Search by Name

Search by Name

Barbara Borg Bechelli

1946 - 2026

Barbara Borg Bechelli obituary, 1946-2026, Napa, CA

BORN

1946

DIED

2026

FUNERAL HOME

Tulocay Cemetery Funeral Home & Crematory

411 Coombsville Rd

Napa, California

Barbara Bechelli Obituary

Barbara Bechelli
04/16/1946 - 02/20/2026
Barbara Borg Bechelli passed away on February 20, 2026, in Napa, CA, at the age of 79. Barbara was deeply loved by family, friends, and the communities she served throughout her lifetime in San Francisco and her native Washington State.
Barbara was born on April 16, 1946, to Theodore and Katherine Borg of Pateros, WA, and grew up along the banks of the Methow River in the North Cascade foothills. In her youth, she won state awards for singing, Girls State, academics, and earned a music scholarship to the University of Washington. Her career in fashion led her to San Francisco, where she married the love of her life, Richard Bechelli, and lived for decades in the Marina District.
Barbara was a vibrant member of her San Francisco community, with longstanding involvement in the Olympic Club Foundation, Salesian Boys' and Girls' Club, University of San Francisco, San Francisco Ballet, and St. Ignatius Parish. A love of cultural exchange, tennis, golf, and fly fishing guided many of Barbara and Richard's travels throughout Europe, Asia, South America, Africa, and mountain rivers from Alaska to Wyoming. With characteristic warmth, wit, and generosity, Barbara made lasting friendships wherever she went. She was an extraordinary wife, mother, and grandmother and leaves a legacy of enduring positivity and love.
Barbara was preceded in death by her husband, Richard L. Bechelli (2011), and is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Kimberly and Kristian Gyorkos, her grandchildren, Joseph and Katarina Gyorkos, and her siblings, Charles Borg (Nancy), Ken Borg (Virginia), and Lynn Mavrakis. A family memorial will be held in the Methow Valley. Donations in Barbara's memory may be made to the Olympic Club Foundation (524 Post St., San Francisco, CA 94133) or Salesian Boys' & Girls' Club (680 Filbert St., San Francisco, CA 94133; www.salesianclub.org).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 10 to Mar. 15, 2026.

Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Bechelli

Sponsored by Tulocay Cemetery Funeral Home & Crematory.

Not sure what to say?





Make a Donation
in Barbara Bechelli's name

Memorial Events
for Barbara Bechelli

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Tulocay Cemetery Funeral Home & Crematory

411 Coombsville Rd, Napa, CA 94559

How to support Barbara's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Barbara Bechelli's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more