentor to so many in our community. We knew him best as a well loved neighbor.
Dan and I keep listening for the red Volvo zipping out in the morning as he leaves to bring healing, comfort, cheer and/or wisdom to his patients and colleagues; or coasting down the drive late at night as he returns from an evening of service or meetings at the clinic (or was it one of his legendary golf games?).
We will miss, but remember with great fondness, the over-the-fence chats, and the infectious laughter and shouts of triumph heard all over the neighborhood as he entertained and thrashed his pickleball buddies. We will miss, but cherish in our memories, the obvious pride and joy he took in Brooke's and Brett's accomplishments (from Kindergarten to their professional, adult lives), and his enduring love for Jan and his family as he shared tales of their activities and adventures. We will miss, but continue to be amazed by our memories of, the breadth and depth of Jeff's knowledge. Was there any subject he couldn't talk about with some authority? We will miss, but recall with pleasure, conversations we had that revealed Jeff's humanitarian nature and deep concern for the well being of all. We will miss, but forever hold in our hearts, Jeff.
We wish you all the healing of time, the support of family and friends, and the comfort that comes from your treasure chest of wonderful memories.
Love,
Dan, Jean, Caitlin, and Duncan Hendrick
Heidi Sanders
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan, Brett, Brooke, and Ali--I can't say how many years it has been since I have seen Jan and Jeff. We live in Berkeley, California. It may be as far back as our first years of marriage, but we Sanders feel like we know all of you so well as we have been the lucky recipients of the famous Schlameus (almost) yearly Christmas letter. I smile as I remember reading how Brett and Brooke were boarding the bus for preschool, of your many family holidays and vacations, of Jeff and Jan's love of golf, of Jeff and Jan's pride over Brett and Brooke's college graduations and amazing achievements and the marriage of Brett and Ali. May all these beautiful memories be a comfort to all of you and a shining example of how Jeff's life was so well lived surrounded always by the love friends and family. This is one of my favorite quotes: "Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you..'twas heaven here with you. Thank you for being my guardian angel."
With much love and sympathy,
Heidi Sanders (Jan's childhood friend--our mom's were best friends, their were names Bea Shoemaker and Janet Leuenberger)
Jerry Petrin
June 12, 2008
I will always remember the San Juan Island boat trip. We trolled for fresh salmon during the day, Jeff and Jan dived for fresh abalone off one of the rocks, and then we dropped a crab pot off the boat, pulling up fresh crab. That was all fried in butter and served with wine the same evening. FRESH seafood served at it's best -- with good friends.
Jaymee Sire
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan, Brooke, Brett, & Ali-
From the few times I met Jeff...it's easy to see why the outpour of support for your family has been so touching. Although I didn't know him as well as I would've liked, I feel like I know him just from knowing you guys.
His kindness and generosity is evident in the way you all live your lives. You keep his memory alive every day just by being you.
Love and hugs,
Jaymee
June 12, 2008
We offer support and comfort to Jan and the family. We fondly remember Jeff and his wonderful life.
Love,
Bonnie & Terry Gemmill
Carisa McCathern
June 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Ed & Barbara Thomas
June 12, 2008
DEAR JAN:
WHAT A TREAT IT WAS FOR US TO SEE YOU, HOLD YOU, CRY WITH YOU AND BE WITH YOU YESTERDAY (JUNE 10). WE SO TREASURE OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AND KNOW THE YEARS AHEAD WILL FINALLY BRING US TOGETHER MORE OFTEN. WE LOVED OUR TIME WITH YOU AND JEFF LAST SUMMER AND OUR HEART ACHES FOR THE TIMES WE WILL NOT HAVE WITH THE TWO OF YOU. WE WILL DO OUR UTMOST TO HELP YOU IN THIS TOUGH, TOUGH TRANSITION IN YOUR LIFE.
DEAR BRETT AND BROOKE:
WE WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH THE CONNECTION WE HAVE MADE WITH YOU IN THE LAST COUPLE OF YEARS MEANS TO US. WHAT WONDERFUL PARENTS YOU HAVE. OUR HEART GOES OUT TO YOU BOTH FOR YOUR LOSS. WE KNOW HOW MUCH YOU CARE FOR YOUR MOM AND EACH OTHER. KEEP THE FAITH THAT IN TIME THERE WILL BE A HEALING OF YOUR HEARTS TOO.
DEAR JEFF:
WE HONOR YOUR LIFE, YOUR LOVE OF YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES. HAPPY 59TH AND HAPPY 35TH............CONSIDER THOSE GOALS MADE AND KNOW THAT EVERYONE WILL CARRY YOUR FAMILY'S WELL BEING IN THEIR HEARTS AND ACTIONS. WE WILL MISS YOU FOREVER.
WITH LOVE AND BLESSINGS, ED AND BARBARA
Justin and Erin Greene
June 12, 2008
You're in our thoughts
Please know how much
you are loved
and how deeply
your loss is felt by all.
Rebecca Montgomery
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan, Brooke, Brett and Ali,
I was thankful to be able to attend Jeff's service where so many were able to share how Jeff touched their lives by the way he lived his.
Most of my memories of Jeff are from when I was a very little girl and called Brett my "best friend". We spent lots of time together playing in the downstairs rec room with the scary bear rug on the wall. As I think of those times, I can hear Jan or Jeff calling out to Brett or Brooke who may or may not have just done something naughty, saying "Brett Jeffrey! Brookie Marie!"
When you grow up and have little children of your own, it's funny at times to find yourself echoing the sayings of those who parented you when you were small. One saying I can trace back to my memories of Jeff comes out of my mouth when my little ones are protesting "I can't!" The response I got as a little girl from Jeff once was "You can't? Or you won't?" and for some reason it has stuck with me.
I guess it's a silly thing to remember someone by... but I do remember him and will remember him to my kids as the very special husband that cared for Jan. They know her as "the lady we pray for." We will continue to pray for you all.
with love,
Rebecca Montgomery and family
Judson and Emily Greif
June 12, 2008
In this difficult time for your family, we offer our constant love and support. Jeff had a way of making everyone feel warm and special, and your entire family is very dear to us. We will always keep Jeff in our hearts.
Joan Neuhaus
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan, Brett, Brooke, Ali, and Floyd
When I look back to the days that I used to take Jake to see Dr. Schlameus I had no idea how our lives would later intertwine.
Jeff was greatly loved , and will be missed by many. He gave so much to his family, the community, and to everyone he met. Our hearts go out to Jan, Brooke, Brett, and Ali.
Jan is one of the sweetest women that I have ever known. Her kindness and strength are inspiring. Brooke, whom we feel is a part of our own family, is cherished by us. I am so proud of Brett and Ali for the strength they have shown this past month.
Also, my deepest sympathies to Floyd, who I have heard so much about.
Love & hugs to you all,
Scott & Joan Neuhaus
Nita Timberlake
June 12, 2008
Dear Jan and Family,
What a wonderful legacy your dear Jeff has left behind for family and friends. He was such a special person to so many people.
Our family wishes you nothing but the best as you continue on with your life. Our hearts go out to you every day and we hope that your fond memories will help you heal.
Nita and Tom Timberlake
Kimberly and Stuart Brown
Kathryn Jansen
Sue and Michael Gibb
June 11, 2008
Jan and family,
We have so many fun memories that we will cherish forever. Many fun times when the kids were little, at Chelan, Mt. Bachelor, and at each others homes, formed our special friendship with you and Jeff. We have unforgettable memories of our trip to Italy: getting lost on our way home from touring the hill towns, buying pasta sauce at the tiny family owned market, hiking in Cinque Terre, tasting gelato in each town, our dinner and street fair in Loro Ciuffenna, our first nights dinner at Il Borro and red wine with our lunch everyday on the steps of a church or museum or old stone wall. We will always remember Jeff and his love of life. We will miss him so much.
Ginger Blakeney
June 11, 2008
Dear Jan and family,
Jeff was such a mentor to me at EFM, as he was to many of us "newer generation" doctors. I so admired his knowledge, experience, and opinion on nearly every topic. He really lived out all the passions in his life, and that was always so plain to see in the joy on his face daily.
I still really miss Jeff-I expect to see him around the corner or at the next meeting. His leadership here is irreplaceable.
I always felt good when I was around Jeff. He had that amazing quality of making anyone in his presence feel special and important. I cannot imagine how you are getting along without this wonderful man in your life, but I hope it will get easier as time passes. Know that you are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Ginger Blakeney
Martin Proudfoot
June 11, 2008
Dear Jan, Bret, Brooke, Ali and Papa Schlameus,
We doctors at the clinic miss Jeff a lot. The other day I had a patient with a fractured bone in the right hand. After the patient came back from xray, my first impulse was to ask Jeff to review the films with me. Jeff was always our "go to" guy for orthopedic questions. He enjoyed taking care of sports injuries. Jeff knew more about sports medicine than any of the rest of us. After figuring out what I needed to do for the fellow, I was thinking about Jeff as I was getting the splint ready. Jeff provided leadership to the clinic over 3+ decades. He shaped the corporate and professional culture of our group. As I was wrapping the splint on this fellow's fracture, I realized that I was doing it for Jeff. My being able to splint this fellow's fracture at Edmonds Family Medicine Clinic is a legacy of Jeff's work and life. Although Jeff is not physically practicing family medicine in the clinic any more, his spirit and good example are still guiding us as we continue to do the work that Jeff did for many years. As I finished the splint, I realized that I was feeling a deep sense of gratitude to Jeff for everything he did for patients, staff and colleagues at the clinic.
Jeff's passing away is still a shock, as I am sure it is for each of you. Jeff was so full of life that I would have guessed that it would take 3 or 4 fatal diseases to stop him. It makes no sense that this could have happened to him. I share your grief at his unexpected passing away. You all are in our thoughts and prayers every day.
Stephanie Trimble
June 11, 2008
Jan, Brett, Brooke, and Ali,
I've learned in the past month that there are things that happen in life that we may not understand or ever get an answer as to why, but may give us some guidance that is needed.
The first thing I've learned is that family is something that is not defined by blood or labels, but rather the people you share your lives with, good and bad, and that you can always count on when needed. I feel so blessed to have friends like all of you that truely have become family over the years. If I ever needed a favor, help, guidance, a laugh, or support, I know I could call you in a minute and wouldn't be disappointed and I thank you so much for that.
I've also learned that people can affect our lives in ways unimaginable without us ever realizing it is happening. Jeff, as well as the rest of you, are a major part of who I am now and who I want to become as I continue to grow. I've never met a family so loving and welcoming to all they encounter and I will never be able to express how thankful I am for how you have open your lives not only to me, but my family as well. You have forever changed me for the better and there will never be words I can express to you of how much that means to me. Jeff will always have impact on decisions I make and that is gift that is immeasurable.
I love you all very much and look forward to many more memories and laughs through the years. Love Steph
Ken & Jan Keller
June 11, 2008
Jan and family,
The service you had for Jeff was beautiful. It really highlighted his life and showed what an exceptional husband, father, son, doctor and friend he was. He obviously loved life and lived it to the fullest. You will always be able to look back on that day and know that you honored him in the best possible way. Even though he touched our lives briefly he has left a lasting positive memory.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Thankfully you have wonderful memories to hold close to your hearts. In one way or another Jeff's presence will always be with you.
With Love, Ken and Jan Keller
Bill Fieldstead
June 11, 2008
To our dear friend, the "Moo" from the entire Montana contingent, Dennis Muhlbeier, Steve & Toby Rundle, Doc Gregory and the rest of the Boys from the River's Edge Ranch on the Big Horn. We fished, cleaned and repaired this last week, hoisted a glass in Jeff's honor, fired off a series of rounds and remembered our friend. Seems like he should have walked down the road at any moment. We remembered Dave Thorp as well. Dispite the hole in our hearts, they have given us the reminder of character, value of family and friends, and the joy of laughter combined with the healing of tears.
Whatever Dianna and I can do to help, we stand ready.
All of our love.
Bill, Dianna and the RE "boys"
Gail & Claire Carter
June 11, 2008
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. You are wonderful friends and we will always cherish that.
Steve and Patti Shoemaker
June 11, 2008
Dear Family and Friends of Jeff,
We all carry sorrow in our hearts for Jeff. He was a great man and will be sorely missed. We celebrate his life as a wonderful son, husband and father, as a dedicated physician who served many in his community, and as a man who loved the outdoors. He'll be in our thoughts and prayers. Our heartfelt condolences to all....
Love, Steve and Patti Shoemaker
Bob & Faye Byrd
June 10, 2008
Bob & Faye have had the pleasure of knowing Jeff & Jan for the last 20 years or so, first as a friend of he and Jan's, then as patients of his, and finally as really good friends of the Schlameus'
The first thing I'd say is that Jeff & Jan must have been the best parents in the world. Their kids, Brett & Brooke, still enjoyed spending time with them, even after they reached their 20's, unheard of in modern times.
Both children are more than accomplished, and have been solid for their mom and grandparents since Jeff's passing.
Faye and I had the pleasure of accompanying Jeff & Jan on trips to Maui twice, Eastern Washington, Roche Harbor, Bellingham, and I was able to accomany Jeff twice to Bandon Dunes. We had arranged to make trips to New York City, Bamfield and Whistler, British Columbia and Arizona before our time ran out.
Jeff was a great golfing partner, but a better cribbage, fishing and hunting partner, who was always a pleasure to hang out with. I loved our trips to the Big Horn River in Montana, where we fished for Trout, and hunted Pheasant and Waterfowl.
Jeff, you had a great life with a beautiful wife and great kids.
I just wish you could have fullfilled all of your dreams.
Bob & Faye Byrd
Kirk & Maureen Greene
June 10, 2008
Jan and family, I thought you might find the thoughts I shared at Jeff's memorial worth having.
A Tribute to My Friend Jeff Schlameus
I’d like to ask each of you to close your eyes—and picture Jeff Schlameus in your mind’s eye. And keep your eyes closed.
What do you see?
•An avid golfer who loved the challenge of the game and never stopped trying to get even better?
•The fisherman who finally caught “the big one” in Alaska last year—and actually had witnesses and a photograph to prove it.
•A skier—comfortable on the downhill slopes and on the smooth water of the Columbia River.
•A competitor—golf, fishing, pickle ball, trivial pursuit, probably even tic-tac-toe—Jeff was truly a competitor.
•The Fireball coach—I coached the kids in soccer, Jeff Remington in basketball (with Jeff assisting), and Jeff in baseball. The world-renowned Fireballs finally lost their first game in any sport in 5th grade—in BASEBALL. Poor Jeff could never live down the disgrace of this first loss—even though the kids quickly forgot when snacks were handed out.
•The trusted physician—who cared FOR AND ABOUT literally thousands of patients in our community—including our entire family.
•A friend—in our case for over 25 years since our two Brett’s met in kindergarten. Maureen and I—and Jeff and Jan—were immediate friends. And in spite of busy lives, we remain such close friends after a quarter century when most relationships are measured in days or weeks.
•But most of all—a family man.
-the only son of a remarkably proud father, Floyd, or “Papa Schlameus”
as well call him
-an incredibly proud and involved Dad who absolutely adored his son
Brett and daughter Brooke.
-and most importantly, the best friend and husband to the love of his life, wife Jan. Jeff and Jan—they have truly been a shining example of what love and marriage is all about.
•Jeff was my friend—and he will be missed very much by me and by all of you.
We love you Jeff—and will miss you very much.
Kirk Greene
May 15, 2008
Linda Martin
June 10, 2008
My heartfelt condolences to the Schlameus family. All of us at EFMC have such wonderful memroies of "Jeff" - Dr. Schlameus to many of us. It was very evident how important his family was to him - always willing to share a story or talk fondly of the accomplishments of his children and his love and concern for Jan. He was so proud of all of you! I especially appreciated the times he sat in the staff room - just chatting and debating the day's topics. He was always ready to give his opinion to all who would listen! He was special to all of us and we will dearly miss his presence.
Todd and Kelly Benzel
June 10, 2008
Our deepest condolences go out to the Schlameus family and everyone who knew and loved Jeff. We will never forget Jeff's great personality, and we are forever grateful for the great family that he helped create. Jeff was always a great source of swing tips, fish stories, and heartly laughs. We will always remember Jeff and give our best to the Schlameus family.
David Taibleson
June 10, 2008
We both worked late nights together and our office were next to each other for about 5 years We had a lot of fun telling jokes and horsing around.We actually used to spar a bit when no one was around. Im going to miss him.
Jim and Brenna Warren
June 10, 2008
Brenna and I will never forget meeting you and Jeff that first night at Ray's Boathouse, Jan. Little did we know (well, ok, we suspected!) that our families would soon be joined so closely together through our children. Loading the beverages for the wedding reception and lunch afterwards was very special! Ali could not have had a finer father-in-law! We miss him dearly. Love, Jim and Brenna
Jamie Uphus
June 10, 2008
We had many good times together. Singing Karaoke on Dad's Weekend, having fun on the boat at Cresent Bar or just laying by the pool. He was a wonderful man and his memory will live on forever. I love you all!
Deb Troutman
June 10, 2008
Dr. Schlameus is very much missed at his clinic. He was such a large presence in our daily lives and such an integral part of the vitality of PSFP and the Edmonds medical community. But I miss his laugh, his smile, his irreverant humor the most.
I will always picture him in an orange jail uniform playing golf in the exercise yard! His worst fear of being part of our health care system.
Kat Keibel
June 10, 2008
I will never forget who the best dance partner I had at Ali and Brett's wedding! Jeff and I definately cut a rug that night! I love you all and I am so lucky to have been a part of some of those wonderful and loving memories!
Marcy Shimada
June 10, 2008
Hi Jan, Brett, and Brooke,
I miss Jeff here at work. I appreciated how he was not worried about us finding the right answers; he was concerned that we might miss asking the right questions. His humor and welcoming manner are also missed. My heart goes out to you, Marcy Shimada
Doug and Sue Gerbing
June 10, 2008
Dear Jan, Brooke, Brett and Ali, and Papa,
There are no words to express the sadness and loss we feel in losing Jeff. Our hearts are breaking for all of you and for ourselves as well. We will so miss his infectious laugh, words of wisdom and common sense, sittin' in the hot tub with a glass of "porto", and the wonderful times we all shared. We will hold all those memories forever in our hearts.
All of you are family to us. We love you dearly and will continue to pray for you and do everything we can to make this sad time a little easier for you.
Brett Greene
June 10, 2008
So many words, so little space. Jeff and the Schlameus family bring to mind so many wonderful memories. Early morning crepes, 2 on 1 basketball games (I don't think Jeff ever won.....right), watching Apple Cup games and of course the Fireball years. Jeff will be sorely missed by all in this world that he touched. We all know that he is in a better place today and has left so many of us with a road map on how to live a happy and fulfilling life.
Love to all!!
Brett, Pat and Ella Greene
Kathie & Greg Burnside
June 9, 2008
Jan, Brett, Ali and Brooke,
I know how hard this time is without Doc. Always remember how much he loved you all and how much joy you gave him throughout his life! You all were blessed with a very rich life together and cheated out of so much to come. God has a plan and mostly we don't understand. Take solace in knowing that God is in charge and he will comfort you. We celebrate Jeff's life with you and the way he touched so very many lives with his kindness, his wonderful energy and his love for life. Honor him by continuing in that same manner.....for all of your days! He is surely smiling down on you all!
Love,
Kathie & Greg
Robert Bettis
June 9, 2008
Jan,
I still hear Jeff's voice in the halls and really miss him,so I can't imagine what you are going through.I miss his good judgement at our meetings and his jokes.My deepest sympathies, Bob Bettis
Tina Forster
June 9, 2008
Hi Jan,
So many memories. I will always treasure our week in Canada. It was a great trip filled with wine, laughter, good food and of course golf. "It is just not right", but we all have wonderful memories. Love, Tina
Rebecca and Fernando Moratalla
June 9, 2008
Jeff was such a loving and caring person. He is greatly missed by everyone whose life he touched.
SHERI HOMAN-SCHMITT
May 20, 2008
TO THE SCHLAMEUS FAMILY,
WE WERE SO SAD TO HEAR THAT DR. JEFF HAD PASSED AWAY.. WOW, HOW DO YOU SAY GOODBYE TO SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON. WE STARTED GOING TO DR. JEFF WHEN HE FIRST STARTED IN EDMONDS. HE WAS NOT ONLY A DOCTOR TO US BUT WAS LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER..HE HELPED RAISE OUR CHILDREN, IN FACT IF IT WERENT FOR HIS BRILLIANT KNOWLEDGE I DONT KNOW WHERE OUR OLDEST SON WOULD BE TODAY..DR.JEFF DIAGNOSED HIM WITH A RARE DISEASE AND BROUGHT DR.REMINGTON IN ON THE CASE AND THE TWO DR. JEFFS TREATED HIM FOR IT AND TODAY THAT LITTLE PATIENT THAT DR. JEFF TOOK SUCH WONDERFUL CARE OF IS NOW 37YRS OLD AND A FATHER HIMSELF. WHEN OUR SON WAS IN THE HOSPITAL DR JEFF BROUGHT HIS NEW SON, BRETT UP TO MEET OUR FAMILY IN THE HOSPITAL. IT MADE OUR SONS DAY AND IT WAS SO NEAT TO WATCH DR.JEFF JUST BEAM AT FATHERHOOD. LIKE I SAID DR.JEFF IS ONE OF A KIND..I REMEBER WHEN HE FOUND OUT HE WAS GOING TO BE A FATHER NO ONE COULD HAVE BEEN PROUDER (BOTH TIMES) AND HIS LOVE FOR HIS WIFE JAN WAS AMAZING..I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU FOR SHARING SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON WITH US AND AS FAR AS WE ARE CONCERENED DR. JEFF WILL ALWAYS BE OUR PRIMARY CARE PHYSICIAN, NO ONE COULD EVER REPLACE HIM.
SHERI HOMAN -SCHMITT AND FAMILY
Jackie Berger
May 18, 2008
To Dr. Schlameus' family and loved ones
We were very saddened to hear of Dr. Schlameus' passing. My two children and I were his patients for over 20 years. Whenever I would see him, he always asked how my kids were doing. He would speak so proudly and lovingly of his wife and his childrens' accomplishments. He was a wonderful and caring physician who always took the time to listen. We will miss him with all our hearts.
May the memories you have of this wonderful husband, father, friend and physician bring peace to your heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
The Berger Family (Jackie, Sarah & Matthew)
Daniel G Bourdon
May 18, 2008
To the Family of Jeff Schlameus,
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff’s passing. I first met Dr. Schlameus 17 years ago. He was always a very kind and caring person. He loved to talk about his family and his golf game. He was an incredibly knowledgeable doctor and I will miss him very much. My sympathy is with you at this time. Sincerely, Dan
Tim Craven
May 16, 2008
I can't say how bad I felt when I heard of Dr Jeffs passing. I've been seeing him for over 20 years, He's been the voice of reason and encourement for me over the years. Dr Jeff always had time to ask me how my family was, and would light up when talking about his. I will miss him dearly, he was a friend to me when I needed one, thank you,
Mitra McKinnon
May 16, 2008
Jefferey Schlameus was my doctor. He took care of me with all he had for 20 years. This is a sad day that I have to mourn for his death. My family and I loved, respected and trusted him. I am lost right now I hope god will give his family patience and courage to move on while they cherish his memory. For us, we just hope there are more people like him in the world.
Michael McCann
May 16, 2008
To Jan and the kids;
I am deeply saddened to have heard the news of Jeff's unexpected passing. He was to me one of the fun loving guys I have had the pleasure of playing golf with on many many occasions and while over the last ten years I have lived in Arizona, Jeff was always one of the guy's I truly looked forward to seeing each and every time I had a chance to return to the "Creek" and play a round. I hear his laugh often and will miss hime dearly. My thoughts and pryers are with you jan and the kids. Stay strong and be healthy god has a plan for us all and we must trust in that belief always. God bless you SchLamu! See you on the first tee sometime in the future I hope.
Lynette Emery
May 15, 2008
My heart sank when I heard about Jeff's death. He was such a fun, caring, and inspiring man. I came from NY to do a medical school rotation with him. Spending time with him solidified my commitment to family medicine and provided me with an example of how to truly live with balance: family, career, service, hobbies, legacy. I'm grateful to have known such a wonderful man. My condolences to his beloved family.
WENDY T williams
May 15, 2008
What a sadness and what a loss! Having worked with Dr S. for many years at Steven's,and having been a pt of his for 25 years,his passing is such a huge void.What a wonderful human being,Dr, Father, and Husband,Son etc etc.I will be for ever grateful,for the many crises he saw me through,and the hours he spent,just listening!He will be forever remembered,and missed by so many people!Condolences to all the family,oh how he adored you!May God gently hold you in the palm of His hand.
Rebecca and Dan Huntington
May 15, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Schlameus Family today and the days ahead. It is with great sorrow that I write this entry today. Dr Schlameus was a great Man, Doctor, Father, Husband, and Son. I remember the first time I went to see Dr. Schlameus as a child 30 years ago. It has been a priveledge to share our lives and health with such a wonderful man. My son and daughter, now 18 and 21, have been patients of Dr Schlameus since birth. I remember him coming to stevens hospital to talk to me right after the birth of our son for his baby check up. Over the last 30 years he has been there for our whole family. Too many times to count. He will be greatly missed in our lives. Our hearts are with you in prayer today. The Huntington Family
May 15, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Jim White
May 15, 2008
23 years ago, Dr Schlameus sent me directly across the street to Stevens Hospital. I was desperatley ill with pneumonia for several weeks. Somewhere near the end of my stay and on a sunny Sunday afternoon, Dr. Schlameus showed up at the foot of my bed , just to check on me. "What are you doing here on Sunday?" I asked. "People don't just get sick on weekdays" he said. That simple sentiment of compassion and caring has stuck with me all these years.
Linda Weeks
May 15, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Jan, Brett, Brooke & family. I share in your grief at the loss of such a wonderful man. I had the priviledge of working with Jeff at the Birth Center at Stevens for the past 28 years, as well as knowing him as a enthusiastic father coaching & cheering his kids during their high school years. But, my greatest loss is as his patient of many years. He posessed all of the qualities of a great physician, but most imortantly compassion and a wonderful sense of humor. I will always remember and admire his committment to his family, friends and his patients. Sincerely, Linda Weeks
Brian and Cindy Benzel
May 14, 2008
Jan, Brooke, Brett and Ali:
We join with many others in expressing the shock in learning about Jeff's passing last week. Jeff was first our friend and then a wonderful doctor and adviser to our family. His energy and enthusiasm for all of you was evident in all he did. He never hesitated to help others, including us, when we needed support and help.
We remember his advocacy and energy in starting the golf program at Meadowdale High School that so many young people have enjoyed. We have such fond memories of Brett and Todd playing together in competition and tournaments.
Please know that we hold you all in our thoughts and prayers as we try to understand this terrible disease and Jeff's passing. Your friendship and support for our family over the years is a source of joy and comfort, and we know that Jeff's strong values and positive outlook will live on through your lives.
Best wishes,
Doug and Shirley Frazier
May 14, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. Although we have lost touch in the last few years, the times that we spent with Jeff and Jan remain wonderful memories that we will always cherish.
One that will always make us smile is whenever Jeff would tell us a joke, he would have the most difficult time telling the "punch line" because he would be laughing so hard at his own joke. His laughter was so contagious.
We spent many weekends together at Jeff and Jan's house, either playing pool, pickelball, cards, board games, etc. Jeff was a real competitor. He loved to win and he usually did.
We will always treasure the friendship that we had with Jeff. He was such a kind man and fun to be around.
I had the opportunity to see Brooke not too long ago. What a beautiful, kind and poised young woman she has become. Jeff was so very proud of her, as he was with Brett and especially Jan.
Our family would like you to know that we sincerely share in your grief. Our hearts go out to you Jan, Brett, Brooke and Floyd at this difficult time and the days ahead.
Bill, Jan, Stacy, Heidi, Cory Vance
May 14, 2008
Deepest condolences on your loss. We will all miss Jeff. Your thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Greene
May 14, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family, I was his patient for 4 years he spent his time on my first visit to really listen AND speak so kindly of his family. I have been a patient of so many doctors; I can't even count them, Jeff was one of the best in my book.
Jayme Horn
May 14, 2008
You were the man in my life (my doctor) a person I Loved. You always cared and listened to my flaws. I always enjoyed the sports talk, our office visits always ended a bit over time but you always spent the extra time. I know you loved you wife and kids you always talked about them. I am sure your family will miss you, but I will also.
Doreen Rupprecht (Handy)
May 14, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family, I was his patient since 1980 and will deeply miss him. He loved to talk about his wife and kids and all their adventures. He always took the time with me for my medical care and was easy to talk with during my loss of my husband in 1998, my prayers are with you and your family.
Kim & Gini Gaffield
May 14, 2008
Jan, Brett and Brooke, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We have truly lost an incredible physician, husband and father. Even though I didn't always relish the doctors office I always enjoyed talking with Dr Schlameus about, kids, work, and life over the past 25 years. He was truly a remarkable gentleman to us all.
Bob Guptill
May 14, 2008
To the entire Schlameus family: My deepest condelences to you on the loss of your son, husband and father. I was a classmate of Jeff's at GFHS and lost touch with him over the years. We did connect at our 40th reunion last year and it was great reminissing about old times and how things have changed. From our conversations, I could tell his commitment to his family came first, especially Jan. His father Floyd was very instrumental in many of my early decisons in attending college and teaching and I thank him for that. Although we weren't close in our later years, I considered Jeff a friend and will miss him as he was truely a class act, both as Dr. and person. My sympathies to you all in your time of sorrow.
Jody Dunn
May 14, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of this great doctor. I first met Dr. S when I was teaching in Shoreline and we got to "go to work in another business" day. My alternate choice for a profession was a pediatric nurse. I don't know how I chose Dr. S but he was very willing to let me (a stranger) tag along. Dr. S was so kind, funny and loved by all of the patients he attended to that day. When I became pregnant I asked him to be my pediatrician. He went beyond the call of duty by getting special permission to be the attending physician at Evergreen Hospital. What a guy! I think about him every time I am in the Edmonds area especially when riding the ferry to see my granddaughter.
May God gently hold his family in his hands as Dr. S did for so many children.
Kay Dell Nelson Parratt
May 14, 2008
I had the occasion to teach with Jeff's father, Floyd, at Great Falls High School...What an outstanding man...I feel so for you, Floyd...and all of your family...in the loss of this fine, fine man. My deepest sympathies are with you all.
Teresa (Helman) Cummings
May 14, 2008
My greatest condolences to the entire Schlameus family.
I met 'the Famous Schlameus' (aka "Dr. Jeff") while working reception at Edmonds Family Medicine in the 1990s. He was always upbeat, fun, and gave off an air of eternal contentedness. I enjoyed knowing him, little that I did. I sincerely believe the world has lost a great doctor, friend, and family man.
My prayers are with you and yours.
Jackie Fenton
May 13, 2008
To The Schlameus family, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Schlameus. I am from Montana originally and have lived in WA for 19 years now. When I first went to Dr. Schlameus I discovered that my Mom knew his dad as he was a teacher or Counselor at Great Falls High (I can't remember which) when she went to school there. Also my Dad, Huz Jensen, coached Flathead High School Football when the Bison played against the Braves in High School. Dr. Schlameus remembered the game, the score and who scored the winning touch down of their game when my dad coached! (Bison won) He was such a nice person and always made an effort to listen to me and my worries even when I knew he was really busy. It was so nice to have that Montana connection. I am very sad today to learn of his passing. I hope that you all find peace in knowing how much others care.
Best Regards,
Jackie Jensen Fenton, Lynnwood, WA
Jackie Fenton
May 13, 2008
To The Schlameus family, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Schlameus. I am from Montana originally and have lived in WA for 19 years now. When I first went to Dr. Schlameus I discovered that my Mom knew his dad as he was a teacher or Counselor at Great Falls High (I can't remember which) when she went to school there. Also my Dad, Huz Jensen, coached Flathead High School Football when the Bison played against the Braves in High School. Dr. Schlameus remembered the game, the score and who scored the winning touch down of their game when my dad coached! He was such a nice person and always made and effort to listen to me and my worries even when I knew he was really busy. It was so nice to have that Montana connection. I am very sad today to learn of his passing. I hope that you all find peace in knowing how much others care.
Best Regards,
Jackie Jensen Fenton, Lynnwood, WA
Lorna Osborne
May 13, 2008
What a sad day this is. As a patient of Jeff's for 27 years I will miss him dearly. He was the kindest, gentlest, most caring doctor I have ever known. He was so easy to talk to. My deepest condolences to his family.
Pat Ford
May 13, 2008
I first met Jeff when I was working in the ICU at Stephens Hospital. Then he became our family physician. His son Brett went to school with our daughter Jessica. During my annual visits with Jeff we spent more time talking about our families and our lives, although we did discuss healthcare too. Jeff always shared with me his love for his family and medicine. He was so proud of his family and all the good works he had done as a physician. I will truly miss his wonderful smile and our talks! My thoughts and prayers are with you Jan, Brett and Brooke. This world has lost a good husband, father, doctor and friend.
Kim Johnson
May 13, 2008
It doesn't seem fair that we should lose such a great doctor, friend, father and husband at such an early age. I choose to put my faith in the fact that someone, somewhere, needed him more than those of us on earth.
While this idea does not take away the grief, sadness or anger that follows a loss of this magnitude, it does give me solace to believe that there are greater plans for all of us. Plans we will not understand today, tomorrow or maybe even years from now but plans that will someday show themselves to us.
My thoughts are with you today, tomorrow and everyday.
Charlie Troutman
May 13, 2008
Though I barely knew him, my wife Deb worked with him the past 10+ years and had only her praises for him. I met him briefly at gathering of the Edmonds Medical Group prior to his hospitalization. He spoke to the group as a patient, not as the physician or provider of care. His talk was so sincere, so caring, but showed no fear or dread. That will stay with me forever.
Slan leat, Dr. Schlameus
Becki Todd Margeson
May 13, 2008
I was very sad to see the world has lost such a kind and gentle man. I worked with Dr Schlameus several years ago and remember how proud of his kids he was. He made a big impression in many lives and will never be forgotten.
Barbara Brady
May 13, 2008
MY husband Dan & I were Jeff's patients for 27 years. We will deeply miss his warm and kind ways. He always had time to share stories of our children (who were also his patients) & his children, and to talk about things outside of our health. Our condolences to all of his family. Jeff was a very special man and will be missed by so many.
Amanda & LT Turner
May 13, 2008
Jeff was an amazing person with an unforgetable spirit that will live on thru his family. He will be greatly missed. Love always, Amanda and LT
Megan Kennedy
May 13, 2008
I will always remember Jeff's laugh, it could cheer anyone up! I feel so fortunate to have known Jeff; such a wonderful and loving husband, father, doctor, friend and man. The River, Pullman, Whistler, weddings, "family dinners"...I have many fond memories with the Schlameus family- I love you all and know that I'm thinking about you.
Stephanie Allen
May 13, 2008
Jeff was a wonderful husband and father and I will miss him greatly. I'll always remember his warm spirit and enormous generosity to his family and to Brett and Brooke's friends. I think of all of you everyday.
Patty Roberts
May 13, 2008
Dear Jan, Brooke and Brett:
Our hearts are filled with sorrow for your loss, as Mike and I truly understand the depth of emotions you are sharing with each other, family and close friends. We will always remember and treasure Jeff's warmth and humor as "Fireball coach" and Mike's doctor - as Mike would only get his allergy shots from Doc Schlameus!
I will always remember the one time I skiied with Jeff (up at Whistler). I was with Marsha and Dev and we met Jeff, Brett and Brooke up at the top of Blackcomb. He said, "Follow me!". I was a beginner and could barely handle blue runs. I foolishly followed and found myself on a-what looked like-a-45-degree
double-diamond slope. I followed Brooke (who was far more advanced than myself - but who took a more subtle line) and somehow made it down the run. Oh, did I mention that Jeff (and Brett) tucked and went straight down the fall line! When I finally made it down, Jeff smiled at me and said, "good job .. that really wasn't so bad was it, Patty ... "
I smiled, but didn't tell him what I was really thinking! All in all, it was a good day, and one that I will treasure since Jeff brought out the best in me that day ... which is what he did for everyone he met and knew... every day.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Always, Patty and Mike Roberts
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Linda Realander
May 13, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family, I was his patient for 20 years and will deeply miss him. He loved to talk about his wife and kids and all their adventures. Again, very sorry for your loss.
Linda and Kevin Realander
Tomo & Sarah Olsen
May 13, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. I'll remember pickle ball and how he showed up all the guys and spanked us all. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
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