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Jonathan Lubin
January 8, 2022
I was entering my third year of graduate studies in the Harvard Mathematics Department, in September 1959 when I met Martin, at a Boston gay bar. I was confused and uncertain about my gayness, and Martin helped me see myself clear, through the several months of our association. He was thoughtful and patient, opening my vision and giving me a hope that was well fulfilled.
I maintained contact with him over the years beyond the annual holiday card, and last saw him in Pasadena in, I guess, 2010, when he made a point to come to the annual party my husband and I give.
I have the warmest memories of him, filled with gratitude.
Barbara Solms Kurian
March 7, 2021
Martin brought his son to Philadelphia whenever Martin visited his mom. Martin and his son always made a point of stopping by to see my mom, Anne Solms. This visits she so enjoyed. Martin was proud of his son, and it showed in those visits. Martin stayed in touch with my mother even after he stopped coming to Philadelphia after his mom passed away. She lost touch with his son unfortunately.
My very belated condolences to Martin's son.
Barbara Solms Kurian
Barbara Kurian
September 13, 2020
I just learned about Martin's passing. He was my cousin. Martin was close eo my Mom, Anne Molish Solms of Philadelphia. Martin every since he left Philadelphia would always visit my mom whenever he returned. Though I was much younger, Martin and I developed a relationship as I was a student at Boston University. When Martin was at Harvard he would often take me to dinner, giving me support for my academic pursuits and just listening to whatever I had on my mind. I spent time with him in his office at Harvard. He was so gentle, inspiring and helpful with a couple my courses. My mom thought the world of him and his son. Sadly, after I married I lost touch with him. When mom died, I did call to tell him. The conversation was as if few never lost touch.
A great man in so many respects. I only met his son once and sadly l do not know how to reach him. If he reads this, I want him to know I am sorry for his loss.
My memories of Martin are dear to me
Barbara Solms Kurian
Pound Ridge, New York
Mack Carter
June 3, 2020
A most kind man, and a great soul. His story about his Harvard lab is one of my favorite memories. I was just thinking today how special knowing him makes looking at a favorite tree of mine. Thank you for your time Martin, and what you gave to others.
Marilyn Heller Perrin
April 22, 2020
April 22, 2020
I was Martin's last graduate student at Harvard from 1962-1972. Those dates tell a story about Martin's patient mentor-ship of me as I left Cambridge in 1964 to get married and then during the next 5 years to work at scientific journals and give birth to 2 sons. I eventually did receive my Ph.D. I am forever grateful to Martin for encouraging me and sticking with me all those years. During those years we published 3 well received paper in J. Chem. Phys. some of which are still cited today. I thank Martin for my career in Science as a Staff Scientist at the Salk Inatitute.
Martin was kind, gentle, patient, understanding and smart--all characteristics that one could wish for in a graduate advisor. He was always our friend--he visited us ~20 yrs ago to share our Rosh HaShanah dinner with us.
It brings much joy to my heart to know that Martin had a rich and rewarding life both in and out of science. His son and family can be proud and grateful to have had Martin as a parent.
zikhrono livrakha--May his life be for a blessing.
Marilyn Heller Perrin
Marilyn Heller Perrin
April 22, 2020
I was Martin's last Harvard graduate student from 1961-1972. That tells a great deal about Martin. Namely, he had infinite patience with me as I left Cambridge in 1964 to get married and in the following 7 years give birth to two sons, all the while "working" on my thesis. I did indeed finish it and received my Ph.D. for which I am forever grateful to Martin. We published three widely-cited papers together, some of which are still cited today.
He was kind and gentle and understanding and smart--all the characteristics one wishes in a thesis advisor. I can thank Martin for my career in science because if he had not encouraged me and stood by me, I would not have finished my degree which allowed me to become a Staff Scientist at the Salk Institute.
Martin was always our friend--he visited us about 20 yrs ago and shared our Rosh HaShanah dinner with my husband, Charles, and my mother.
It fills my heart with joy to know that Martin had a full and rewarding life both in and out of science. His son and family can be very proud of having him as a parent.
zikhrono livrakha--may his memory be for a blessing.
Marilyn Heller Perrin
April 12, 2020
When I entered the University of Washington as a PhD student (coming from Israel), Martin was one of the teachers I loved most. He was kind and extremely patient with his students. He was always available for anyone who wished to talk to him about science.
I learned from him stuff that became very practical for me and assisted me to finish my PhD and contribute some first rate papers. I mention this in my essays.
I felt genuine sorrow to hear about his passing away. I wish to add my condolences to his family.
Sason Shaik, Professor
The Hebrew University of Jerusalem
At 2004 Porphyrin Conference in New Orleans
Paul Smith
March 19, 2020
There are friends and there are mentors. Martin Gouterman was both for me. He provided guidance in turbulent times that had an indelible influence on my life. I am not alone, Martin touched many lives. Peace be with you my friend. Gone but never forgotten! Paul
March 15, 2020
Martin Gouterman was first cousins with my father Ralph Nesson (Ralph's mother and Martin's father were siblings) and they were very close. Martin was like an uncle to me. Martin visited our family in Arkansas when I was a child. Then later when I was a teenager, we went on a family trip to visit Martin in Seattle. I very much enjoyed Seattle, it made a big impression on me. After I'd graduated college and was working in Arkansas, I decided I needed to live somewhere else (in a city) and see more of the world. Marin generously allowed me to live in his Capitol Hill neighborhood condo with him until I secured gainful employment and my own apartment. I lived with Martin for about 2 months. He was kind and gentle and introduced me to his grad students who welcomed me into their circle of friends. I'll never forget Martin's generosity and kindness to me that allowed me to have the experience of moving to a big city and becoming a more independent adult. His intelligence, awareness of current events and politics, activism and kindness I will always remember with love and fondness. He was a wonderful human being and I am blessed to have had his influence in my life.
All my love Martin, may you rest in peace!
Love,
Chava Nesson Boyett
Robert Scheidt
March 14, 2020
I had a magical six months in Martin Gouterman's lab in 1980 as a visiting Professor. Amongst other activities, Martin and I wrote a review chapter that had a strong influence on my career. I will remmeber Martin with fondness and will miss him. Bob Scheidt
Martin and his cousin Ralph
Ben Nesson
March 14, 2020
Martin and his cousin Ralph.
Ben Nesson
March 14, 2020
March 14, 2020
Martin was a treasured uncle-cousin of mine. All of my life there was an unbreakable bond between Martin and my father Ralph. They loved each other dearly as friends and family. My father passed that love and pride of Martin along to me. So I will always remember Martin, and be impressed by him. Such a smart and kind person. Much love Ben
Fran Adar
March 14, 2020
Martin befriended me during his visits to Philadelphia to visit his mom. I met him while I was working at the Johnson Foundation/Biophysics Department at UPENN where he had professional contacts. I was studying the resonance Raman spectra of hemeproteins, trying to determine how the spectral behavior could be useful in elucidating biological function. He befriended me, taught me about the electronic spectra of metalloporphyrins, and encouraged me in my work during a rocky time of my early career. I kept in touch with him after leaving UPENN even though we were far apart. I will always remember his kindnesses with fondness.
Submitted by Nancy Cooper, Martin's recent BD parties
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
Submitted by Nancy Cooper, Martin's recent BD parties
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
Submitted by Nancy Cooper, Martin's recent BD parties
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
Submitted by Nancy Cooper
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
Submitted by Nancy Cooper
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
Martin's 86th BD party, submitted by Nancy Cooper
Nancy Cooper
March 14, 2020
March 13, 2020
I just added one of my favorite photos of Martin. He went to hear Ruby Bishop, an amazing jazz musician, almost every week while he was able. She came to Aegis to play in 2014. Martin knew all the songs and sang along, including his favorite, "Your Feet's Too Big." We had dinner afterward. This photo is of the two of them.
June BlueSpruce
March 13, 2020
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