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Ann Carr

Ann Ballantine Carr, October 1, 1953 to August 8, 2013


An incredible wife, mother, daughter and friend. She lived a life filled with many passions.


Her first passion was her family. She leaves behind her husband Steve Hyman, who she often referred to as her "rock" and their son, Dylan. On a daily basis she delighted in being with Dylan or talking about his artistic skills, ability to excel in sports and languages and his empathy for people.
She was devoted to and survived by her parents, Ron and Jane Carr of Cleveland, Ohio, her "Irish twin" sister Mary Carr of Portland, Oregon, brothers Michael Carr of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Tom Carr of Portland, Oregon, and Jim Carr of Cleveland, Ohio, as well as her nieces and many nephews. Family gatherings were always highlights of her year.


Another passion was her work in the field of Early Childhood Special Education. Ann started on her career path graduating from John Carroll University in Cleveland then taking her Masters as a speech and language pathologist from Vanderbilt University, in Nashville, Tennessee, providing services to infant, toddlers, and their families in Tennessee, Texas and San Francisco. She spent several years working nationally out of a Boston office then state wide from Sacramento, doing curriculum development, all the while living in San Francisco in a 1908 Edwardian home she and her husband were restoring.


Her strong work ethic and impeccable skills enabled Ann to be recognized and respected as an expert in her field. In the past 15 years, she owned and operated her own company, Early Childhood Associates and easily gained contracts to work in Napa, San Diego and in the Bay Area as a college professor, trainer and facilitator ensuring school districts, family resource centers, the San Francisco Public Library and other child agencies work together to promote inclusion of young children with special needs and early literacy development. She was a true friend who brought love and humor to her friends and colleagues who became her friends. Although busy with her career and family, Ann always made time to enjoy get-a ways with her friends.


Ann loved to spend time in the outdoors often hiking with her husband and always looked forward to their yearly trips to Yosemite. Her family took many trips which where a time of fun and renewal for her. She had a passion for knitting, yoga, Pilates and walking through her neighborhood, Golden Gate Park or Crissy Field. She enjoyed every evening watching the sunset off her back porch at her home in San Francisco.


A family has lost their "sweetheart." The field of Early Childhood has lost a champion. We know her spirit will always be in our hearts and thoughts. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Head Start - Child Start, 439 Devlin Rd, Napa, CA 94558. We would like to thank the entire staff at UCSF Medical Center for their very kind, caring and compassionate care of Ann during her recent illness. A memorial will be held in June when our son returns from his year abroad in Spain.



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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 17 to Aug. 18, 2013.

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David Stone

August 11, 2020

Steve, I'm sure the pain of her passing is still with you. I hope in time that pain is lessened.

Marti Roach

August 11, 2020

It was a surprise to get the notice of the anniversary of Ann’s passing and as I opened it up and gazed at her picture, my heart filled. Hard to believe this much time has passed. And, seeing Ann again, I remember working with her and what shock and sadness to lose her just as so many of us training ToP with her, were getting to know her. To all her loved ones, I send condolences. Time cannot take away love and deep connection.. and unfortunately, we also carry grief with us as we miss our loved ones and that never changes.

Margaret J Pryately

August 11, 2020

Ann was co-editor with me of our high school newspaper, The Tower, at Notre Dame Academy in Chardon, OH. We started off with four editors and dwindled to just the two of us to do the work of four. Ann never complained and was down-right cheerful despite the long hours and the other projects we had to delay to carry this load. I will never forget her smile and laugh and capacity for hard work to get the job done well. It is no surprise to me that she was such a success in her field. She had all the makings of a sterling individual back in high school. Thank you, Ann, for sticking with it when no one else would. Happy 50th anniversary of our high school graduation in 2021! You will be remembered there. I will make sure of that.

Marge Pryately

March 28, 2014

I was shocked to see Ann's name in our high school alumni magazine recently. We went to Notre Dame Academy and both worked as editors on the newspaper and yearbook. Even though that was a LONG time ago, I will never forget Ann's cheerful, can-do spirit and how hard-working she was. To me she looks as beautiful as she did in high school only with lighter hair. Though I never met her husband and son, I can imagine what a loss it is to them to lose Ann much too soon. My prayers are with you,

David Gardner

September 13, 2013

Steve, many condolences. You and Ann were great together. I still remember you all at my 40th birthday party. With sympathy.

Marti Roach

September 8, 2013

Ann and I got to know each other through ToP training and we had a great time when we trained together a year and a half ago. I was so happy to have another colleague to collaborate with and looked forward to a deepening relationship. A wonderful person and a skilled and dedicated facilitator and change agent. I miss you Ann.

Melanie Nicolas

September 5, 2013

I got to know Ann only in the recent year or 2, before her diagnosis became known to her colleagues and network. She provided our organization pro-bono services in designing our strategic planning process. I loved her passion, her intelligence, her diligent and thoughtful work and her excellent communication skills. Thank you Ann and my prayers to your eternal repose, and to the family you left behind.

Marsha Canright

August 24, 2013

So very sorry, Steve. How lucky you were to have her for these many years. Loved seeing your pictures together and saying, "true love does exist."

Katharine Leary

August 22, 2013

Didn't know this lady, just clicked on the obituary because she looked like a friendly face. She sounded like a warm and lovely person. I am sorry for her loss.

David Stone

August 22, 2013

So sorry to hear of her passing. Our condolences to the family

August 21, 2013

We are feeling such loss everyday. My heart still skips a beat when I realize I won't see your beautiful smile and hear your wonderfully passionate voice. Debra, Darrell, Cole and Stella

Donna Sullivan

August 19, 2013

My heart was heavy when I heard of Ann's passing. She was such a lovely, gracious woman, and I will miss her personally and professionally. Peace to Ann, Steve and Dylan.

Senta Greene

August 19, 2013

Holding the family in prayer and loving thoughts. I feel incredibly blessed that Ann crossed my path. I will be eternally grateful for her mentorship, leadership in early care and education, her care and compassion for my daughter, and her belief in me.
Her legacy lives on. With abiding love...

Marilena Katharine Tonti

August 19, 2013

My condolences to Ann's family. We went to John Carroll together and I remember her as a compassionate and wonderful human being. She will be missed.

August 19, 2013

Love and peace for the loss of this wonderful woman. Ann's Women's Group from the 1980s is grieving and remembering her. If someone here can forward to me a mailing address for Steve and Dylan, we would appreciate it: cathykodama [at] gmail.

Barbara Llewellyn

August 19, 2013

Just saw the pbit today. Beautifully written . I wish I had gotten to know her better. My heart goes out to you and Dylan.

August 19, 2013

My heart is heavy with this very sad news. Seeing her beautiful face in the paper made the news real. Our love and hugs going out to Steve and Dylan.

August 18, 2013

With love and compassion for all who knew Ann and especially for Steve and Dylan. She will always be with you and forever watching over you. Love, Alison

Bart and Terri Hamiter

August 17, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you who were blessed by sharing life with Ann. May the memories grow sweeter with each day ahead and bring you peace.

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