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Peter Reilly STAPLETON Peter Reilly Stapleton passed away on February 2, 2010. Peter graduated from Sammamish High School in Bellevue and the University of Washington. He is survived by Claire Pastor MD, wife, Scarlett, daughter, Tom Stapleton, father, Kati Dunn, sister, brothers Matt Stapleton (Sheri Butler, Aaron and Abigail Stapleton) and Jim Stapleton (Sandi). He was preceded in death by his mother, Margaret L. Stapleton and sister, Molly Yamauchi (Rusty and Jon Yamauchi). A celebration of Pete's life will be held on Wednesday, February 10, at 4 pm at the Eagles Hall, 258 Central Way, Kirkland, WA. The family suggests donations in lieu of flowers to Old Dog Haven www.olddoghaven.org.

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Published by The Seattle Times from Feb. 7 to Feb. 8, 2010.

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Scarlett Stapleton (Daughter)

January 25, 2024

Elizabeth ~ H.

October 23, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Family

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

Peace.

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

Camp bike!

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

Farm Boss. Campfire tonight!

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

A place to stop. 7/09

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

July 2009, Mountain ride

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

Mark Pozorski

February 1, 2020

Pete: You are in my prayers each night...Never to be forgotten.

Shari Meaker (Lowe)

February 18, 2010

I just learned of Pete's passing today... We were acquaintances in high school, graduating together in '83 from Sammamish High School. While I am shocked and saddened to hear this news, I am equally shocked and saddened to know that we worked for the same company...the same office...CA in Bellevue, and I never knew it.

My heartfelt sympathies to Pete's wife and daughter, and of course to his entire family.

I am sorry to know I missed out on knowing him as an adult.

February 15, 2010

Tears fill my eyes (and my heart)....
"Peter" was beautiful soul whom this world is Less without him

Sara Seager

February 15, 2010

My heart goes out to Claire and the families. I met Pete and Claire briefly when they first looked at the house, when they walked down to ask about the neighborhood, and remember hoping they would be the ones to buy the house. Pete's energy and enthusiasm were like sunshine. We shared conversations about our various projects and what to do with all that dirt we both had excavated. I remember how thrilled he was about Scarlett. I, too, am saddened we will not know Pete and his family as neighbors. His loss has touched so many.

Denise Jungbluth

February 12, 2010

After reading so many wonderful comments about Pete, I am even more regretful for not having gotten to know him better in the short time he was my neighbor. I only met him briefly on a lovely fall afternoon while destroying and replanting my front lawn. Pete immediately offered the dirt he had been busy excavating from his own yard. I was impressed by his personable and easy nature and was truly glad to have such a nice family moving in down the street.

He beamed with excitement when talking about the pending arrival of their baby. We have a 10 month-old daughter and a 2 year-old son and I recall being thrilled to know another new family would soon be our friends. This seems to be a real missed opportunity for us and we are saddened by the loss, never having had the opportunity to connect with our new neighbors.

Patrice Fogg

February 12, 2010

Claire,
Please know that you and Scarlett are in my thoughts and prayers. Pete will be missed very much at CA.
I will always remember our last conversation (Monday, 2/1). He was beaming with pride getting me caught up to speed on Scarlett and how much he was enjoying being a dad.
He was a great person who will be missed by many.

February 12, 2010

Claire, my thoughts and prayers have been with you & Scarlett, we were all so saddened to hear of Pete's death. Love, Aunt Annie

David Hatchell

February 12, 2010

All
Pete was my peer at CA and I had the joy of sharing many fun times as we worked together over the past year, but also shared many common interests with drinking, good music and most especially being first time fathers of beautiful daughters. I will miss him always.
As we mentioned at the service, We have set up a fund for Scarletts education. If anybody is interested in contributing, please contact me at [email protected] and I can provide details.

Mark Tuschhoff

February 11, 2010

Matt, as an older brother that has had a younger brother pass away such as Pete we share a common bond. I also remember my brother and Pete sharing some time together before my brothers passing. I've known Pete since our days in High School and always admire him in how he applied himself with the tasks at hand. Matt may peace be with and your Family

Mark Tuschhoff

Ashlee McCusker

February 11, 2010

Claire - We just learned the news today and I am deeply sadden about his passing. Pete was the best SE I ever worked with and a great friend that was always there for advice, a laugh and a drink. I am soo glad that you entered his life and he was able to have time with the one thing he wanted most - Scarlett. He will be missed.

Ashlee & Sean McCusker

Jim Stapleton

February 11, 2010

Pete was my youger brother. Difficult to express in words the loss I and others have encountered. Thanks to all who attended the event on Wednesday evening, and the postings here.

Leo Whiteside

February 10, 2010

Pete my best friend since 7th grade. I have too many memories to mention "I'll miss him always".

Emily Fischer

February 10, 2010

I'm so sorry, Claire, to hear of Pete's death. I shared your big joy when you and Pete found each other. I hate that it lasted so short a time. I hold you sorrow close.

njr

February 10, 2010

From this moment forward, drinking a PBR or eating a corndog will never more be the same. These simple activities have now become a time of reverence and remembrance. These activities will now become spiritual, remembering the times spent with such a good man known as Pete.

Angeline Wightman

February 10, 2010

Oh, Claire ... My heart is breaking for you and little Scarlett. My love and prayers go out for you and your little one. May God wrap you in His Love and comfort. Know that there are so many people who love you so much. Don't be afraid to let them be there for you. Take all the time you need an be extra gentle with yourself. Pete would want that.

Julie Thomer

February 9, 2010

Sparkly blue eyes, hard working, perma-smile, hard playing and a "can-do" attitude. That's what made Pete Pete. I went to high school with him but didn't know him much then. Had the pleasure of getting to know him when we moved in across the street from his old family home here in Bellevue. Heard the stories of how he would sit on the curb waiting for his siblings to come home from school. I could just picture that!
I have great memories of camping and having "road pops" with Pete. I hope my 9 yo Pete grows up to have the great qualities that "big" Pete had.
My heart goes out to the family and friends of this great guy.

Mark Pizzitola

February 9, 2010

A message to Pete……..

Pete, you are the kindest, gentlest, most peaceful, and caring person I have ever known. Every time we talked, or were out having fun, or just hanging out together, I would leave our encounter a happier and more fulfilled person……just by being around you.

You have positively effected my life in more ways than I could ever describe. I’m a better person, a better father, a better son, and a better husband just for knowing you and for all the time we spent together……..Thank you for being my friend.

I know that you are in a peaceful place now, watching over all of us. I promise to be available to Claire and Scarlett for whatever I can do to help them, now and always.

I love you Pete and will never forget you.

Kelly Taylor

February 9, 2010

I had the gift of working with Pete in my earier years. He was a "Go To" Guy. When he gave his word....It was law! My deepest sympathy go out to ALL of his friends and Family. We will miss you Pete!

Tom Weinberg

February 9, 2010

Peter’s family’s house was always the “home base” for our neighborhood’s continuous and massive games of kick the can, and as kids we rode our bikes all around Wilburton and Fisher’s Farm (Kelsey Creek Park). I last saw him in 1993 at our 10 year high school reunion, and I have thought of our conversation often in the years since. He spoke movingly of how lucky we were to have had such a rich childhood, with so many fellow kids close to our age and in an era where our parents would let us play outside for hours at a time without much supervision. He was a fun-loving dude, a serious student, and a very smart and charismatic guy. I was lucky to know him, and I will really miss him. My condolences to his family and his friends, . . . this is so very sad.

Don Danks

February 9, 2010

I am saddened beyond words to have heard about Pete's passing. To this day there is no one I've even known who could brighten up a room more than Pete. I was lucky enough to work with him for quite a while and to watch him tackle problems and challenges with wit, charm and ingenuity. He was simply one of the people you were glad to know and count as a friend. My heart goes out to his family for their loss.

Cynthia Trabold

February 8, 2010

I was so lucky to be in the Class of 83' with Pete..we had a blast..I will remember him forever as a warm,kind, caring soul with those sparkly eyes..that would light up your day just by passing him in the hallways of Sammamish High..a "Hello" and a smile from Pete..you knew you had a friend...We'll miss you Peter..You are Loved...

King of the Mountain

February 8, 2010

February 8, 2010

I am so sorry to hear about Pete. I didn't know him well as an adult but I do have memories of when we were all kids hanging out and having lots of fun. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Kathy Stapleton Strong

Ted Radke

February 8, 2010

Peter was a close friend of mine for 31 years; we shared countless laughs, experiences and adventures together. A remarkably intelligent, circumspect, and resourceful person, he lived his life with uncommon purpose and passion. He addressed new challenges with vigor and determination. His untimely passing has left an enormous hole in my heart. It was a true honor to be Peter's friend, and I will remember and miss him forever.

Martin Sanelli

February 8, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

July 2009, Pete & Suzi. Inseparable.

Mark Pozorski

February 8, 2010

As a man of many words, I find such anquish is not knowing what to say, not knowing what to do, and not knowing where to go to make sense of such a terrible loss. Like many, the reference "little brother " rings so true, especially because I had opportunity to choose him as mine. To hear of so many feeling the same way only confirms the purity of what Pete offered. As a friend of mine for the past 20 years, with so much in common, especially motorcycles and outdoor activities, the void created will never be filled, nor will I seek a replacement, for Pete has none. I love, I hurt, I cry, and he knows that we all do. Thank you for making me a better me.

Cindy Ainsley

February 8, 2010

Though I didn't know Pete, I know, admire and respect Claire. She shares her love and exuberance for life with others, and she spoke with love and gentle kindness of Pete.
He will be missed in her and Scarlett's life but leaves a legacy and memories.

Paul Flach

February 8, 2010

Pete and I worked together on and off for many years. Even though there was a great distance between us, we kept in regular contact via phone and email and shared a lot. I consider him as one of my closest friends. I miss you Pete.

Paul Flach

Sheila Lee

February 8, 2010

Pete was a wonderful man - hard working, caring, generous and kind. He will be terribly missed by his wife, daughter, father, sister, brothers and so many friends. Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers.

Sheila Lee

Kathleen Lee Castelda

February 7, 2010

Pete was an amazing person. Loving son, father, brother and great friend. He always took care in others and his family. He will be forever remembered in all of our hearts.

Kathleen Lee Castelda

Pete at Lincoln City Oregon visting Grandma Alice

February 7, 2010

Kati Dunn

February 7, 2010

Peter was my little brother. He was everything a person would like to be as a son, brother, friend, husband and father. We will always keep him in our hearts. We love you Pete.

Matt Stapleton

February 7, 2010

Pete was my little brother. Smart, witty and caring, he was an amazing brother and a great friend to a long list of people. I still can't believe he is gone, I will forever have a hole in my heart. I love you Pete.

Matt Stapleton

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