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Phillip Dean HARDWICK On November 10, 2008 we said goodbye to Phillip Dean Hardwick. He was born on May 6th 1980 as the middle child and only son of William and Pennie Hardwick. As a young boy, he was fearless and rambunctious, always quick to climb to the highest point of the playground. He was a natural athlete and grew up skiing and snowboarding and playing baseball, soccer and basketball. When he wasn't amazing us with his agility on the field or court, Phil found solace in strumming his guitar and listening to a variety of music. He had the uncanny ability to listen to a song for the first time and play it back perfectly. Phil attended Our Lady of the Lake School and Bishop Blanchet High School, where his sense of humor and compassion for others attracted a number of friends. Later in life, he developed aspirations to continue the family's hardware business as a fourth generation owner. Customers appreciated his sincerity and willingness to help solve their problems. When he was not working, he enjoyed spending time with his friends and family, watching movies and spinning records. While his life was short, it was passionate and full. We will miss his big heart, quick wit and infectious laughter. We feel lucky to have had him for 28 years. We loved him dearly. Phillip is survived by his grandfather and namesake Phillip F. Smith, his parents William and Pennie, his sisters Amber and Maribeth, his brother-in-law Edde Kanai, his extended family of many aunts, uncles, and cousins, and his cat Schnookie. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 2:00 p.m. Saturday, November 15th at Our Lady of the Lake Church, 3520 NE 89th St., Seattle, WA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Salvation Army Adult Rehabilitation Center, 1000 4th Ave. S., Seattle, WA 98134. Please sign the online guestbook at www.legacy.com Hoffner Fisher & Harvey

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Published by The Seattle Times from Nov. 14 to Nov. 16, 2008.

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Gaile Gamble

November 24, 2008

To the Hardwick family,

My co-worker and I frequently walk to the hardware during the noon hour and today we were shocked and saddened to learn that we will no longer be greeted by Phillip's kind and helpful presence.

My condolences go out to all of the family at this time of sorrow with the loss of such a very special young man.

Brianna Gallagher

November 23, 2008

Dear Maribeth, Amber, Edde, Mr. and Mrs. Hardwick

I was sad to hear of Phillip's passing a few days ago. I'm sorry that I couldn't attend the funeral. I'll always remember his great sense of humor, how caring he was, and all the fun times. We all miss him greatly.

Dirk Mulhair

November 19, 2008

Hardwick family, sorry for your loss. It was an absolute shock. Phil always had a welcome smile on when i'd frequent the shop. I'll miss his speed and humor amidst all the old guys.
Dirk Mulhair - U-district landlord.

Conor Heathcote

November 19, 2008

Dear, Hardwick Family
Although it had been a few years since I'd seen Phil, I have very happy memories of him. He was a closer friend to my sister, yet I felt just as much a friend to him. I feel very fortunate to have had many years of getting to know who he was. Phil was fun, thoughtful, and humble whether it be towards me or others. My heart goes out to you for this tremendously difficult time you face.

Sincerely,
Conor Heathcote

Linda Reiter

November 18, 2008

Bill, Pennie, Amber, Maribeth,
I read with great sadness the loss of Phillip. Please accept my sincere sympathies. Although it has been a few years since we have been in touch personally, I do remember all the fun times we had when our children were little. Both Joel and Laura also send their sympathies.
God bless and keep you all.

Dawn Clyde

November 18, 2008

Aloha Amber, Edde and the Hardwick family,
You are in our thoughts. So sorry to hear about your loss.

Ted Strock

November 18, 2008

During this time of mourning, I would like to express my sincere condolence at the sudden loss of your loved one. May you find comfort in persistent prayers, as “the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your heart and your mental powers.” [Phil. 4:7] I certainly hope that the help God can give at this time will make a difference in your recovery to continue without your loved one.

Brenda Tomtan

November 17, 2008

Dear Hardwick Family,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope that all the wonderful memories bring healing. I have great memories of babysitting Phillip and Amber...all of their great energy and spirit. Phillip especially loved beating me at every Nintendo game and convincing me to read him just one more bedtime book from his fantastic Berenstain Bears collection. I also enjoyed watching him grow up in the neighborhood into an young adult. Phillip will truly be missed and I wish you all peace.
Sincerely,

Gary Hopkins

November 17, 2008

To Bill Hardwick and Family, Although I am just a customer and did not have the opportunity to meet your son Phillip, I'm sure he shared many of your qualities and the world is a poorer place for his passing. God Bless you and your family in this difficult time.....

Lonnie Anderson

November 16, 2008

I'm so sadden to hear of the lost of Phillip. I got to know him quite well during highschool. But I know everyone remembers his amazing sense of humor and love for music. I wish all the best for the Family. Take care

Alexandra (Allen) O'Dell

November 16, 2008

To The Hardwick Family,

I cannot think of a more wonderful person than Phil. He made my Blanchet days memorable and I was always happy to see him around the neighborhood. He was a true blessing to everyone who knew him and he will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.

Amber Shearer

November 16, 2008

Dear Hardwick Family
I have so many wonderful things to say about Phillip. My heart literally hurts as I know yours does too. He would always call me ex-hun, and to this day it makes me smile from ear to ear. He always made me laugh, and always cared. He never missed one of my birthdays! He was such a kind, beautiful, loving, gifted, one of a kind person that I feel blessed to have even known him. Thank you to your whole family as Phil loved all of you deeply.

Gary and Marcela Carson

November 15, 2008

Dear Hardwick Family,
As parent's of one of Phil's friends, Gary.We are grief stricken over the untimely loss of Phil. He was a true friend to our son. We attended the funeral mass and by the amount of people that were there, he was very much loved by everyone.
The world is a sadder place without him.
Our prayers are with you,

Marty Frank

November 15, 2008

To the family of Phil Hardiwck,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I was glad to have known Phil and I will miss him.

Nikki Jose Furuc

November 15, 2008

You and your family will be in my prayers. Your laughter will truly be missed. I'll see you laughing again one day...

Andrew Farhat

November 15, 2008

I am Phil's friend from high school and Phil will definitely be missed. The last time I came to Seattle in August he made sure to hit a number of jump shots on the basketball court right in my face! My prayers go out to Christ for the Hardwick family.

Ryan Cadden

November 15, 2008

Bill, Pennie, Amber, and Maribeth,

I am very sad and sorry for your loss. Phillip will always hold a very special place in my heart. From fishing and camping to storming the sand dunes at Cannon beach, we always had a great time together. I am very fortunate to have had Phillip as a friend and extended member of my family. My memories of him will live on forever. Please know that my family's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tim and Jan O'Neill

November 15, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers as we share your grief.

Emily Cicconi

November 15, 2008

Dear Bill, Pennie, Amber, and MB,

I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved Phillip. He was such an amazing and admirable friend. He was a genuine friend, that I would call ‘Brother’. He always knew how to comfort with all the right words, he told the best jokes (by far and never malicious), his laugh was infectious, and most importantly he was always honest and loving. Things will never be the same without sweet Phil. Thank you for sharing your son and brother with me. Thinking of you with most heartfelt sympathy.

DMA&K Zwiebel

November 14, 2008

We were so saddened by the news of PHILLIP'S passing. We remember him as a little one, Amber's baby brother. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Merry and Larry Erskine

November 14, 2008

Bill, Pennie, Amber, and Maribeth,
Sweet, funny, cute, lovable Philip will be greatly missed! Our prayers have been, and will contiune to be with you all. Love, Merry and Larry

Joanne Estacio-Deckard, MSW

November 14, 2008

To the Hardwick Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences on your terrible loss. I first met Phil back in the "Jamie days" and like everyone else, found him to be warm, thoughtful and engaging with each individual he came into contact with. Over these past years, we would often chat while getting coffee, or when we would see each other on the street. Phil always made me smile, and usually made me laugh, even when I felt stressed and preoccupied. There is an empty space now in the coffee line, and I will miss him very much. I hope it comforts you to know that Phil brought much happiness to others. He was a gift and I thank you for sharing him with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kris & Louise Daniels

November 14, 2008

Amber and Hardwick Family --- Our thoughts are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.

Joan Niggemeyer

November 14, 2008

Dear Hardwick Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. It was such a privilege to have taught Phillip during his 3rd grade year at O.L.L. I remember his big smile, and his enthusiasm for learning. I will always remember him. Phillip and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie (Zarek) Williams

November 14, 2008

Hardwick Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Phil was a great person with a huge heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brian and Stephanie Williams

Dave Raymond

November 14, 2008

I was shocked and saddened by this news. I grew up with Phil from Sunday School to High School. Though we had drifted in recent years, I can still remember his kindness and sense of humor.

My thoughts and prayers go with his family. I miss you buddy.

November 14, 2008

Bill, Pennie, Amber and Maribeth:

I was so heartbroken to hear of Phil's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Phil's life touched so many in a positive way, and we are all better for having known him. He will live on in your hearts and memories forever. Rest in Peace, buddy.

Dave Manahan

November 14, 2008

I too feel fortunate to have known Phil. Always polite, cordial and never a stranger around our household. Our family is just one of many that he has touched. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Alison Lyons-Houlihan

November 14, 2008

Phil had the most joyous face when he laughed. I will forever remember getting to have those moments together in hopes to pass on his good spirit!

Webster Crowell

November 14, 2008

To the Hardwick family,
I came by the store this afternoon and heard the sad news. I'm only a customer, but Phillip has helped me out many times, he was amiable and positive every time, someone I was always happy to see on my errands. I'm sorry he's not with us any longer, my prayers are with you.

Lincoln & Leina Manahan

November 14, 2008

Bill, Pennie, Amber, & M.B.,
Thank you so much for sharing Phil with us. I will miss his weekly comedic phone calls and of course his laugh. He was a great man and our lives wont be the same without him. We miss him dearly.

Braun Ohana

November 14, 2008

Harwick Family: With deepest sympathy we offer this prayer,
God of all consolation,in your unending love and mercy for us, you turn the darkness of death into the dawn of new life. Show compassion to your people in sorrow. Be our refuge and our strength to lift us from the darkness of this grief to peace and joy in your presence. Sending our warmest ALOHA.

Deanna Hill

November 14, 2008

Dear Pennie, Bill, Amber and Maribeth,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Phillip well from our OLL days. Back then our little brothers were pretty good at pestering us big sisters but it was always in good fun. I remember him as a great kid and feel lucky to have grown up with him. Always a smile and lots of energy and fun. He will be missed greatly. Sending you my love and all my best.

Melissa Marriott

November 14, 2008

All my best to the Hardwick family. I was shocked and saddened to hear the news of Phil's passing. I have fond memories of us as kids making loud noises with instruments and trying to pass it off for music. He was always the superior musician, one of a kind and is greatly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Marshal Stapp

November 14, 2008

Dear Bill, Dean & Family, I'm truly saddened by your loss. As one of your family's customers I have many fond memories of Phillip. I remember him as being very adept at continuing the family tradition of good service with a smile. I will miss him when I visit the store.

Gretchen McNew

November 14, 2008

Hardwick Family-
We are so blessed to have been able to spend this last summer with Phil. Phil was a great friend to us both and we will miss him so much.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Gretchen McNew & Kerry Wake

jeff svoboda

November 14, 2008

to bill and family really sorry for your lose phil was a good kid and very helpful in finding everything i needed for my bldg at the roosevelt and always greeted me with a hi or whatsup.he was for the 2 years i"ve known him pretty cool kahuna,store won"t be the same with out him.

Suzie Swink

November 14, 2008

Dear Bill, Pennie, and the Hardwick Family,

I am so sad to learn of Philip's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting him at Hardwick's several months ago as I was on an elusive search that only Hardwick's could solve. I introduced myself from the 'old Durn Good Days'- he seemed to know and remember that time in our lives. He was gracious, helpful and had the Hardwick charm! I'm so very sorry for your loss. May your memories sustain you.
With Love to each of you. Suzie

Jessica McNulty-Duncan

November 14, 2008

Dear Amber and Family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. May you be comforted by the thought that he is in a happier place and will be watching and taking care of you all.

Jessica McNulty-Duncan

Jeri Allen

November 14, 2008

Hardwick Family- I've thought of you all often this past week, and hope that in some small way you all could feel the love and support you have from all the people who have been sending prayers and warm thoughts your way. I'm very sorry for your loss of a beloved family member.

Kathy Blackman

November 14, 2008

Dear Bill, Pennie, Amber, and Maribeth:

We were so sorry to learn of Phillip's passing, and remember him well from when we all lived on the same street. Charlie, the kids and I are holding you in our hearts and prayers.

Jenny & Eddie Juarez

November 14, 2008

Dear Pennie and Bill and family, we are so sorry for your loss and we are truly grateful for our visit with Phillip in September. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Love Ed and Jenny

Shawn & Laurie Haar

November 14, 2008

Aloha Hardwick Family.
We are saddened by your loss, and send much love your way. Our hearts are with you.
Me ke aloha menemene Me ka pule.
(With Sympathy and in Prayer)
Shawn & Laurie Haar

Elaine & Said Asaidali

November 13, 2008

Pennie, Bill, Amber & Maribeth, you have our deepest sympathy. Our hearts go out to you and all the Hardwick family. We think of you often and send you our love and prayers.

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