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Tama Tokuda Obituary

Tama Tokuda

Tama Tokuda passed away on August 31 after a long battle with Alzheimer's. She died seven weeks after losing her son, Kip Tokuda, who suffered a heart attack on July 13.

In her lifetime, she raised five children, helped her husband run the iconic Tokuda Drugs, and later in life blossomed into a performer and writer, well known in the Asian American community.

Tama Tokuda was born at home in the summer of 1920, in a wooden house her parents rented on Yesler Avenue, not far from Nikkei Manor in the International District where she spent her last years.

Growing up, she went to Japanese Language School and then to Japanese dance classes every day after school. She performed often at the old "Nippon Kan" Theatre in the International District, sometimes in kimono sewn by her mother and hand-painted by other Issei. Throughout her life, she carried both the grace of dance and her love of literature, which forms the basis of classical Japanese dance.

She was in her senior year at the U.W. majoring in Literature, when the war broke out. She met her husband George Tokuda in the Minidoka Internment Center, where her first son Floyd, was born.

After the war, she devoted herself to raising five children, one of them developmentally disabled, and helping out at the drugstore. But after the kids grew up and her husband passed away in 1985, she began to blossom as her own person. She began to write more and became active in the Asian American community. She ushered at the Northwest Asian American Theatre (NWAAT), became a docent at the Wing Luke Asian Museum and began to talk openly about the internment. She surprised her friends and family when she took the lead role in the Phillip Gotanda play, "The Wash." She was in several plays at NWAAT, but "The Wash" was her favorite.

Her writing and speaking had a timeless, sage quality that allowed her to bridge generations. She was remarkably contemporary even in her later years but could also talk about the old Japantown of the 20's, and the internment. She was an unusual and gifted storyteller.

She is survived by her children Floyd Tokuda, Valerie Tokuda Chin, and daughter-in-law Barb Lui of Seattle; Wendy Tokuda of Oakland, California and Marilyn Tokuda of Los Angeles; and six grandchildren.

A memorial will be held at 3:00 p.m., Saturday, September 21, 2013, at Japanese Presbyterian Church, 1801-24th Avenue South.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be sent to Nikkei Concerns or United Friends Group Homes which benefits the developmentally disabled.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Seattle Times on Sep. 15, 2013.

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Walt & Norma Oyloe

September 24, 2013

One of George Tokuda's famous statements was, "If you can count your true friends on one hand, you were a lucky person." Tama was my true friend. Norma and I met with Tama and had numerous lunches when we were in town. We always had a great time when we were together. When George was alive, she had a full time job keeping George and I in line. It's hard to lose a true friend.

Karen Jamieson

September 20, 2013

I cherished the son, Kip, you raised. Such a beautiful job you and George did.

Dianne Fukami

September 20, 2013

Tama Tokuda had a timeless grace and beauty about her that came from within. When my eldest daughter was born, she sent a collection of classic children's books that included "Goodnight Moon" and "Make Way for Ducklings," a gift that in her own thoughtful way reflected the timelessness and appreciation of the classics. It was an honor and privilege to have known such a lady.

Mary Oyloe-Fenner

September 17, 2013

I was a young girl when I first met Tama and her family. Our family's did many things together. I remember she was always smiling, very kind and gracious. She introduced me to many fabulous Japanese dinners at her home. which gave me the desire to take cooking classes on how to prepare 'Japanese' food. Tama and her husband gave me a beautiful tea set when I graduated from high school. She will always hold a special place in my heart with lots of fond memories. My thoughts and prayers to all of her family.

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