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Norman D. "Mickey" McKay

Norman McKay Obituary

Norman "Mickey" D. McKAY Norman "Mickey" D. McKay, 68, passed away Feb. 20, 2003, peacefully at the home he designed and built in his beloved Belfair after a courageous battle with cancer. He reunites with his loving and devoted mother, Elenore A. McKay, his father, James C. McKay Jr., his sister, June McKay, and his three brothers, Melvin, James III and Robert. Mickey is survived by his lovely and loving sister, Lu Ortis, of Yuma, AZ., his four children that made him burst with love and pride; Susan A. Starr, of El Paso, TX., Cathy L. McKay, of Federal Way, Norman D. McKay Jr., of McChord AFB, WA., and David S. McKay, of Seattle WA. "Gramps" is also survived by 10 grand children and three great-grandchildren. "Uncle Mickey" will also be missed by his three nephews and two nieces. "Stormin' Norman" will be missed by his close Lynch Cove neighbors, whom were like family to him as he was known as the "neighborhood grandpa," as well as his fellow competitors in bowling centers from Bremerton to Seattle. Born the youngest of six children in Taylor, WA, on March 15, 1934, Mickey's family moved to the South Park area of South Seattle in Mickey's youth. He excelled in baseball at every level he played, thanks to the coaching and instruction of his brother, Jim. Mickey's fastball and knuckleball earned him top honors at Cleveland High School, where he graduated from in 1952. Also in high school, his talent in woodworking began to blossom. Many pieces of furniture he made in shop classes are still being used by family members today and will be handed down for generations to come. After high school, Norm served in the U.S.Army during the Korean War. After returning from the Army, he worked on the B-52s for Boeing. While at Boeing, he took night classes for cabinetmaking. Only after a few years at Boeing, Norm began his professional woodworking career and began working at Totem Lumber in Seattle and then at Ambaum Cabinets in Burien, where he would start a lifelong friendship with his "other brother" Dale Fehr. At the same time, Norm started his own cabinet shop -- Norm's Quality Cabinets out of his West Seattle home. After Ambaum, Norm was a woodworking instructor at the Seattle Opportunity Industrial Center. Norm moved to Belfair in 1975 and began working at the Puget Sound Naval Shipyard in the carpentry shop soon after. In 1978, Norm accepted a job supervising the carpentry shop at the Coast Guard Support Center in Downtown Seattle until he retired on April 1, 1996. Through the years, Norm made dozens of China cabinets, kitchen and bathroom cabinets for friends and relatives that were true works of art. In his magical hands, woodworking became an art form. Norm enjoyed Major League baseball in Seattle. In 1969, he was a proud member of the Ray Oyler Fan Club of the Seattle Pilots, attending dozens of games. In 1977, Norm, along with his mom, attended the very first Seattle Mariners baseball game in the Kingdome. After he retired, you could find him attending spring training in Arizona or riding the train to Minnesota where he loved to track down his family history. The McKay family would like to thank Linda and Kenni Solene and Pam Christophorson, for their love, tenderness and support in helping to take care of Norm in his final month at home. The McKay family would also like to thank Dr. Joe Johnson and Nurse Wynn Roth for their special care of Norm. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Providence Sound Home Care and Hospice, 2146 W Railroad Ave., Ste. C, Shelton, WA. 98584. Memorial Services and Graveside Services will be held Feb. 27 at 12:30 p.m. at BONNEY-WATSON Washington Memorial, 16445 International Blvd. So., SeaTac WA.

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Published by The Seattle Times on Feb. 23, 2003.

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Sponsored by Cathy Lee McKay "Martha", daughter of Norm McKay.

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February 21, 2013

MCKAY FAMILY

The loss of Pops remains heavy on my heart. I remember still the good old days and they are bittersweet...

Bud McKay

February 20, 2013

For you, Dad! Hard to believe it's been 10 years. Hope you're tapping your feet to this old song of ours. ;) Love you! Norman Jr.

Bryn Mckay

January 18, 2006

Miss you Gramps!

Delight Full Decor

October 3, 2005

Great site! Keep up the wonderful work.

Cathy (Martha) McKay

March 14, 2004

Happy 70th Birthday, Dad!



Well, I just got back home from sprucing up your turf with beautiful flowers, a long stemmed red rose and a Birthday Balloon!

(a day early I know...)



Company ready!

I hope you get a lot of visitors!



For those who don't get a chance to go up to visit with you, they can check out your Birthday goodies from your website: www.forheavensakesnorman.com. It's also on your other pages: www.powerprintimages.com/dad.htm and www.powerprintimages.com/dadsmarker.htm.



I think I've got you well covered!



I sure do miss you, Dad!



I love you very much,

Happy 70th Birthday,



Love Always,

Martha

Cathy (Martha) McKay

February 20, 2004

Well, Dad...

It's been one year since you passed away so peacefully in my arms.

It feels like just last night.



Since that time, I've been trying to find peace with it all...sometimes I write in my diary where I'm at or where I think I'm at in the grieving process and came across one of my most treasured gifts you gave me.



To learn.



It was like bells going off everywhere!!



What did I "learn" from my Dad?



Oh my Gosh! Instantly I felt relieved. You were so patent with me, respectful, firm when you needed to be and caring with such a warm heart.



I learned so much from you even when you weren’t trying to teach me something.



Thanks for everything, Dad.

I miss you dearly and enjoy bringing you fresh flowers and making your "turf" just a bit greener then the neighbors.



Thanks again, Dad

With All My Heart,

Martha



PS: Keep a watchful eye out for me, will you?

Gloria Isernio Sullivan

September 14, 2003

To the McKay Family,--I have never read such loving tributes to anyone. You were truly Blessed to have Mickey, and he, to have this magnificent family to love and honor him. I went to Cleveland with Mickey, Class of '51. I watched him play ball, and what a pitcher he was!!! Even then, he was a "gentle giant", in every sense of the word, - a true gentleman.

Visited with my cousin, Phil Isernio, today,(fellow South Park resident and Cleveland teammate, Class of '50), who told me of Mickey's passing, - sorry he learned too late to attend his funeral.

I am happy I attended and spoke with Mickey at his 50th reunion, last year (Class of '51 was invited). He looked so well and handsome (loved seeing Ellen Sims picture!), that it seems impossible he would be gone 6 months later.

My best to you in honoring Mickey, and keeping his memory alive.

Gloria Isernio Sullivan

Cathy McKay

June 16, 2003

Happy Father's Day, Dad!!



Well, I hope you like the new simplified marker I made for you today!

Looks very cool from here!

For those who would like to check it out, it's on Dad's website-here's a link to the marker page:



http://www.powerprintimages.com/dadsmarker.htm



I tell ya, it's been tough for weeks, listening to all the ways you can spoil your Dad for Father's Day.

It was pretty hard for me, let me tell ya.

I started to look at the cards in the store but quickly got my mind on other things I could do for you. Plus they were bumming me out.

Aunt Lu sent you a very nice Father's Day card...I read it to you already. Very thoughtful and sweet. She misses you too, very much Dad but we all know you're keeping an eye on us and feel really good about that.



I've been working my buns off in my garden finding new area's to plant more flowers so I can bring some up to share with you!

I'm sure you've got a better view from up above but it doesn't look too bad and I love the work out!



Well, I've got to close for now, Dad.

It's 11:30pm on Father's Day and I am worn out!!



I Love you and Miss you So Much!

Good Night, Dad...Sweet Dreams and I'll talk to you later,



Love Always,

Martha

Cathy Lee McKay

March 15, 2003

Happy Birthday, Dad!



What a lovely day, for you today!

I hope you like the flowers we brought for you! Colorful, vibrant...just like you!



I'm so glad I got your pillow made for you and comforting to know you'll have it with you forever!



I'm also really glad I got to teach you a thing or two on the "puter". You caught on REAL fast! I was impressed! ...and you kept wanting to learn more, especially with pictures! We both love pictures and love to reminisce about them and the stories that lead on.



I loved one of "our lesson sessions" ...I think it was Test #5, where you wanted me to come over and "show" you how to change the size of a "pic" and I told you, you were far more advanced than that and that I had all the confidence in the world you would be able to "do it yourself" and loved your response back: "Eureka! I did it, Marth!" You went to town on that one!



I think you "really" just wanted me to come and visit...:-)



My heart is always with you, Dad.

Forever, through eternity.



I felt bad that one day I came over and I was so tired and needed to get on the road a lot sooner than you wanted me to and you said: "but you haven't looked at my pictures yet?"...I felt so bad! They were so important to you and I let you share some with me...I really wanted to stay but you know once I get tired, I've got to get a move on.



I still feel bad about that because you always gave me "all the time in the world".



I love you very much and miss you being here with me but know you're watching over me and I have you right here close in my heart, as always.



Happy Birthday, Dad.

With All My Love, Forever and Always,



Martha



PS: for your B'day Dad, I made you a web page so we have a place to display our "pics", special events and things, featuring YOU!!



http://www.powerprintimages.com/dad.htm



enjoy!

3/15/03

Megan Leigh Fitzpatrick

March 13, 2003

Gramps,



Even after you’ve passed I still see you, at least I can still be here praying for you every step of the way, and every move that I make it will be one step closer to your heart.



You have been a great grandfather to me and to everyone in our family, and I just want you to know that you are the greatest grandfather that has ever lived!!!!



LOVE YOU “GRAMPS”

Love Always, Megan Leigh Fitzpatrick

Cheryl Kelleigh

February 26, 2003

My deepest sympathy to the McKay family on losing such a wonderful father/grandfather/uncle. May god be with you during this time of need.

Glynis Karen V. Perez

February 25, 2003

To the Family of Mr. Norman D.McKay:

His love to you is a quiet love, strong yet gentle....forever will stay in your heart.. May the memory of your DAD give you strength and courage and bring comfort too. My deepest sympathy. To Mr.Norms McKay, I never had the chance to say this, but "Thank you very much for your hospitality, I'll cherish that brief stay with your family". The Lord said "I am the WAY, the TRUTH and the LIFE, no one cometh unto the FATHER but by ME." I'm sure, you are with the LORD because you are a GOOD MAN.

Vernon Smith

February 25, 2003

The Smith family would like to extend our deepest sympathy to the McKay family. Bud keep your head up and remember that God always has a plan and that he is merciful.



Vern

class 1952 CHS

Ellen ( Sims) Wankowski

February 24, 2003

I am so sorry to learn of the death of your Father. We shared a lot of good times in the "good old days" at the South Park Field House.
I am so glad we got the chance to spend a little time with him at our class reunion.
I am sure he will be missed greatly.
My deepest sympathy to all of the family.
Ellen Sims Wankowski
Class of 1952

Ed Sparrowgrove

February 24, 2003

The best memories we have are of our childhood--innocent and funloving; we would live forever! We learned as we grew that nature takes it's course, jobs and family commitments took their toll on our innocence. Growing-up ment leaving the good times and our innocence behind.

For those of us "Blessed" by the memories of "Pop"; Mission Creek and Belfair--Those memories will keep us young forever. Thanks Pop for the memories--I miss you.

"Sparrow"

Susan Starr

February 23, 2003

Dear Dad,



For God so loved you that He gave His only begotten Son that if you should believe in Him, you would not perish, but have eternal life (my paraphrase John 3:16). I know you're playing ball with the Angels and rejoicing with the Lord. Thank you Sweet Jesus for loving my Dad and holding him in your blessed arms.



Love, Sue

Kenni S

February 23, 2003

I just wanted to say to Norms family that you were really very blesses to have Norman as your father, unlce, cousin, brother and grandfather.He was a great neighbor and friend to all of us around him."To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord",and we all know that's where Norm is now.

Norman D. McKay Jr.

February 23, 2003

Dadley,



I can never tell you how much I miss you already. I love you so much. I wish I can be the dad to my girls that you were to me.



I can't tell you how proud I am to be your son and to have your name. I hope I'll make you proud.



Give Grandma a great big hug for me!



I'm going to start celebrating your life, now...but don't give me "The Look" or shake your finger at me if I have a moment or two that the tears flow.



From the bottom, top and middle of my heart, I love you...and I always will.



Always your Little Buddy,



Norman Delano McKay, Jr.

For those of you who won't be able to attend Dad's Services, these are the photo's I picked for you all to have in fondest memories of my Dad. You probably will remember him most by: Norm, "Ajax", "Stormin' Norman", "Mickey", "Big Brother" and "Gramps"

Cathy McKay

February 23, 2003

To My Dad,
I am so proud of you, Dad and of all your accomplishments. Thank you, for your patients, kind-hearted manor, your encouragement, guidence and your friendship. You have such a loving heart and gentle spirit.
I am the luckiest girl in the whole wide world-for God to make sure you were in my arms to help you on your way to heaven, where you have eternal life.
Keep a watchful eye on me, will ya?!
I'll surely miss your phone calls to have me go out and look at the moon and singing to me: "the stars are out tonight...".and the 7am wake up calls to get you up because I was up and vise versa! Everytime I throw peanuts to the squirrels, I think of "Alvina"...your little squirrel in South Park, who took peanuts right out of your hand. Your love for "Rhoda"...I'm planning on continueing that garden we were a fixen' to do in the spring. Your tiger lilies from Grandma are much larger than mine...you've got the best garden soil and the rose bush is looking good and can't wait to smell the beautiful fragerance from the lovely pink blossoms every blooming season. I'll be sure to bring some up for you to enjoy.
Love you, Dad
Love, Forever and Always
Martha

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