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Bill Coats
October 3, 2007
I wanted to thank everyone who has contributed to this guest book for all their kind sentiments and support. These are very hard times and this all helps us. Ernie was a wonderful father-in-law and friend and a special grandfather to our children. A marvelous person, he dreamed big dreams and then he carried them out, a classic American success story. He had a big heart and the world is a less warm and friendly place with his passing.
Flo Testa
September 29, 2007
Mary Lou, I will miss the interesting talks with my favorite brother. Far but only a phone call away. We solved all the world's problems and always had a good laugh. I will miss him dearly. Love, Flo
Andrew Jessup
September 24, 2007
Marylou,
I treasure our last visit with Ernie at dealership. He was always a delight to engage in a business conversation. Through all those years of United Way connection he never revealed his WW2 experience.
A bit of history lost by another member of the "Greatest Generation".
We all feel a sense of loss at his
passing. Our hearfelt condolences to you and the family.God Bless.
Andy Jessup
Sheila Grattan
September 22, 2007
Dear Mary Lou
There is a big void in our Valley, the Kraft Nabisco Dinah Shore and in my heart.
I met Ernie back in the late 1970s. It was a privilege to work with him to promote the United Way in the early years and an annual delight to meet up with you and Ernie at various Kraft Nabisco functions, including the annual dinners honoring the volunteer chairmen. Ernie was priceless in his many roles. What touches me the most is Ernie's down-to-earth approach to people. He had enjoyed success at the highest levels of corporate America, yet, he was approachable, philosophical and funny. No phony baloney for him. He had life in perspective and that made him a relaxed and happy man. He had a personal connection with everyone he met and shared some little plot with most, I suspect. His little joke with me was to always wish me total independence financially so I would never have to seriously compromise myself. He really was a solid self-taught psychologist to zero in on my need for independence over a mansion or a fancy car. He did that with many people he met which is why we will miss him so much. How many people who have attained his success (in marriage too, I might add) take such an interest in the sefl-actualiztion of others. That is why he was a great boss at B of A and a beloved tournament chairman as well. No one else will ever ask me if I have achieved my goals in the very funny way Ernie did. He stayed grounded in his beginnings in that small Ohio steel town and kept those around him grounded as well. I think he just signed St. Peter up for a new Platinum Visa Card. Heaven's never had such excellent credit.
Lin Vratkovich
September 22, 2007
Dear Aunt Mary Lou,
I know how much you will miss Uncle Ernie. We all will. But I know you will remember the many blessings of the beautiful years you shared together. Uncle Ernie was my "favorite" Uncle who new how to live life and love his family and friends. He will be sadly missed but remain forever in our hearts and memories.
Love, Lin, Krissy and Alan
Sara Prado
September 20, 2007
Mary Lou,
I was so sorry to hear of Ernie’s passing. Over the years I have learned to love and appreciate Ernie for the man he was to others and the friend he was to my grandpa (Walter Horst). He was one in a million and we were all blessed to have known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kaley D'Amico
September 18, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of Ernie's passing. I have many fond memories of Ernie, especially him playing with Dylan last summer and how much fun they both had. Our thoughts are with you.
Love, Kaley and Peter D'Amico
WALT HORST
September 17, 2007
I WILL MISS OUR WEEKLEY PHONE CALLS AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD AT YOUR HOME AND UP AT THE LAKE. GOD BLESS .
Sharon Harvey
September 16, 2007
Dearest Mary Lou, I just learned about your beloved husband's passing and want you to know how much you are in my thoughts & prayers. Reading of the love so many had for a man I never met, you are so blessed to have had such a wonderful man in your life. ...With heartfelt condolences to my classmate friend.
Bob Walls
September 15, 2007
Marylou,
Even through my meeting with Ernie was short, my visit with Lin this spring, my tender memories of you both were emotional and ever lasting. It is so sad our time together was so short. My prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Kim Lazarus
September 15, 2007
Aunt Mary Lou, My life has been blessed and one of the greatest blessing was having Uncle Ernie in my life. Uncle Ernie...A Class Act!! Love You!
Linda and Bob Bellward
September 14, 2007
Our Love to you all. Tears again when I entered the coach and saw the rememberance from you and Ernie. It will be treasured.
Robert & Kathleen Rives
September 14, 2007
Dear Mary Lou
We met you and ernie 10+ years ago
when we moved to Date Palm Country Club. You welcomed us with your friendship. Ernie told us of his many adventures througout the world.
We thought what an interesting man!
We will always remember the lunch with you and Ernie at the Las Palmis Country Club.
Most of all how much he loved Ashly
She will miss his afternoon visits.
and Ernie will be missed by all of us.
Gail Hornstein
September 14, 2007
My condolences, Mary Lou and family. Ernie gave me my first "real job" after college...with the United Way of the Desert...more than 25 years ago. He taught me about life, decency, and grace. He will live forever in my heart. My prayers are with you all.
Ileana Carde-Jarecki
September 14, 2007
Dear Mary Lou, Sherri and Family, there are no words that describe my appreciation and sadness. Mr. Young was a boss, a friend, a mentor. I wrote his name in my heart, and forever it will stay! I know he is in a better place, pain-free, but I wish he was still able to talk to me when I call with a greeting or a question. I will miss you EJ!
Becky Brom
September 13, 2007
Ernie has been my neighbor for most of the 5 yrs I have lived in Ca. I am so sad he is gone but his spirit lives on here! He loved to make jokes and our neighborhood cat, Ashley will miss his attention too! Mary Lou you know how much all of us here love you!!
Paula Wharton
September 13, 2007
Mary Lou;
Words cannot express my sadness at Ernie's passing. Ernie was the kindest man I have had the pleasure to know. My prayers and sympthy go to you and your family.
Casey Goeske
September 13, 2007
Mary Lou, I was so sorry to hear about Ernie. What an honor to have known him. I had the pleasure of working for him on the "Hole In One" for Nabisco Dinah Shore. He always made everyone happy and made us feel important. We'll all miss him. Casey
dennis & diana grainger
September 13, 2007
Dear Sis,
Thanks for bringing Ernie into our lives.We had lots of fun together and built lots of fond memories. Knowing Ernie, he's probably arranging our next round of golf for when we all meet up again.
Love, Dennis
Massimo Micheli
September 12, 2007
Ernie was my boss, but he was also a great unforgettable friend.
I will always remember him.
Carole Anne (Clay) Braswell
September 12, 2007
Mary Lou,
My heart and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Ernie must have been a wonderful man in reading the memories of his dear friends. God Bless and hugs to you.....Carole Anne
Walter W. Phelps
September 12, 2007
Erni Young gave me the position of European Director of Tavelers Cheques and was a loyal friend and supporter for many years. He was an outstanding boss..a type that is rare these days. God bless him and his wife and daughter.
Rick & Joyce Marshall
September 12, 2007
Ernie hired me at BofA in 1966, and for 13 years, we shared a magical worldwide adventure. He was the "Master" of relationships and earned the respect and friendship of financial leaders throughout the world. He often spoke of his love for his children and Mary Lou. His departure is so difficult, but the fond memories we have of Ernie will live forever in our hearts.
Patty Harshman
September 12, 2007
Mary Lou,and family,
My prayers and thought's are with you. Ernie sounds like a really nice man, I'm sorry I didn't get to meet him. Take care, and hope to see you soon.
Love You, Patty
Dora van de Mortel
September 12, 2007
Dear Sheri, Bill, Devin and Allie, I am sad to hear of the passing of a very wonderful and influential man. You are in my prayers at this time. I remember his bright smile and fun loving spirit. Love, Dora, Joe and family
Tena
September 12, 2007
Marylou, So sad to read of friend passing.
God bless you and family.
Larry Minden
September 12, 2007
To a very best friend who was always there. To the countless wonderful memories of the times together that will always remain. I love you, Larry
Don Garcia
September 12, 2007
In my book, Ernie was a 10, surpassing most mortals. It was a pleasure to have worked on the United Way of the Desert under his leadership.
André Sapriel
September 12, 2007
I am almost 80 and for the last 50 years, Ernie was the best man I met during this period. He was "formidable" we worked and laughed together. I'll never forget him . André
Karen Oppenheim
September 12, 2007
Ernie was a joy! A true professional and a tireless worker for United Way of the Desert, Ernie possessed that magical gift of making everyone feel important.
Betty Stark
September 11, 2007
MaryLou: So sorry for your loss. A hug for you from "62"
Shirley Tamoria
September 11, 2007
Ernie was my second father and wonderful mentor. I am so grateful to have known Ernie and will miss him deeply as he travels "beyond the reef." He was a royal Kama'aina, full of Aloha, warm,gracious and akama'i. I wish MaryLou, Sherri and Bill,Devin and Allie much aloha and blessings.
Joan & Cal Langwell
September 11, 2007
I will forever be grateful for having worked for the best boss in the world. He was a true friend and sincere in every way. I know he is looking down on us from heaven. There will never be another Ernie Young and he will be missed by so many of us that had the pleasure of knowing him. Mary Lou, I love you and pray that God will give you and your family the strength in the days ahead. Our deepest sympathy. Joan & Cal Langwell
Carole DeSpain
September 11, 2007
My heart and thoughts are with you, I am so so sorry, Please call me when your ready.
Love, to you.. Carole
John & Sheryl Benoit
September 11, 2007
In my life experience, a few people really stand out. Ernie was such a person. Caring, smart, successful, charismatic - I always felt I could benefit from time spent learning from Ernie as we worked together at the United Way of the Desert. Sheryl and I will treasure forever the memories of our friendship with Ernie and Marylou. We love you Marylou and offer our most sincere condolences.
Roy Wilson
September 11, 2007
Our deepest sympathy goes to the family of this fine human being.
Sam and Georgia Cross
September 11, 2007
We will remember Ernie as a dear friend and a great American;a man whom we can all emulate. Marylou, may God be with you and comfort you and give you peace of mind in this time of sorrow.
Jerry and Lee Ann Graves
September 11, 2007
We, of the United Way of the Desert family, will remember our patriarch. Ernie was our friend and a mentor. Marylou, we share in your loss.
Jerry and Lee Ann Graves
September 11, 2007
We, of the United Way of the Desert family, will remember our patriarch. Ernie was our friend and a mentor. Marylou, we share in your loss.
Carrie Nowlin
September 11, 2007
Sherri, Bill, MaryLou and family,
Ernie is irreplaceable in the world - we will miss him, especially at the family events where his pride in his family was so evident.
Much love Carrie, Bill and the kids
keith g MCCORMICK
September 11, 2007
ENJOYED OUR MANY CHATS OVER THE YEARS..HOPE THEY ARE READY FOR YOU UP THERE.
Kimberly Starrs
September 11, 2007
Oh Marylou. Words cannot describe my sorrow at the loss of such a wonderful man. I hope you know that his memory will be cherished by many people for many years to come. My heart is full of love and gratitude for having had the chance to get to know your Ernie. Love you.
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