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for David Bartolotta
Sandi Covell
July 18, 2010
It's now been a year since David died. I still think of him so often. I am still surprised when I remember that he is gone. I still feel an emptiness when I want to laugh with him or share a wonderful meal at his table or watch him happy at his barbecue or peel lemons with him for his limoncello or exchange a knowing look across the orchestra pit at the Opera House or visit friends together or read his naughty emails or shop at Trader Joe's or listen to his stories or see that unforgettable twinkle in his eyes and feel his remarkable warmth.
We are all fortunate that heart and soul and love abide.
I still feel David's love and I love him.
April 5, 2010
You know...there are few men that I identify with....mostly I love women...but when my woman friend introduced me to David... I found a man that not only could cook ....but could understand......me.
Its April and I just sipped Limoncello...He taught me to make Limoncello.... I miss David Bartolatta soooo much.
Gary
Ida Bodin
October 17, 2009
My condolences to David's family. I just received news of his passing. It has been over 20 years since I have been in David's company, but I think of him from time to time with great fondness. He was kind, funny, and a lovely musician. He will be greatly missed.
Robert Parks
August 18, 2009
My sympathy to both David's direct family, and the extended family at the Opera House. There will always be a void now, not seeing him in the pit or coming out the stage door.
Rex Richardson
August 7, 2009
David’s friendship and affection extended to Alaska, where we first met when he was performing on a cruise ship. A mutual friend said that he should look up this amateur bassoonist in Juneau, so he did, and we hit it off very well. A couple of years later, I visited David in San Francisco, helping him with his computer and he gave me bassoon lessons. We had another great Alaskan afternoon on his next cruise, and we went hunting mushrooms. What a surprise.
That long weekend was most remarkable. Not only were there the stories, the jokes and the music, but he introduced me to the delight of fresh truffles. What a treat that was, and something I have been able to share with others, and always in the same fashion that David taught me: hot fresh pasta, a little butter, then shave the truffle on top of the pasta and inhale, enjoying the fragrance and flavors.
At the end of April, we were swapping email and he asked for my telephone number. A few minutes later he called, stating “I just wanted to hear your voice”. We visited for a good quarter of an hour. We talked recipes, travel, and that he must get together soon, and that he’d like Jan, my bride of 8 years.
Now there is an emptiness, and I won’t hear him call me “Honey” again. Jan & I won’t be able to share a meal with him.
Dulcie Heiman
July 12, 2009
David was one of the most kind, most giving, fun-loving people I knew; there wasn't anything he wouldn't do for you if you were his friend. I met David at the end of 1993 when I joined the Mycological Society of San Francisco. We got together often: most often he'd call me over to share something delicious he was going to make for dinner, which was again the case on May 20th, which was the last time I saw him.
He had been looking forward to celebrating Mother's 89th (or 90th?) birthday on May 31st in Jacksonville with his family, and was very excited to have been able to extend his vacation to visit his dear friend, Mitch Hoyle, in NC afterwards.
As are his family and all his friends, I am devastated by his loss; he was my only west coast friend that I saw so often (weekly, in '24' season!), and I already miss him terribly.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of us who love David.
With love,
Dulcie/ N. Conway NH and Brisbane CA
Sue Black
July 9, 2009
What a shock to read in SF Classical Voice about David! I know he will be missed by so many. I feel lucky to have had the privelege of playing with such a beautiful man when I lived in SF. A great loss!
Samara Olivier
July 8, 2009
My condolences to the family.
I knew david since I was a child, and I was saddened to hear of his passing.
My prayers go out to the family.
Janine Angeletti
July 8, 2009
Dear Friends and Family of David: I had the privilege of playing with David in our little summer symphony in Mammoth Lakes for several years. He came out a few years ago and rescued us from disaster at the last minute when our regular bassoonist broke her arm a couple of days before our concerts. He was an absolute JOY to play with, so able and so funny and so unassuming and unpretentious! He played with us for several years and then was gone, and I have always missed him. He took on the role of woodwind "coach" and he certainly helped me--primarily with my ATTITUDE! When I would get down on myself for perceived technical inadequacy he would remind me that we were supposed to be having FUN! Somehow he was able to reach me and get this idea across in a way that has STUCK WITH ME and has helped me so much to enjoy my own musical life. He was hysterically funny, too--I wish I'd written down all the bad jokes... I try to pass on his light-hearted attitude to my students when they become overly serious and discouraged, and I ALWAYS think of David at these times. I will always be grateful to him and I wish I had known him better. Please know that David made a big impact on many, many people, even those of us who only knew him briefly. My sympathy is with all of you at this impossible time. Janine Angeletti, Mammoth Lakes, CA.
Susan Honey
July 8, 2009
I met David through my sister and brother-in-law, Ann and Jon, and we had other friends in common over time. Reading over the entries here I am not surprised to see how many close and wonderful friends he had, because he did make people feel special and he was special. He was truly one of the most sweet and generous people I have ever known. Such a great host, so fun, so warm, so many interests, such a great sense of humor. It has been said here already many times, but it is all true. I never heard him play his music, but he was such a talented cook, I am sure he was talented in everything he did. I will miss him dearly as I know we all will. It was such an honor to have had him as a friend and I will never forget his generosity in catering Ann and Jon's wedding and my Dad's Memorial. It is such a shock that he is gone, I haven't come to terms with this yet. We will have to keep his spirit alive in our hearts and learn from the shining example of his open heart.
Sincere sympathies from Sue Honey, Bill Fisk and Mom (Maggie Walker)
David Smith
July 8, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of David's passing and my sympathies go out to all who knew this wonderful man. I have attended some lovely potluck and dinners with David and found that I had connections to him through various friends and associations. He was a very kind and generous spirit and will be missed by all who knew him.
Ann Walker
July 8, 2009
To David's family - We are so very sorry and shocked to learn of David's passing. He was a true friend, gentle spirit, and very interesting and talented human being. We first met him at a potluck party about six years ago when he was serving up his decadent homemade chocolate ice cream. When we got married four years ago, he offered to cater our wedding as his gift to us and the food was delicious and made with so much love. Then, in October of 2007 when my (Ann) dad passed away, David offered out of the goodness of his heart to prepare the food for our family's memorial gathering. His generosity and caring were expressed in so many ways. We enjoyed gatherings with him that always included laughter, big bear hugs, and fantastic food. He spoke often of his family in Florida and how much he enjoyed his summer visits. We send to you, his family, our thoughts and caring at this very sad time. David will be greatly missed by us and remembered with love always. - Ann Walker and Jon Demeter, Alameda, California
Bill and Brenda McNeiland
July 7, 2009
We were saddened to learn of David's death. We knew him as a fine person and a fine musician at Jacksonville University, and were thrilled that he played professionally in San Francisco. Requiem in eternam et lux perpetua luceat eis.
Steve Williams
July 5, 2009
I only got to know David through a close friend here in Florida with whom David had studied bassoon years ago. It was apparent what a caring and generous person David was after my friend became bedridden four years ago, and David always found some time to visit and cheer up Ted during his brief visits to his family here. David’s brief presence also was a great comfort to me and Ted’s other friends here, and we will miss him.
Mary Stormes
July 2, 2009
Peggy and Vicky,
We were so sorry to read about David. From what has been written, he sounds like he was a wonderful man. Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Mary and Hack Stormes
Rufus Olivier Jr.
July 1, 2009
I am still in a state of shock thinking about David, I can't get my head around this. I normally don't see David in the summer months so it has not sunk in. You can't sit next to to someone for 29 years and not be part of his DNA. David was family in the true meaning of the word, we had fun we had fights we laughed we broke bread together, he was there when my kids grew up , I have the same dog "Robyn" he gave us years ago. I have no idea why these things happen to good souls.I vow your son and brother will never be forgotten. Rufus Olivier
Jane Wardzinska
June 27, 2009
June 27, 2009
We were shocked and saddened to hear about David's premature death.
Mike and I have many happy memories of wonderful meals and great company with David. He was such a funny, friendly, talented guy. He is greatly missed.
Jane Wardzinska and Michael Wood.
Kathleen McNamara
June 26, 2009
My condolences to David's family and friends. He had so much love to share and did so much for so many. I will miss his marvelous sense of humor, his kindness, and his cooking. God Bless.
Takashi Matsunaga
June 26, 2009
David was a warm and festive person who loved the company of friends especially when sharing food and hospitality. He easily made friends all over the world and readily accepted new people as life long friends. I miss him so much.
Bob & Andrea Rezzonico
June 25, 2009
Our condolences to David's family and his many friends. David was a delight to know and he will be missed.
Steve & Joy Durnin
June 25, 2009
For David's family...we hope that somehow, knowing how much we all loved David brings some measure of comfort. We will miss his wonderful laugh, and warm and loving friendship.
Marion Skarpness
June 23, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Deborah Tash
June 23, 2009
To David's family...we will all miss him so much. He made life fun and bright with his wonderful humor and playfulness. His delicious food was a gift of nurturance and love. I will deeply miss his warm friendship, as I know you will miss his presence in your lives.
Mark Fisher
June 22, 2009
We are going to miss David, and miss hearing from him. A terrific guy who was a force for good ! A contributor. A collaborator. And a true friend.
Bless you, David.
Pattie and Savannah Fisher
June 22, 2009
I see that friendly bear face and can't believe we won't be seeing David again. Savannah and I really felt we had gained a wonderful friend when we were introduced to him. He was so fun and funny! And a very warm and welcoming soul. Our visits to the San Francisco Ballet won't be quite the same any more.
Jane MacGregor
June 22, 2009
Its not the natural order of things for a parent to lose a child. My deepest condolences to the family.
David was a kind,loving,funny,caring friend, and a true friend. He touched many lives and he surely will be missed.
Richard Black
June 22, 2009
Peggy and Vicki:
Although we lost touch many years ago, your family played an important part in my early life. I have many great memories from the 50' s and 60'. My prayers are with you and your families.
June 22, 2009
Peggy and Vicki:
Wade and I are so very sorry for the loss of your brother. We all survive by remembering the best times we've had with our lost love ones.
Wade and Donna(Angelieri)Gillingham
Waldo, Florida
Joan Burg
June 22, 2009
David was a wonderful person and a fine musician. It was always a pleasure to work with him. He had such a fabulous sense of humor.
Roger Bush
June 22, 2009
To David's family and friends,
David was such a fine spirit and loving person. We will all miss him greatly. Please know that he touched our lives in many ways and brought genuine joy and happy laughter at every encounter.
He spoke so fondly of his family in Florida and enjoyed his visits with you. Please know that David was really loved by his friends out here in California.
gordon regan
June 22, 2009
I remember your family with fondness and am sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Gordon Regan
Beth Graham- Kemper
June 22, 2009
Peggy & Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. It is evident by the words written here that he was greatly loved & was a very special person. I pray that God will bring you & your family the peace & comfort that only He can give during this very difficult time.
Love & Prayers, Beth Graham
June 22, 2009
Peggy, Vicki and family,
We're very sorry for the loss of David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. After reading the entries in the guest book we wish we had known him better.
Love, your friends, Don and Bonny (Turner) Childers
June 22, 2009
So sad, I remember pate with truffle oil, a special soup with morels. I remember a sweet teddy bear of a man, loaded with talent.
Godspeed David.
Lynne Tyson
Eric Sjostrom
June 22, 2009
Dear Bartolotta Family & Friends -
I first met David while attending an annual conference of Orchestra Librarians. It was instantly apparent that David was different than most other librarians. He brought great insight and knowledge to our profession as the librarian of a ballet orchestra. I also connected with David as a former bassoonist. We also shared the love of good food and libation. In the mid 1990s, my wife and I vacationed in Northern California and we spent the better part of a day with David as our tour guide and host. This was a tour like no other. Despite long periods of not speaking, we were always able to continue where we left off as if we spoke every day. David was a rare person that whenever you saw him or heard his name mentioned, a big smile came to your face. I will carry the sadness of his premature passing for many days.
Eric Sjostrom
Associate Principal Librarian
Minnesota Orchestra
Bachelor of Music, Bassoon,1976
Curtis Institute of Music
Francine Lancaster-Shallenberger
June 21, 2009
To David's Family, My husband played for 25 years with David in the SF Ballet Orchestra..and I sang with the orchestra...so I got to know David well. My sweetest memories are when he made the best Pasta---Pesto Pasta--He would have the three of us over (this includes our then young son Aaron) -- He would make a great dinner..enough for six but he never had leftovers...it was just toooo good.
He will be missed. He created some beauty and light for our
young family in those early days in San Francisco.
Paul Sternhagen
June 21, 2009
To David's Family, Larry and I both knew David as a friend through his involvement with the Eastern Sierra Symphony Orchestra. We had great fun with food and life seeing him each year in Mammoth Lakes. He taught us so much about how to live life simply and well and he remained a positive presence in our lives after his involvement with the orchestra had ended. He will be well and truly missed. Please accept our sincere condolences for the loss of your son and brother and our dear friend.
June 21, 2009
Dear Marie, Todd and Family,
We are so sorry to hear that your only son David has passed away. We think of you and wonder where you all are. David was just a young boy when you (Marie) and I (Vann) worked at the Data Center at Regency...but the memories of your children remain in our hearts.
Be assured that your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you always.
Vann, Evelyn and Donnie
June 21, 2009
Salvatore and Peggy-Our thoughts and prayers are with you both for the loss of your son and brother. Your old winemaker student and friend-Joe and Dale Fischer
Rick Knous
June 21, 2009
David was a warm, funny person, and a fine musician. Such great wit and humor....I'll always remember him making me laugh at those after concert dinners.
Danny Lloyd
June 20, 2009
David,
Safe journey my friend. I will miss you!
Norman and Mary Anne Lopez
June 20, 2009
We are thinking of you in these times of great sorrow. There will be a big void in this world and David will be sorely missed.
Lorrie Gallagher
June 20, 2009
David was a great individual, and though I'm so sorry that he's gone, I will certainly remember him for a long time. He was a generous friend for those in need, always enthusiastic about eating and mushroom hunting, always fun to share a laugh with.
Joyce Pickard Dunn
June 20, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about David. I have been thinking about him recently. I wanted to get in touch with him but didn't know where to start.
I should have known he would be in the music field.
David and I were buddies all through junior and senior high school. Plus we went onto college together and continued our friendship.
The last time I saw David was the night he played piano for my wedding 40 years ago.
I have missed the wonderful, fun friendship we had. From reading all the comments left about him I see others will miss him too.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I'll cherish the friendship we had growing up.
Dan Long
June 20, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about David's passing. He was such a contributor to the Mycological Society for many years. He will be truly missed. Always there with a funny joke, a good man he was.
Gerty James- Kemper
June 20, 2009
Peggy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort and the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
June 20, 2009
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Bartolotta..Peggy and Vicki.
It was sadden to hear about the loss of David. Even though David graduated with my brother Oscar, I remember David very well. Blessed Trinity, BK.
In additon, I will always remember the kindness of the Bartolotta family toward my Mother and all the Little Garza's. I remember swimming in your pool on Southside Blvd. and the warm hospitality of your family. You know it's a (Italian thing), of superb kindness and hospitality. In addition I remember the many trips with my grandfather going to T.D.'s Garage, and yes, I remember your grandfather and speaking to him at the garage.
On behalf of the Garza Family we graciously "thank you" for touching our lives and we send our heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Our family will never forget the Bartolotta's and we send our love during this difficult time.
"May God bless you and keep you,"
"May God make His face shine on you and show you His favor,"
"May God lift up His face toward you and give you peace." Shalom
Love,
Oscar,Eddie,Theresa,Jim,Tom, Tim,Michael&Patrick
Patricia George
June 20, 2009
To David's Family,
So many of us in the Mycological Society of San Francisco were shocked and saddened by the loss of David. He was so very talented and fun. Our sincerest condolences go out to you.
Terri Smith (formerly Bonafede)
June 20, 2009
My family has known this family for as long as I can remember. Very loving and more like my own family. My prayers go out to them.
Wesley, Laurel and Cameron Wong
June 20, 2009
To David's Family,
David will be missed by many. He was wonderful person and a great friend of mine for twenty-five plus years. Our hearts and prayers are with you as we all mourn this tragic and sudden loss.
Woody Miller
June 20, 2009
My thoughts are with you. I knew David for a short time but his life touched many. He will be missed.
Phil and Pat Mickler
June 20, 2009
To TD and family........we were so sorry to hear of David's death. Our thoughts are certainly with you at this very sad time.
June 20, 2009
Peggy, Vicky, Marie, Tot,
My memories of David go back to junior bowling at Jax Lanes. David and I were quite the young bowlers. We had more fun than anyone else anyway. The many nights we all spent in the backyard pool are times I will never forget. Any time we were all together the most common sound was laughter. What a great time it was. David was a friend and I know he was a loving brother and a son cherished and loved by his Mom and Dad. Words can't express the feeling of sympathy I have for you, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I treasure the laughter we shared. May God bless you...
Carl Harbin
Milly Haberly
June 20, 2009
Dear Peggy and Family,
My sincere sympathy to you and your family. May your memories of happier times bring you great comfort, and may God bless you with peace in your heart.
Sincerely,
Milly Haberly
(formerly at GSLIC)
Gail Hull Hand
June 20, 2009
Dear Tot, Marie, Peggy, and Vicki:
All through the 50's and into the 60's, our families "grew up" together. The old neighborhood was ONE BIG FAMILY. How lucky we were. I have so many great childhood memories thanks to you and David. I feel I have lost a family member.
Some of my fondest memories of David are the conversations we had as we rode the school bus home. I'm so glad I got to see and talk with David when he visited "home." We laughed about the old days. He was always so kind, funny, and witty; always up!
It is by my own experience that I can truly say David blessed the souls of every person he met, mine included.
Very sincerely,
Wesley, Laurel and Cameron Wong
June 20, 2009
To David's family,
David will truly be missed by many. He was a wonderful person and a great friend of mine for twenty-five years. Our heart and prayers are with you as we all grieve this sudden and tragic loss.
David Wolfram
June 20, 2009
Dear Bartolottas,
Darleen and I were saddened to hear of David's death. I had many a fun moments with him growing up as a teengager.
We have thought about your family over the years and are sorry we lost touch.
Our prayers are with you.
Love, David and Darleen Wolfram
Mark Thomsen
June 19, 2009
My sympathy goes out to David's family and friends. He was a gracious host and a warm and giving person. I will miss him.
Carole Klein
June 19, 2009
Dear Family of David,
A trumpeter, I sat near David in the Ballet Orchestra for 2 decades, and knew him as a really wonderful warm human being. as long as he had young nieces, he would provide me with my Girl Scout Cookie fix every year. He was a really sweet guy who never seemed to be without a luminescent smile! My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all.
Kathleen Comalli Dillon
June 19, 2009
Dear Bartolotta family,
I cannot believe David is gone. I knew him first when I was about 18 at the San Francisco Conservatory, and then shortly thereafter when we both auditioned successfully for the San Francisco Ballet. Like him, I'm from a proud Italian-American family, so we shared the supremacy of family and the love of gatherings, great food, and laughter.
David, through the years, was unfailingly generous, caring, and so funny. You couldn't ask for a more professional colleague - always prepared, always a kind and witty word, and someone with whom you could have a conversation that would make you feel better than when you came in to the rehearsal!
I don't want to think about how many times in the future I'll look over to the bassoon section and miss his face - smiling, or dedicated, or intense - and his excellent musicianship. But I'm rich for knowing him.
Please accept my deepest sorrow on your behalf along with the reassurance that if there is a Heaven, David will make the most wonderful addition! :o)
David Granger
June 19, 2009
David was a true friend when my orchestra went bankrupt and I started working in the SF Bay area. He welcomed me to stay overnight whenever I came to town and introduced me to many musicians. I will miss his support and guidance so much.
June 19, 2009
Dear Peggy and Family,
I am so sad to hear of your loss. I feel like I know you all personally because "You All" are her life and what she cherishes most. May God's Peace be with you in this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Your Friend,
Jeannie Benson
June 19, 2009
Our sympathy and regards to the family and friends...from Kitty & Creek Norris, Willits, CA
Mary Miller
June 19, 2009
To David's family--
David was a really gentleman, I had the pleasure of working with him several times here in Reno. I'm so sorry for your loss, it is devastating.
Bennie Cottone
June 19, 2009
To David's Family;
David had been a friend and colleague for many years and his sudden loss has come as a terrible shock.
As an oboist I have performed with David off-and-on since he came to SF. When I worked at SF Ballet he sat right behind me, always providing a tap on the shoulder after my solos, or a scratch on the back when a really juicy joke or gossip was ready to be told at the break.
He was always there to help identify fungi (and then to help cook and eat the good ones), or to offer cooking/recipe advice. He helped get me involved with the Mycolgical Society, from which resulted many new friends.
All who knew David will miss his kind spirit and generosity.
Bennie Cottone
Alice (Floyd) Sundquist
June 19, 2009
I was so sorry to hear about David. I went to school with Peggy and I remember him being the pesty little brother that tried to throw water on us in the pool.I would love to get in contact again. I am Alice (Floyd) Sundquist and I used to live fairly close to the family.
Again, I am so sorry to hear about this tragedy. If you feel like it please email me at [email protected]
We are here to help with a sick family member.
Jeanne Jones Majors
June 19, 2009
Such a loss and such a fine guy! We were in JU together and I have only had fleeting occasions in the last 40 years to be in touch. I always hoped I would connect with him again... either when he came to Jax. to visit family or when I might get to San Francisco. My sympathy goes to his family and friends. May you be comforted in knowing how well he was so fondly remembered .
Carole DeMeritt
June 19, 2009
Dear Peggy
My heart aches for you and your family. My prayers are for all of you to help you through this horrible time.
God Bless
Jeff (Chico) Driggers
June 19, 2009
I knew David more than thirty years ago, and last year was fortunate in being able to see David again on a trip to Jax. Years ago David gave me and my Buddy Bill a broccoli recipe, which we promptly dubbed "Broccoli Bartollota." I still use it. David was a superb musician. One of the best that Jacksonville has ever produced. My deep sympathies go out to his family and friends.
Alinda Butz
June 19, 2009
Dear Peggy and Family,
I hope and pray that all the wonderful memories you have fill you with comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you, Alinda Butz
June 19, 2009
Dear "Tot", Peggy and family: We would like to express our sympathies in the loss of your beloved David. Our prayers go out to you today. Love, Dan & Jo Anne Senecal
Betty Younan Bass
June 19, 2009
Dear Peggy,
I am so sorry to hear of your brothers passing. I pray that you and your family will find the strength to get pass this awful tragedy. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Susan Yeomans Sams
June 19, 2009
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Bartolotta, Peggy & Vicky, I was so sad to hear about David's death. Although I had not seen him in 40+ years, he is not some one you can forget. He was always so funny and kind and always had a smile to offer. I'm sure your hearts are breaking right now and I will keep you in my prayers. Love, Susan Yeomans Sams
June 19, 2009
Dear Peggy and family,
No words are adequate to express my deepest sympathy for your lost. May the God of love for ever comfort your hearts and give you peace in your time of great sorrow.
Your friend and co-worker,
Marsha S. Best
Jimmy Moore
June 19, 2009
David's passing is a saddening loss and my thoughts and prayers go out to his truly wonderful family. I received the news from a mutual friend late last night and though it has been many years since I have seen David so many memories of our high school days continue to emerge.
My most favorite memories are typical teen times of the 1960s - nights spent roaming around our favorite Jax. haunts in that wonderful old black cadillac - cruisin' the Krystal and Big Boy.
Times spent with David and his family in the house on S.Side Blvd listening to music out by their pool.
David was a natural story teller and he could keep us all laughing with his funny stories about life and our friends and his family.
I regret not being able to have continued my friendship and fellowship with David over the years and post this with deep sorrow at his passing.
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