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Brenda McKeithen Obituary

Brenda (Cheney) Joyce McKeithen

March 10, 1950 - June 6, 2019

Brenda passed away the morning of June 6, 2019, at Kaiser Permanente Hospital in San Francisco, California. She was 69 years old, predeceased by her mother Ruby Chong and survived by her daughter Stephanie Cheney Kuo, her loving granddaughter 3-year-old Hannah Kuo, her Sisters Wanda Fong, Sharon Hahn, and their families, her father Walton Chin, Stephanie's father Norman Cheney and by her husband David, his children and their 4 children.


Brenda was born and raised in Oakland, California where she attended public schools and college, in addition to Simon Fraser University in Vancouver, Canada. She later lived in Marin County, San Francisco and Point Richmond. Brenda's professional career as a real estate underwriter and mortgage banker engaged her energetic focus for a season. Her life dramatically changed when her daughter Stephanie invited her to Cornerstone Church in 1999. Her work life priorities took on new meaning and focus from there. Bren's indefatigable dynamism and organizational talents, hospitality and servant heart were constantly on display as her walk with Jesus grew.

Brenda saw the sacrifices of time that the Cornerstone band members made for the community and cooked them exquisite dishes that were her trademark. She also ushered at church with a welcoming spirit. Brenda's love for children was on display as she served skillfully as the children ministry's administrator. Later she and David taught Bible classes for 4-year olds. When her father Walton needed more attentive care as did her 5 newborn grandbabies, she stepped out of ministries to meet their needs. She and David led a small group adult bible study in the East bay that still grows in love and service. She was a friend to so many, creating a sense of belonging and never losing sight of anyone who needed a listening ear, an encouraging word or a reminder that they are loved.


Please join us for a celebration of Brenda's life at
Cornerstone Church SF
June 17, 2019 at 11 am
3459 17th Street
San Francisco, CA 94110

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jun. 14 to Jun. 17, 2019.

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Kathy Bottarini-Welch

June 21, 2019

What a shock to see this, I worked with Brenda in San Rafael at Guarantee Mortgage, I was her Loan Processor. She was always so nice and caring. My thoughts and Prayers go out to her and her entire family, may she rest in peace in Heaven with the Lord God Bless you Brenda.

June 17, 2019

Deepest sympathy on the loss of dear BRENDA May the memories of joyful times you shared together bring comfort and peace in this difficult time ISAIAH 61: 1 & 2

Elsye Muljono

June 17, 2019

Brenda

My condolence to Dave and family. The Good Lord's presence and love be the peace and comfort in this trying time and we all mourn your loss of a beautiful & sweet soul. Brenda made me feel home at Cornerstone family with her warmth and always welcoming smile. One time she convinced me and almost made me believed I was actually part of East Bay roaster. We'll all miss her but we'll see that beautiful & warm smile again with Jesus one day.

Elsye Muljono

June 16, 2019

Brenda

My condolence to Dave and family. The Good Lord's presence and love be the peace and comfort in this trying time and we all mourn your loss of a beautiful & sweet soul. Brenda made me feel home at Cornerstone family with her warmth and always welcoming smiles. One time she convinced me and almost made me believed I was actually part of the East Bay roaster. What a living example of living out Christ's love. We'll all miss her but we'll see that beautiful & warm smile again with Jesus one day.

Chris Cavigioli

June 16, 2019

What a shock to hear of this. Brenda was a loved and special woman. I worshipped with her, partied at her house in Marin, and did some business together. My deepest condolences to her surviving family and friends. Good to know that our Father has prepared a room for her.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Tanya Moses

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Amber Tu

June 16, 2019

I'm so grateful to have had the honor of having you in my life. I will cherish our friendship and miss you always. My deepest condolences to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cherished Friend Bouquet- VASE INCLUDED

Kathleen Crabbe

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Elizabeth

June 15, 2019

Extending heartfelt condolences and prayers of comfort to the McKeithen family. May the hope and promise of everlasting life sustain and comfort you during this difficult time. John 11:24,25

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