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Daly City, California

Andee Rubi Obituary

Andee Robert Rubi

June 20, 1951-May 31, 2013

Andee was a 32nd Degree Mason, a retired member of Sheet Metal Union Local 104, a devoted and loving husband, father and grandfather, brother and friend. After a courageous battle with cancer, he passed peacefully while at home with his family by his side. Andee was born in Japan to parents John F. and Masa Rubi, and is survived by his siblings Christine, Charlie and Bobbi. Andee is survived by his loving wife Sherrie Rubi, married October 25th, 1981 and by his loving daughters Sheena (Christopher), Mariko, and Theresa. Andee is survived by his grandchildren Magnolia, Mariana, Gabriel, Timothy, Natasha and Samuel. Andee was predeceased by his mother, Masa Rubi and his father , John F. Rubi. Friends and family may visit on Friday from 5-9pm and are invited to attend the Vigil Service at 7:30pm at DUGGAN'S SERRA MORTUARY 500 Westlake Avenue Daly City. The Funeral Service will be celebrated on Saturday at 12:00 noon at Holy Child-St Martin's Episcopal Church, 777 Southgate Avenue Daly City. Burial to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, Colma.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jun. 1 to Jun. 2, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
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40 Entries

July 6, 2013

This is difficult for me as I hold back my tears. I miss you my brother. I have so many fond memories of you and all of us growing up. You,Charlie, Bobbi and Me. The difficulties we faced but always managing to overcome them. We are always there for each other, even when we would be in disagreement. We never knew the meaning of turning one's back on family or friends. You are a wonderful brother,husband and father, always giving with little questioning. You are one of a few rare persons with a great heart. Unselfish, honest, humorous, caring, strong and true. Your talents and gifts are endless as your Love for family and friends which we all cherish and admire. Be at peace my brother and watch over us. I love you always, your sister.
Christine

Sheena Rubi-Officer

July 1, 2013

Dad, I love you. You were a wonderful Dad; always putting us first. But you did it right because you put your marriage even farther ahead. When I think of you I think of someone who served his family (a lot like Grandpa John); you always filled up the cars, made sure you were up when Sherrie got up for work late at night, you drove us kids everywhere, you did the cooking for awhile; pork adobe, hamburger and rice, beans and rice, rice and rice. Those were your signature dishes. You loved chocolate chip cookies and everytime I crave one I think of you. You were often silly; making us girls giggle so hard. I even remember some times I was a smartmouth kid and you had to correct me; I know now what you meant and im sorry I gave you such grief. You loved Disneyland and wanted to take your grandkids but I kept having babies and there was always someone too little to go;-) one day we'll go and I will think of you the whole time we're laughing and and having fun. I miss you. You always came barring gifts for the kids you collected the whole time we were apart which let us know we were always in your thoughts.some things I will never look at the same again: Santana, aloha shirts, conga dums, kengal hats (sp), pocketknives and lighters;-), electric fly swatters, my own kids and husband. Now I will keep missing you but I will remember to drink my milk and plenty of water, wear sunscreen, check the oil in my car, and grab ahold of life and SQUEEZE it just like you told me. I love you Dad.

Robert Cordero Sr

June 17, 2013

Sherrie sorry for your loss.Andeewill definitelybe missed,everytime i saw Andee he always had a smile on his face. I wished thati could have spent more time with him.. last time i saw him was at Dee Dee's birthday party. Gave him a hug and a kiss on his cheek, he came backk with that big smile on his face. Watching his video and listening to his voice a very emotional to watch thak you for sharing this

June 11, 2013

Keaka Loo

June 11, 2013

Andee was the ideal father and husband. The kind of man that made other wives and children envious of Sherrie and the girls. His love was unconditional and all he ever wanted for everyone was the best. If you needed help, he was there. If you were troubled, he'd advise. If you were in pain, he'd care for you. If you were sad, he'd comfort you. If you needed a laugh, he'd make you roll on the floor till tears shined on your cheeks. He was just there...a rock that we all knew we could count on for anything.

I remember when PacBell park was being built. Andee had an idea...we grabbed a couple hard hats from Lester and walked into the park about a month before it ever opened. The grass had just been laid and the bases were not even there yet. We have three hours of video, walking around together through the entire park, checking it all out. It is a memory of just the two of us that I'll always cherish.

People like to joke around about how much I'm like Andee, calling me "Andee Jr" or "Mini-Andee", or when people would mistake us for brothers. I consider that an honor and hope that I can be half the father, husband and friend that Andee was. He is my roll model and the impossible standard I could ever hope to work toward. When I'm troubled or confused or just not sure how to carry myself in life, Lester said it best. I'll just ask myself, "What would Andee do?".

Always in our hearts, Andee. Give Daisy a kiss for me. Love you.

June 10, 2013

June 9, 2013

Lester Avela

June 9, 2013

Thank you Mr. Rubi

Pete Elliot

June 8, 2013

As a kid I really loved visiting My Uncle John and spending time with my cousins. And my cousin Andee was someone that always I looked up to. And it didn't take me very long to realize that Andee would be one of the "good ones" that had crossed my path in my life's journey. Through the years whenever I thought of Andee it is always with the fondest of memories. Today I am sadden to hear of his passing but I also feel blessed to have known him. My thoughts and prayers go out to Andee's family as they gather together in their shared love and admiration to say good bye. Rest well dear cousin.

Scot Rutherford

June 8, 2013

It took a special man to leave such a positive impact on so many lives. I only wish I had lived closer to enjoy the man who made Sherrie such a happy woman. The first word that pops into my head when I think of Andee is respect followed closely by kind. The world is a better place for having you in it and will seem smaller and dimmer for your passing.

Margie Burke

June 7, 2013

Will miss our friend, great husband/dad, artist, musician, very fine person..and level. Remembering all good times - especially Rainbow Camp!..The Burke Family

Bonnie Jain

June 7, 2013

Love goes to his family and the entire San Francisco Rainbow Assembly. Andee was the true Mason, extending his had to all. Love you all,
Bonnie Jain & Family

Sara Foss

June 7, 2013

Uncle Andee,
My husband would not be half the man he is today without your influence and uncondiitional love. Your commitment to your family and your beautiful marriage are examples of how to really live a truly fufilled life. You will continue to live on as a role model for the next generation of this family. We are so happy & blessed that we will always have a little piece of you in our Rubi Marie. We love you.

Mary Gomes

June 6, 2013

Andee's kindness and love for his family and friends will always be remembered. He was a special man with a heart of gold who knew what was important in life. He will be missed

June 6, 2013

we are all thinking of your family and sending our prayers. the Hoeg family

June 5, 2013

Penny, Shannen, Samantha

June 5, 2013

Dear Andee, I know you are with us in spirit; I know you are watching over us. I just want you to know that Shannen, Samantha and I will miss you terribly. I always wished that the three of us could have spent more time with you and Sherrie --- after all, remember, Sherrie and I were "the very best friends in the whole wide world"! Never have we met anyone who was so kind and generous, not only in your words but also in your deeds. I don't think I ever heard you say a bad word about anyone. The word "inspiration" doesn't do you justice -- you were the epitome of what a true gentleman should be. May you always rest comfortably in the palm of God's hands and know that here on Earth you leave behind so many who loved and adored you. With heavy hearts, Penny, Shannen and Samantha

June 5, 2013

You were my brother for it seemed like a short time. Like John (your dad) always said "the only steps in this family are the ones that lead up to the front door". Thanks for being my big brother, if only for awhile. My love goes to your/ our family.

June 5, 2013

Dear Sheree and family, I'm so sorry for your loss of Andee.. He was a good guy and easy to talk with.. I haven't seen you both in a very long time, I used to see Andee if he needed babysitting for Sheena, many years ago.. My Sincere Condolences, Andee's cousin JoAnn Cooley.

Debbie Dominguez- Corral

June 5, 2013

So sorry to hear the news. Sad for us cuz we'll miss you. There's comfort in knowing you're with John and your mom. God bless .

Evlyn Remley

June 5, 2013

They say you never know what you had until it was gone. I was never sure that was true until this happened. In the last few days, memories of Uncle Andee have come flooding back. His smiling face at family affairs is quite the recurring one. Only now do I see that it's not just a memory; he's using all these images to tell me, and anyone else close to him that he's happy now, and the pain is gone. Even in passing he still thinks of his family, gives them all the comfort he can. I love you, Uncle Andee.

Shannon Murphy

June 5, 2013

I never did see a happier couple than Andee and Sherrie and she will be one of my best friends forever. These two have daughters with such deep respect for the man they called their dad. We are all so lucky that they shared him with the rest of our community and I will always appreciate that. Make some art with those clouds, Andee - I will think of you often and I promise to keep the values I learned from you as a parent and community advocate close to my heart and evident in my actions.

June 5, 2013

Andee, From the moment my Daughter, Chelsea met you and your beautiful family, she called you her own. Then when I met you, I knew why. I never saw you without a smile. You were the most honest. loving and kind soul anyone could ever know. You beautiful legacy will live on in your Wife and Daughters because you taught them to love well. Thank you for being the person your are. You will be forever missed. Angie Eckart

Robert Remley

June 5, 2013

When someone we love dies, it seems as if time stands still. And silence... a quiet sadness... often can be felt, not just heard, a longing for one more day... one more word... one more touch... And we may not understand why God chose to have him leave this earth so soon, or why he had to leave before we were ready to say goodbye, but little by little, we will begin to remember not just that he died, but that he lived. And that his life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. We will see him again someday, in a heavenly place where there is no parting. A place where there are no words that mean goodbye."
Can't wait to see you again rube,i would say rest in peace but something tells me your not resting but that your flying free.

Kristie Bianchi

June 5, 2013

Dearest Andee; though you were not my biological father you certainly set the standard for being an excellent father! I have such fond memories of masonic halls, homes, & cars filled with the sound of loud whiny adolescent girls, & you the calm solid, & helpful port in the storm. No matter how hyped everyone else got you had an unfailing smile and a kind word for each person. Thank you Andee, for everything. You leave a legacy of love and inspiration behind you. with a grateful heart and proud memories I bid you adieu, until I have the pleasure of seeing you again. #NamMyoHoRengeKyo

Theresa Rubi

June 5, 2013

Daddy. I love you. No one could ever replace you in our lives or in our hearts. Your spirit, your continuing fighting spirit is what has pushed us through a lot of hard times and it continues to push us now. We can still feel your presence and we all know that you are watching over us.

Mariko Rubi

June 4, 2013

Papa, you and mom were the definition of love and marriage. It wasn't always good times. It was hard. It was work. You were never afraid of hard work. You loved your family so well and so completely that you made it look easy. You even adopted all of our friends, taking in people whenever they needed a place to stay. You fought for so long for your family. You held on for us. We know that. It took a tremendous amount of courage to let go. It showed your faith in us. That you had taught us to take care of one another. And you did. We miss you so much but we know that now you are free to be with us again in spirit. That now you can laugh again. That is why we will be okay. Because somewhere, you are laughing at our terrible jokes, watching your grandkids grow like weeds, and joining in on every hug. I cry because I miss you. I smile because I know you're smiling back. I love you papa.

Jim Elliot

June 3, 2013

Cousin Andee and Charlie used to trade comic books with my brother Pete and me. He was a generous man with a great and sense of humor. He was a terrific and talented artist, too. Andee will be missed.

Valarie Remley

June 3, 2013

You brought a smile and warmed the hearts of so many. I feel so very blessed that you were a part of our family. I have always felt that you and Sherrie have embodied that loving spirit that our grandparents had for one another, a love eternal. Thank you for being an incredible example for my children and yes, even myself. I will hold you in my heart forever and always.

Ruthe (Beasley) Miller

June 3, 2013

Glad that I was blessed to be introduced to you as a child ;) I hope you and Lucky get a chance to hug while your watching over all of us from the clouds in heaven!

Cris Gomez

June 3, 2013

Sorry to see you go cuz !
I still remember when We went to kindergarten school together .
R.I.P.

Always a proud family man!!

Stephanie Livermore

June 3, 2013

It is so very hard to explain all the wonderful things that you have meant to me. You were more than just my sister's husband, you were my brother, when needed my second father, my friend, and most importantly my inspiration. You showed me what a loving man can and should be. You were the strong loving man our family needed, and you took the role with pride and honor. Always doing what needed to be done with a firm, yet loving and easy going hand. You taught me to always look for the funny side of life, even in the hardest of times. I can still hear your voice and see your smiles in my mind. I love you dear brother, you will be dearly missed!!

Ernie Foss

June 2, 2013

Andee, You will always be a part of my life's memories. You and your wife and family have been such a part of not only your own families lives, but the children that Valarie and I brought into the world. Always there for my brother and I know others as well. My heart goes out to all in the family who will no longer have the pleasure of being with you on this side. But we all know that your happy now and still with all of us inside for the rest of our lives. When my time comes, you better believe I am asking, as to your whereabouts. Rest In Peace brother.

My Uncle and his namesake My Daughter Rubi

Erik Foss

June 2, 2013

My dearest uncle... You know what you meant to me . You know I appreciated every word you said to me. I promise to always try my best and strive to be half the man you were. Rest In Peace uncle.

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